maybe I’m touchy but it gets old to always see meta garnering such rude responses. you’re free to disagree with any interpretation, but when that interpretation is making a claim about authorial intent it’s not polite to engage that way.
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Always hilarious when people complain about fanon!craig being overly macho while fanon!tweek is the twinkiest twink that has ever twinked. My guy, they were literally assigned seme and uke roles in canon. What did you expect
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my brother booked a flight to the us not two weeks after he begged 200 € off me to pay his debts to the bank and it's pissing me off bad ngl. i'm usually happy to give money to my siblings and friends but at this point he is using me it's not like i have that kind of money just lying around like i was struggling this month bc i gave it to him and he decides to invest into an impulsive trip to fucking arizona?? also don't get me started on the way he pulls the same shit on our sister. he heard that she was working full time and decided this was a good opportunity to ask her to cover his semester fees. asking his LITTLE SISTER for the money SHE earned working a job she hates because she was saving up for her own apartment... he really has no shame omfg
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Today's daily male is Mark Bonnar from Real Life!
for @local-posts
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Apparently the trans support group I go to did a little fashion night thing for fun where people could bring their own stuff or use stuff that had been donated and put on a little fashion show (and could take clothes that had been donated if they wanted).
All good fun. Except their were quite a few complaints because they set out donated clothes that were available to use/take, but they only provided feminine clothes.
To clarify, they have masculine clothes that have been donated. They have an entire closet full. But in deciding what to make available for a group of trans kids/young adults, many of whom are trans men/ trans mascs, they decided only to allow feminine clothes.
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Men, brethren, if you are not training your body for physical strength, you are sorely missing out on a large part of your natural potential. You don’t have to be a bodybuilder, a strongman, et cetera. But you should be able to press things over your head, squat, and pull things powerfully. Bonus points for throwing heavy things.
Go forth and be manly.
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I went on a date with a 40-year-old which is the oldest I’ve dated so far and was not prepared for the fact that I did not have to open the car door! That’s lesson number one! But I was ever so slightly tipsy.
He opened it for me to get in and then when we arrived he took off his seatbelt to open it to let me out but I opened my own door and hopped out. Haha awkward! Him taking off his seatbelt was obviously the signal that I was to sit back and wait for him to walk around and open my door.
lts a learning process! Ideally I would like to set the precedent that I am very much accustomed to princess treatment, and that is what will be expected, but the fact is I’m not. I’m very inexperienced after having been in a long term relationship since high school and all through university.
It takes a while to train yourself to expect the most from the men (and women!) that you date when you are used to getting scraps or only getting princess treatment inconsistently. I really only got it when he was in a good mood, or to lure me back in when I was pulling away, now I will have it all the time, forever, or I’ll be single. Those are the only two options.
I am naturally good at showing appreciation though. He sent back a drink he’d paid for just because it had a garnish that I was allergic to that was not listed on the menu. I told him I appreciated that gesture a lot. When you show appreciation it’s a very powerful way of making the person you are dating crave more, they want to get that validation again and again. They associate spoiling you and respecting you with a deep sense of satisfaction. One simple yet specific thank-you and he was beaming for an hour!
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One of my most self-deprecating coworkers has caught on to the fact that I care more about him than he cares for himself. He hasn't connected all the dots yet. I guess I need to be louder about how being nice to yourself improves your life more than you can believe - even though I've been quite clear about that. I shoot down self-depricating comments EVERY time.
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