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adviceformefromme · 2 months
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Fill your life with activities that FILL you up. Not things that fill your friends up, your family up, this is about you and making this year, the most wholesome year of your life yet…
Your favourite author is doing a book tour, go check it out. The women’s conference an 8hr flight away in six months time. Book it. The hiking. The music event, the painting classes. Whatever it is, become a wholesome person. Become a person who lives a life of passion. For yourself first and foremost, and this involves making PLANS. Don’t let this be another year where life passes you by. Where you think about how nice it would be to see your favourite music artist live, but you never booked the tickets, where you think it would be amazing to write that book, but never made time for it. That you think it would be amazing to hike on the weekends, but you didn’t even go. This year is fuelled by loving action. Expansiveness. New experiences, people, connections, your whole world is about to grow.
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purehoneyy · 6 months
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theambitiouswoman · 8 months
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Read This If You Want To Stop Caring About What Other People Think 🧐💭💡
Life is short, and we only get one shot at it. Think about this: someday, when you're 95 years old, do you want to regret not doing what you truly wanted because you were worried about other people's opinions? I don't want that, and I'm sure you don't either.
Here's the thing: people are mostly focused on themselves. They're not dwelling on your actions or thoughts like you might think. Have you ever noticed how you nitpick your own behavior but hardly notice the same things in others? That's because we're all caught up in our own worlds.
Caring about what other people think will hold you back from being your true self and pursuing your true passions. When you're clear about your own path, and actively working towards your goals, other people's opinions become less relevant.
You can't please everyone, and that's perfectly fine. It's impossible to have everyone like you while staying true to yourself. Everyone has their own judgments and biases, often based on their personal experiences. Other people's opinions are just that – opinions, not facts. Their views don't define your worth or identity. Some won't like you no matter what, and that's not a reflection of your worth. Remember that everyone has their own insecurities and struggles. When you see people through a compassionate lens, their judgments lose their power.
Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. Building your self-confidence through accomplishments can help you care less about external validation. Spend time with people who support and uplift you.
Remember, it's your life, and you should live it for yourself, not for the approval of others. Learn to say "no" when necessary and prioritize your well-being over seeking approval from others. Changing your mindset won't happen overnight, but with time and effort, you can make progress. Keep reminding yourself of these key points:
Life is short, so avoid regrets.
People are mostly focused on themselves.
It's okay if not everyone likes you.
Be authentic and true to yourself.
Instead of obsessing over what others think of you, shift your focus to how you feel about yourself. Your self-perception should matter more than anyone else's opinion. Stopping caring about others' opinions isn't easy, but I promise it's worth it. As you continue to remind yourself of these reasons, you'll find more freedom to be the real you. Remember, nobody can be a better "you" than you!
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classycookiexo · 2 months
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aroaceqoutes · 7 months
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When your aromantic and worried abt continuing the bloodline when your fam says this 💚💚
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melissasdreams · 1 month
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To all my fellow trans-sisters out there … Never forget to Live Your Truth. You will always be so much HAPPIER AND MORE FULFILLED AS A WOMAN. Be brave. It will be worth it! #live your truth #melissasdreams
Love, Melissa ⭐️💖🌸❤️🌸⭐️
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⪩⪨ 30 habits to make life better ⪩⪨
Wake up early and enjoy the silence.
Drink a glass of water.
Stretch your muscles and do some exercise.
Meditate or practice gratitude.
Brush your teeth and wash your face.
Make your bed and tidy up your room.
Put on some comfortable and clean clothes.
Eat a healthy and balanced breakfast.
Take your vitamins and supplements.
Read a book or listen to a podcast.
Write down your goals for the day.
Review your calendar and schedule your day.
Check your emails and messages.
Avoid social media and news until later.
Say some affirmations to yourself.
Give a hug to your loved ones.
Pet your furry friends or water your plants.
Pack a healthy lunch for yourself.
Leave early and avoid traffic.
Smile or say hello to people you meet.
Appreciate the beauty of nature and weather.
Greet your colleagues and classmates.
Start with the most important or difficult task.
Take break and stretch a little.
Ask for help or feedback when you need it.
Learn something new or improve a skill.
Celebrate your achievements and progress.
Detox your inbox and gallery regularly.
Always thank your colleagues and friends for their help and support.
