#mutligender

[blood-moon-night-coining]

Multigender Genderfuckoff Terms

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Multigenfuckoff, a genderfuckoff subterm that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing to tell them to "Fuck off!" Being Mutligender and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as Mutligender and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being Mutligender and being done explaining yourself.

Bigenfuckoff, a genderfuckoff subterm that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing to tell them to "Fuck off!" Being Bigender and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as Bigender and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being Bigender and being done explaining yourself.

Trigenfuckoff, a genderfuckoff subterm that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing to tell them to "Fuck off!" Being Trigender and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as Trigender and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being Trigender and being done explaining yourself.

Polygenfuckoff, a genderfuckoff subterm that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing to tell them to "Fuck off!" Being Polygender and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as Polygender and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being Polygender and being done explaining yourself.

Pangenfuckoff, a genderfuckoff subterm that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing to tell them to "Fuck off!" Being Pangender and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as Pangender and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being Pangender and being done explaining yourself.

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[Tagging] @radiomogai, @liom-archive, and @accessmogai

[Genderfuckoff Maker] @acetrappolaswife

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[schadenfreudich]

I'm really great at being a bisexual. All women I have sex with are men.

[revenant-coining]

Dysirgirl

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Dysirgirl: a gender (& possible dysphorigirl (link) subterm) for identifying as a girl, but also feeling dysphoric about it/being perceived/associated as a girl, due to: not being aligned with femininity and/or woman-hood, being alterhuman/nonhuman, being genderqueer, being mutligender, being genderweird, being genderfluid, etc.

Etymology: dys(phoria), “ir” latin for not, girl

for anon!

@radiomogai , @thecoffeecrew404

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[redacted-coiner]

Bigender, Mutligender, Pangender

Trigender, Polygender, Omnigender

Genderfluid, Abrogender, Genderflux

Multigender go brrrr

DNI is listed within my pinned post. Please go read it before interacting with any part of my content. Ask to tag!

[impunkster-syndrome]

Like it or not, your feminism has to care about all men to be truly for gender equality. Not just trans men and mascs. Not just mutligender men. Not just sexually queer men. Not just POC and BIPOC men. All men. Including straight, white, cishetallo men. If you're looking for a reason to not care about a specific group of people based on traits they cannot control like their gender, you're not actually a feminist. You have to care about all of them. They are people. You don't have to want to fuck them or care about them romantically or platonically. All you have to do is acknowledge that they are still people who are impacted by systems that hurt us all and no one is unscathed.

I had to hide being transmasc while I was homeless for me to even get a chance to be able to apply to shelters because the only ones in my area were women's shelters. There's practically no domestic violence help for men and mascs.

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Today’s Gender of the Day is: Nonbinary Woman!

A nonbinary woman is someone who has experiences with both womanhood and being nonbinary, whether that means experiencing womanhood in a queer way, having a nonbinary identity that is female-aligned, being a woman in a fluid or fluctuating way, and many others. This identity falls under the nonbinary, genderera, and fiaspec umbrellas.

Nonbinary women can have any set of pronouns, be aligned with any gender or no gender, and may present in a variety of ways. This term can be used as a label on its own, but it can also be an umbrella term for many different kinds of gendered experiences. Some nonbinary women are genderfluid or genderflux, while others are mutligender or even genderless. Nonbinary women are not atuomatically woman-aligned, feminine-aligned, or neutral-aligned and instead can experience many aspects of alignment or even none at all.

Identities that fall under nonbinary woman can include demigirl, agenderera, agender woman, gxrl, gender nonconforming woman, genderfae, girlflux, librawoman, neutrafemale, girlby, xirl, azurgirl, gynx, and more.

[the-amber-droid-dreams]

wait so not aggressive or trying to start a full blown debate here but in regards to your last post, what is an mspec lesbian? i've also heard the term thrown around in twitter discourse and the like but still have no clue wtf it is if you could explain in like,, very simplified terms i'd really appreciate that

ofc anon ! always happy to help

this post is usually my go to for definitions, resources, exclu talking points, and history but ill try to expand a bit on those definitions here with my own experiences to help along and make it more understandable

(its gonna be a long post though sorry, its kinda hard to make it short while also making it as understandable as possible !)

