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spazzypregs · 2 days
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its not summer yet but eh I don't care
bare belly pic is on Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/posts/101174340?pr=true
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saintlermes · 3 days
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Family.
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m0d3rn-l0v3rs · 3 days
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aimomin · 15 hours
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A thorough academical research on how we nap together
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batwingsrosa · 1 day
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Snape is womancoded, yes.
But he is also mothercoded and wifecoded.
(So i have read a few posts about him being womancoded and decided to talk about this myself.)
Let me explain:
Obviously one can point out the way he dresses(,long black robes or a nightgown,)and how catty he is and so on and so on.
Or how long his hair is.
His appaerance alone is pretty womancoded.
And also some of his experiences.
Like his worst memory.
And i‘m not talking about Lily here.
I am talking about what James Potter did to him.
I‘m talking about sexual harrassment.
And how everyone just let‘s it happen. Noone ever talks about it. Because James was such a good guy.
A rich young boy with a bright future ahaid of him.
A promising young man.
i‘m also talking about the werewolf incident.
How he is almost murdered.
And how he is silenced by a man in power.
He is also wifecoded.
He pretty much sells his soul to that man in power, begging on hands and knees for his help, to save his best friend.
And having to serve him for the rest of his life in return.
„Anything“
He tells Dumbledore.
And Dumbledore takes everything.
He has given up his freedom and never regains it.
He always works in the shadows. Never being seen but always their to protect Harry.
Always caring for the child in his own way but never being recognized for it.
Just fulfilling his duty to Dumbledore.
He is never appreciated nor thanked for his work.
Bur he does it anyway.
Until he dies.
He is never believed.
He is instead always silenced.
And not allowed to have his own opinion.
If you look at Snape as the wife/mother and Dumbledore and Harry as the husband and child.
It makes a lot of sense.
Dumbledores opinion is what matters. What he says goes. Snape and Harry have to do as he tells them to.
Snape should do his work without complaining.
He is supposed to raise the child while all the credit goes to Dumbledore.
So yes.
Snape is not only womancoded. He is wife-and mothercoded too.
I said what i said.
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diddiqueen · 3 days
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hi i dont know if a midnight miracle is done with but can you maybe do a part three of the night the baby is born or how ellie & the reader are dealing with motherhood. thank u <3
A midnight miracle (part three)
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A/N: Thank you for your request💞 Sorry I took some time, I have been busy with a lot atm but I hope you like it:)
Part one, part two
BEFORE YOU READ: masterpost on how you can educate yourself on and help Palestine
🩵Motherhood was different from what you had expected, sure you never thought it was gonna be easy, but this was something else
🩵One night in December you woke up, sweat dripping down your back, in pain
🩵The pain almost felt like period cramps, though not as painful and it disappeared as quick as you noticed it so you tried to fall back asleep
🩵Some hours later you woke up again and the cramps had intensified so you walked to the bathroom in search for a painkiller
🩵Just when you reach the bathroom you felt some liquid dripping down your legs even though you didn’t really feel the need to pee
🩵A sound was heard from behind the bathroom door and quickly Ellie came into view
🩵“Hey babe, why are you up? It’s 5 in the morning”. Her voice was raspy and tired
🩵“I think my water broke”
🩵“Oh shit”
🩵Ellie started panicking for a moment before she helped you to prepare the bad you had packed for the birth
🩵It took a couple of hours for the contractions to come regular enough for you to be allowed into the hospital but just when they got - Ellie didn’t hesitate a moment before shoving you into the car and start driving
🩵She hated seeing you in pain, I mean which partner liked to see their lover endure something like that?
🩵When it was finally time to push, Ellie tried to soothe you by talking sweet nonsense but you were really not in the mood
🩵“Shut the fuck up, Ellie”, you yelled at your poor wife
🩵She understood though that you weren’t irritated at her, just that you were so exhausted from the pain
🩵When the baby finally came out, Ellie cried so hard and even more when she saw her baby girl laying on your chest
🩵Finally she had her little family that she had always dreamed of
💝If it was anyone who could compete in the crying challenge it was Joel when he met the baby for the first time
💝He got to hold her and watch her pretty little face as she slept
💝Her fingers where so small and gripped onto his pinky
💝As a gift, Joel had bought her a shirt that said “I have the best grandpa” which he convinced you to let her wear
🌸In the beginning, Ellie felt very insecure as a mother
🌸She had doubts about not being good enough as she never had a mother of her own and that that would make her a bad one for some reason
🌸You comforted her and whispered into her ears how perfect she was with your little girl and how great mum she was as you laid in bed after a long day
🌸Even though they weren’t connected by blood, Ellie still felt a strong connection to her child and it grew stronger when she saw how similar the baby was to you, her wife
🌸After giving birth though, you were exhausted and it took some time, obviously, before you came back into your feet again
🌸Ellie helped you with everything she could and doten on the little baby when you were too tired to
🥕You never really had pregnancy craving but to your surprise, the breastfeeding cravings was crazy for you
🥕Everything from cooked carrots to toasts with moldy cheese and jam, maybe not that crazy
🥕Then it spiraled out of control
🥕You always made Ellie tried all your weird food combinations and make her rate them
🥕“Come on babe”
🥕“I’m not gonna eat rice and chocolate sauce”
🥕“It’s delicious, I promise you”
🥕“You’re disgusting”
🥕“You love it”
🦖For your child’s first Halloween, Ellie obviously dressed her in a dinosaur costume
🦖She begged you to hold the baby so she could take a hundred pictures and send them to Joel
🦖It was her backgrounds photo for a long time
🦖Ellie really loved dressing your girl up and it became her thing as a mother
🦖She adored matching clothes with herself
🦖So now your baby girl looked like a masc lesbian 😭
💞Motherhood definitely wasn’t easy, some days were harder than others but you wouldn’t swap it for anything in the world
💞Your wife and daughter was everything you needed
A/N: 😭😭😭 this is so cute I want a baby (just not the responsibilities) and an Ellie. Also, I have never given birth nor had a child to take care of so sorry if this is inaccurate lol
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loveislovealways · 7 hours
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Carina singing the song she used to sing to Andrea to her son
Station19||Season 7||Episode 3|| part 6
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i-am-aprl · 2 months
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Dr. Deborah Harrington recently spent 2 weeks in a Gaza hospital. “I feel ashamed and shocked that we're doing this to fellow humans," she told @camanpour
There are approximately 50,000 pregnant women in Gaza, and the suffering they're enduring is beyond words. Due to the blockade on Gaza, 50% are anemic and that was before this war.
