#my sisters: if men's acceptance of you is conditional on performing gender a certain way
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I love how people (particularly men) think they get a free pass to be misogynistic when their target is the "pick-me girl", a phrase which increasingly means nothing
#misogyny#feminism#when you're bashing a group of girls/women for wanting male approval: you yourself are doing that for male approval#because why else are you doing it? for whom are you doing it?#you're not doing it for the benefit of *women*; that's for sure#only the patriarchy benefits from this nonsense#and what's suuuper annoying is when people pit the so-called 'pick-me girl' against 'the girl who is actually one of the guys'#my sisters: if men's acceptance of you is conditional on performing gender a certain way#then men don't actually value you!!#they will discard you the moment you fail to live up to their vision of 'acceptable womanhood'!!#you could be spending your time promoting genuine sisterhood#but instead you are tearing other women down for being victims of the patriarchy!!#you are as much a victim!! you are as much subject to patriarchy!!#and again: when men do it#it's literally just misogyny#there is no feminist backing to what these men are doing#they just. hate. women.#quit wasting your time trying to get their validation#and start building relationships with other women#j'en ai marre
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