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oh and quick note : mspec stands for multi attraction spectrum aka labels like bi, pan, omni, etc. NOT for male spectrum

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Split attraction

Yk how ace ppl arent always aro ? Thats called split attraction, and its not just an ace thing. Some ppl are for example homoromantic bisexual or panromantic homosexual and might call themselves mspec lesbians. Personally, im romantically attracted to all genders but sexually attracted to only women !

Mspec lesbian is easier, quicker, and more comfortable to say than the whole "mspecromantic homosexual". Plus barely anyone calls themself a homosexual anymore unless its a joke or theyre a "homosexual female" terf which is,,, yuck

Huge preference towards women

Some ppl like multiple genders but their attraction towards men is so rare that theyre functionally a lesbian

The only time i was ever attracted to a man (in a non comphet way) was a purely romantic crush at 14

I dont want to completely ignore that side of me, bc i Am mspec and i do have the potential to be attracted to all genders, but at the end of the day, my attraction to women is much more frequent and important to me

Calling myself a lesbian just makes sense to me. It communicates what i want it to which is "i like women"

Im not sure ill ever like a man again, so calling myself just mspec feels a bit strange to say the least nor does it communicate what i want

Calling myself both mspec And a lesbian is like saying "i like women !! ,,,and maybe more" which is the most accurate and true to myself

Liking multiple genders that dont include men / Liking women and nonbis

"But nonbis are included in lesbianism !!" and youd be right to say that ! However, not all nonbis are comfortable being put under the lesbian label

Also, lots of ppl seem to define lesbianism as "attraction to women and nonmen" which is,,, not a great definition and just creates a new binary

Nonbis come in a million different flavors and not all of them fit in the "non men" category. What abt transmascs, genderfluid ppl who are sometimes men, and mutligender ppl who are part men ? Are they included in lesbianism ? If not, what do you call someone whos attracted to women and all nonbis but not binary men ?

For a lot of people, the answer to those questions is mspec lesbianism

Reclamation of historical definition

Lesbian didnt always mean exclusive attraction to women. It was used a lot more like sapphic is today. However, this changed with the rise of political lesbianism and lesbian seperatism

Political lesbianism is a political theory that was spearheaded by cis white lesbian terfs in the 60s and 70s, such as Sheila Jeffreys. Its the idea that sexuality is a choice, and that women should choose to be lesbians to free themselves from the patriarchy. It considered lesbians to be ideologically superior to wlm

Lesbian seperatism is a severe form of political lesbiansnism, and is the idea that women should have little to no contact with men at all

This hurt a lot of ppl including mspec women (for liking men), trans women (for being amab) and woc (for working with men of color towards liberation)

It was gross all around and mspecs were pushed out of their own communities. After all that and stonewall, we started getting more bi exlusive groups and orgs which is really wonderful ! Still, some ppl werent too happy and chose to call themselves lesbians or bi lesbians regardless

The trend of reclamation has been ongoing since then and theres tons of historical examples

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theres some other definitions like fluid attraction and questioning between mspec and lesbian but i think those cover the main ones !

if you have any questions, or would like me to clear anything up dont hesitate to ask :]

[amatopunkish]

i kind of hate how often nonbinary are just tacked to the binary of women and men on as an extra third gender. like always this harsh binary and then "hiiii nonbinary people!" thrown on the end. like. ok. idk it feels a bit alienating and monolithic.

i hear it from cis people and i hear from binary trans people. and like cmon ppl :/ really?? i find that attitude strange bc it feels like more and more people i know are discovering themselves outside of the binary, even just slightly outside of it, or with one of their feet out of the harsh box of the harsh gender binary box.

i've always seen nonbinary as an umbrella term that falls beneath the umbrella of transness, so it's so weird to see ppl viewing it as seperate from transness or less legitimate than transness.

or even just, people acting like because nonbinary people identify outside of the gender binary gendered expectations don't apply to or affect them??? that is bizarre. nonbinaryness gets treated sometimes as an absence of gender entirely, and like. cmon ppl.. we're all living in the same heavily gendered society. do you really think identifying as nonbinary suddenly makes you exempt from being affected by gender stereotypes or expectations in any way?

also i swear to dog if i have to see one more person go like "hi women!! hi nonbinary ppl!! ugh... hello men.." i am going to fucking combust.

sincerely, a mutligendered nonbinary transmasc

[thebigendercosmonaut]

Bigender Resources (Updated 11/23/2023)

► What is Bigender? “Bigender, bi-gender, or sometimes dual-gender/dual-gendered, is a gender identity under the multigender, nonbinary, and transgender umbrella terms. Bigender people have two [or more] different specific gender identities, either at the same time, or at different times.” When there is no fluidity or shifting between the genders, it is called ambigender.