Spend quality time with your friends and family.
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morallyinept · 3 months
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"It's a new dawn. It's a new day. It's a new life... For me. And I'm feeling good."
Well, actually no. I haven't been feeling good lately (long story, let's not go there. ✋🏻). And if you haven't felt too good either, that's okay.
Dieter, have you felt good lately?
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Yeah, this year's been a little rough on you at times, hasn't it, bud?
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But, 2024 is going to be my year. The year of Jett! And Dieter's year... yes, I can't forget you, bud.
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And it can be yours too. Because no matter what kind of year you've had, it's never too late to start anew...
To make amends. To pick something back up again that you put down a long time ago. To fall back in love with yourself. To fall in love with someone else.
To not limit your love...
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To find your people. To find yourself. To push yourself. To discover something new. To face your fears. To be emboldened. To take a leap of faith.
To make time for yourself. To say yes. To say no. To say, to hell with it all and go wild. To find new purpose. To find meaning. To find joy.
To ditch the guilt. To ditch the pressure. To do it for you and on your terms. To enjoy what you love. To be loud and proud. To own it.
To be who you are, not who others expect you to be.
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To look up at the stars instead of looking down at your phone. To fuel your body with the things that nourish it instead of poisoning it. To climb a mountain. To dance in the rain, even if you end up dancing alone.
Dance like nobody is watching...
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To chase your dreams. To giggle at your own jokes. To laugh like you've never laughed before. To trust yourself. To guide yourself. To try all the things you want.
To indulge on life and it's offerings...
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To realising that material posessions are fleeting. That money isn't everything. And that love and friendship are worth more than currency or gold.
To realising your value, your worth.
To being a bit selfish and putting you first. To look after your brain, your heart. To trust them both. To have your own back.
(And for goodness sake, look after your back!)
I'm not making any resolutions this year. Instead, I'm making myself a promise. And that's to live, love, to be kind to myself and seize the day, because life, my friends, is hella short.
So, live your best life, unapologetically.
D is telling you to...
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You're only here once; make it count.
Happy New Year from Dieter and myself! 🖤😘
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YOU. ARE. STRONGER. THAN. YOU. THINK. 🖤
Do you. Then do Dieter.
Self-Care With Dieter & Jett
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nurs3lovl3y · 25 days
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bamangoo · 2 months
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Jamaica 🇯🇲 🌴
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phoukanamedpookie · 10 months
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Tina Turner was living proof that the most revolutionary act a Black woman can do is live her best muthafucking life.
Listen to or make whatever music you like. Live where you feel safe and appreciated. As long as nobody gets hurt, date or fuck whoever. Marry them if or when you feel like it. Claim your freedom to live on your own terms, not what someone else thinks you need to be.
Tina Turner was #notyourmule decades before it became a hashtag.
I'm gonna miss the hell outta her.
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anothernewblogger · 6 months
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“Don't make yourself small.
Not for anyone.
If someone tells you
you're too much...
too loud, too sensitive,
too fierce, too caring,
too intellectual, too optimistic,
too realistic, too logical, too emotional...
just smile and move on, my friend.
Clearly, they aren't enough for you.”
L.R. Knost
Laura Daub
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soulinkpoetry · 9 days
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I played it safe for too long and life is too short.
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serenityquest · 10 days
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melissasdreams · 10 months
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I’m sick of reading stories in the media about ‘trans issues’ and stories about whether claims of gender dysphoria are genuine, or whether it’s some sort of fad exploiting vulnerable adolescents, etc. The truth is gender dysphoria is real, and no it’s not a made up “thing”. Some people are born with genitalia inconsistent with their internal identity of self, and it causes misery and anguish beyond belief.
Why the fuck do we as transpeople put up with this? And why should we have to justify our feelings and beliefs to anyone?? If we decide ourselves we were brought up in the wrong gender and we want to change it, what right does anyone else have to question that??? I’m sick of us being required to somehow justify our existence. We’re human beings. No different to anyone else. So if I want to grow breasts, wear a dress and fuck men that’s my business and no one else’s’!
Gay men decided long ago they weren’t going to be social pariahs. We need to do the same!
#live your truth #be valid #fuckwhatotherpeoplethink
Love, Melissa xox 💖❤️⭐️👗🌸
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diorsmuse · 9 months
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