This means the majority of these mothers are vulnerable to complications.
Genocide convention reads:
any of the following acts committed with intent to destroy, in whole or in part, a national, ethnic, racial or religious group, as such:
(d) Imposing measures intended to prevent births within the group.
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elainiisms · 5 months
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feral-ballad · 6 months
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Andrew McMillan, from Pandemonium; “swan”
[Text ID: “mother don’t eat me / mother I’m trying so hard / to get better”]
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fyblackwomenart · 7 months
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RAHANA DARIAH
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forestpixies · 12 days
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no actually you’re either gentle parenting your child or you’re being emotionally and/or physically abusive to them, whether or not you’re aware of that.
because the term gentle parenting already includes discipline and teaching your kid right from wrong. gentle parenting doesn’t mean you can’t tell your kid no. it means you can tell them no when they do something they shouldn’t, but instead of punishing or yelling at them, you’re explaining and giving them reasons why they can’t do that, you are helping them learn and encouraging them to be better. gentle parenting means you’re using reasons built on mutual respect instead of anger. because yes, no matter how young your child is, they deserve respect too.
I’m sorry but most of the times when someone says they’re a strict parent, what it means is that they give their child childhood trauma that’ll last a lifetime, whether or not they’re aware of it. especially parents who brag to other people about how strict they are and how they punished their children.
and I’m sorry but saying you have a short temper is never an excuse to be emotionally and/or physically abusive towards your kid either.
“I yelled at you because I have a short temper” then why am I the one suffering? if you can’t control your anger, then get help. work on it. do better. be better.
also… your child standing up for themself against you, when you’re being abusive to them, isn’t them being disrespectful towards you. it means they are defending themself because you wouldn’t do that for them and so they had to step in and be their own protector.
if you’re a parent and can defend and stand up for yourself when you feel like you need to, but at the same time punish your kid when they stand up for themself against you, then you are the problem.
I was that child and I’m gonna make it as simple as I can for any parent out there — because no kid deserves to go through what I went through — imagine yourself owning a dog. really. you can either
a.) beat that dog whenever they do something wrong and simply take your anger out on them until they’re fully submissive and are terrified of you
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b.) train them with love and gentleness and earn their love and loyalty in return
now imagine both A and B dogs on leashes and imagine them no longer being on leashes one day. which dog do you think will run away as far as they can and never look back, and which one do you think will stay because they love and want to be with their owner?
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beggars-opera · 3 months
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I have a friend who dislikes her children.
That’s probably unfair, I’m sure she loves them very much, but there is real resentment there. Whether or not she wanted to be a mother is unclear, but her unhappiness sure is. Children are difficult, and if you’re not 100% prepared and enthusiastic about that it is going to be a terrible time for you.
I don’t think she is a bad person. She is frequently overwhelmed by both her family and the stream of idealized social media that makes it sound like everyone else is having a ball. So she goes on Facebook to talk about how miserable she is, how she misses her old life that all her friends seem to still have. It’s probably the only thing keeping her sane, along with her husband who actually loves kids.
This isn’t to shame anyone, but seeing her posts really cements in my mind how I would probably be in the same boat, and how glad I am that I made the decision not to put myself in this position. I would never want to bring another human into this world with the knowledge that they might make me miserable, and that I would likely make them miserable in turn, whether or not I meant to. No innocent child deserves that.
So many people still cling to a mythologized Feminine Instinct that states my uterus gives me more empathy, gives me more patience, gives me a duty that I can’t reject. They say that choosing to be childless is more selfish than having a child that you are unable to care for, that you will dislike. If those people saw the pain of those unsuited for motherhood I hope they would change their minds, but they never will.
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ilikeit-art · 8 months
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