► Bigender 101 and Similar Terms: Bigender on the Nonbinary Wiki Polygender on the Nonbinary Wiki Genderfluid on the Nonbinary Wiki Ambigender on the Nonbinary Wiki Androgyne on the Nonbinary Wiki Ambonec on the Nonbinary Wiki Demigender on the Nonbinary Wiki Femache coining post Bigender on Wikipedia

► Community Resources: bigender.net forums r/Bigender on reddit talking-bigender on tumblr bigendering on tumblr bigender-culture-is on tumblr your-bigender-big-brother (YB3) on tumblr bigendersupport on Instagram Gender flowchart by bigendering Click-through version of the above

► Discord Servers: bigenders multigenders The Polygender Palace (18+)

► Artists: YB3 zine on Instagram Bigender products on Etsy Bigender products on Redbubble Polygender products on Etsy

(Support queer artists always!)

►Similar Identities in Other Cultures: Ardhanarishvara, the Hindu deity Hijra, an Indian gender identity Two-Spirit, a pan-Indian gender identity Gender identities in Thailand Bishōnen, an androgynous Japanese identity Yīnyáng rén (陰陽人), a reclaimed Chinese slur for intersex people

► General Info: The Nonbinary Wiki Other Multigender Identities

Please feel free to contact me to add new resource links to this post or correct any misinformation. This post will be updated with more information as I find it. Keep in mind that the creator of this post is bigender emself. ⚡

[fjorrd]

i love being in anthropology classes and being trans and queer and gnc and mutligendered and getting to the gender chapter

[sunnymeddows]

Support comes in so many forms.

Mine is my little sister, Reilly. I came out to her as genderfucked back in 2015 and she was supportive then and even more so now. She's my attack dog when my mom and step-dad misgender me and misname me and scolds them when they talk about how difficult it is for them to remember what my name is or that they have to explain to their bigoted relatives and friends that their daughter is their son (which I just gave up on the whole "non-gendered" thing with my mom because she just can't grasp that gender is a fucking concept created by colonial fucks to erase mutligender identities and religious practices in favor for their white Catholicism, but never mind that).

My sister never complains. She asks me what my pronouns are every now and then to check in and then even checks to make sure aunt or uncle is good for her kid to call me and accepts and uses both around her kid when I say I'm comfortable with both and that using both is a good way to break down gendered language around the next generation. She gets it. And I'm so proud of who she's become.

[devilboyblues]

i hope terfs dont use the fact that im both a man* and a trans woman to invalidate trans women.. this is just my personal situation and like... i can be both. its called being mutligender

*i dont fully identify with the binary genders- more like aligned. but if someone called me a man or a woman it wouldn't bug me. its like... close enough

[revenant-coining]

Immotman

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Immotman: a term for being a trans man while not being a man. this includes nonbinary, mutligender, demigender, & transemphatic experiences.

Etymology: “immo” latin for yes & no, t(rans), man

for anon!

@radiomogai , @thecoffeecrew404

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[acewlws]

Shoutout to all my mutligender attracted wlw who are figuring out if their attraction to men is compulsory heterosexuality or not Your love for women is not lesser or cheapened because of your attraction to other genders!! ❤️💛💚💙💜

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Today’s Gender of the Day is: Nonbinary Man!

A nonbinary man is someone who has experiences with both manhood and being nonbinary, whether that means experiencing manhood in a queer way, having a nonbinary identity that is male-aligned, being a man in a fluid or fluctuating way, and many others. This identity falls under the nonbinary, gendervir, and miaspec umbrellas.

Nonbinary men can have any set of pronouns, be aligned with any gender or no gender, and may present in a variety of ways. This term can be used as a label on its own, but it can also be an umbrella term for many different kinds of gendered experiences. Some nonbinary men are genderfluid or genderflux, while others are mutligender or even genderless. Nonbinary men are not atuomatically man-aligned, masculinee-aligned, or neutral-aligned and instead can experience many aspects of alignment or even none at all.

Identities that fall under nonbinary man can include demiboy, agendervir, agender man, bxy, gender nonconforming man, genderfaun, boyflux, libraman, neutramale, enboy, xoy, rosboy, androx, and more.