#neopronoun validation

[neopronouns-list]

hi ! If you’re still doing affirmations / validation, would you mind doing one for me? I’m jamie, and my pronouns currently are they/them, ey/em, and star/stars. I like baking, drawing, and I’ve been really invested in journaling lately.

thank you ! ✨

sorry this took so long!

this is jamie, ey is really cool! they like baking, which is really cool of star. personally, i am terrible at baking, but eys surely great at it, which makes star even more cool! they also like drawing, i wonder what star draws. jamie also does journaling, which sounds rly cool tbh. i hope theyre having fun with that and that star has a great day!

[strawberrynurse]

Hello!

This is my blog!

I do name and pronouns suggestions and validations!

My name is Ricky. I use he/bite/rot/soup pronouns mainly. Unless I am stressed, then I used Hive and honey/sting/buzz/bumble/bee/sting/flower.

I want to help trans people, questioning people, writers etc.

[lgbtq-userboxes]

[residenttransguy]

Someone going by neopronouns (even ones you don't like) does not mean that you use they/them pronouns instead!

It means that you use the person's pronouns!!

[cube-cumb3r]

while im at it neopronoun opposition is weird to me as a swedish person.. the whole debate is so anglocentric that they assume every language landed on the same solution they did, to reuse a plural pronoun as a gender neutral one and then they think any other solution is absurd or unheard of. what do you mean you just made another pronoun up you cant do that!! etc

coz its like here in the 2014 the swedish academy accepted 3rd person pronoun "hen" (as opposed to hon/han) like officially into our word list after it gained some popularity in the 2010s. like that is a NEOPRONOUN that someone just Came Up With in like the 60s and then people just started using it and now its just a recognized part of our language. sure we could've also reused our plural pronoun "de/dem" as a gender neutral one but we just made up a new one instead. and to like imply that mainstream use of a neopronoun is just UNHEARD OF and that neopronouns is something the mainstream could NEVER GET USED TO EVER!!! is... your perspective is very limited to the english speaking world is all i can say

[coriander-name-checks]

can u do a check with impulse n imp/imps and (separate paragraph preferably) xornoth n goat/goats ? i like pokemon, mcyt n minecraft ! got pretty into sorting pokemon into different genuses as well :)

Of course Xornoth! I apologize for the wait!

Impulse, imp/imps:

I got an ask from Impulse a while ago! I apologize to imp for taking so long, I hope it ends up being worth the wait for imp! Imp likes Pokemon; imp even used to sort Pokemon into genuses! I wonder if imp picked out a favorite for impself? I have a hard time picking favorites because I love so many of them, I bet imp feels the same. Imp also enjoys Minecraft! I like to do architecture in Minecraft, I wonder what imps favorite thing to do is? Imp also mentioned liking mcyt; maybe imp likes Hermitcraft! I hope Impulse feels gender euphoria today and takes care of impself!

Xornoth, goat/goats:

I got an ask from Xornoth a while ago! I apologize to goat for taking so long, I hope it ends up being worth the wait for goat! Goat likes Pokemon; goat even used to sort Pokemon into genuses! I wonder if goat picked out a favorite for goatself? I have a hard time picking favorites because I love so many of them, I bet goat feels the same. Goat also enjoys Minecraft! I like to do architecture in Minecraft, I wonder what goats favorite thing to do is? Goat also mentioned liking mcyt; maybe goat likes Hermitcraft! I hope Xarnoth feels gender euphoria today and takes care of goatself!

[lemon-penguinn]

I'm nonbinary. People, in general, do not tend to see me as a trans person, even though I identify as one.

Everyone usually thinks of me as a girl. A cis girl who has decided to pass herself off as a nonbinary person, or a trans boy, simply because she thinks it's "trendy". A cis girl who wants to be part of a community because she feels lonely. And that's because, by many people's standards, I just "don't look trans", whatever that means. I guess it's simply because my gender expression is not rigid. It changes.

Deep down, I feel like a stereotype: a teenager with a female body who claims to be a boy but occasionally wears dresses and skirts comfortably. In the eyes of others, perhaps, I am nothing more than a cis girl infiltrating trans spaces. I'll be honest: I've cried over this very situation many times, because, what am I to do about it?

Do I have to change and stick to the gender role that is expected of someone like me? Do I really have to change the way I show myself just because I'm not a girl, but I also don't perceive myself fully as a boy?

I think that's ridiculous.

In the end, saying that "if you are nonbinary you have to be androgynous" is something that perpetuates stereotypes and gender roles. It's like telling a trans girl that, to be a real girl, she has to wear a skirt - it makes no sense. Do all girls only ever wear skirts and dresses? Do all boys only ever wear black, loose tank tops?

Of course they don't.

My expression, my tastes, my clothes, my voice, and the way I act do NOT determine my gender identity at all, just like my private parts. Because I believe that gender is a part of us. Not a part of our body, our clothes or our personality. It's true, though, that our gender identity can influence those other things. I think that's why certain actions or concepts make us dysphoric or euphoric: because our gender influences whether we perceive positively or negatively those things that affect us.

But, until the day most of society can understand that gender isn't a rigid set of rules, nonbinary people will remain generally perceived as no more than "girls who want attention" (if we live in a female body) and "weird boys" (if we live in a male body). We do not exist. Breaking out of binarism is seen as a phase that will end once we grow up. Because, apparently, many people think that being nonbinary is something that doesn't exist in the adult world.

[artsyaech]

y'all, i just watched some right-wing youtuber's fucking rant about how queer people aren't valid and i have no fucking idea why i did that. now i feel like shit. but i'm here to prove a point to myself, nobody else, just myself.

like / reblog if you support all of the following:

non-binary people

non-binary gays and lesbians

people who go by they/them

people who go by neopronouns (xe/xyr, ae/aer, etc)

people who go by it/its pronouns

people who go by nounself pronouns (doll/dolls, koi/kois)

people who go by emojipronouns

people who have pronounhoards

people who go by any pronouns

masculine non-binary people

masculine non-binary people who were assigned male at birth

feminine non-binary people

feminine non-binary people who were assigned female at birth

non-binary / genderqueer men

non-binary / genderqueer women

non-binary / genderqueer people who "look" non-binary (dyed hair, piercings, alternative fashion, so on)

non-binary / genderqueer people who don't "look" non-binary

non-binary / genderqueer people that want / are going through / have gone through gender-affirming care

non-binary / genderqueer people who don't want gender-affirming care

that's about it for now

[your-rutherfurr]

"You can't identify as an angel hybrid and be agender and at the same time identify with 178 xenogenders and use xeno/neopronouns and have all these little microlabels thats so chronically online!!😡"

Me:

[the-100-percent]

All of our pronouns put together :D

He/She/They/It/Hy/Clown/Glorp/Pink/Xe + any neos

Could other systems do this as well it'd be funny to see how many pronouns there'd be lol

-🐤

[thecorvidforest]

look i get the spirit but can y’all please stop referring to all people who use neopronouns & xenogenders as “just kids who want to express themselves”? like yeah some of us are kids but a lot of us are adults, myself included, and i’m getting pretty sick of well-meaning allies accidentally insinuating that our gender identities & expressions are childish. thanks

[solstice-eclipze]

♡ ~ Animationmemenostalgic / Animatememenostalgic

⤷ "Animationmemenostalgic is a xenogender identity that's related to animation memes, tweening, animating, meme music/songs, the animation era, 2018/2019 nostalgia, or generally nostalgia overall. This gender could feel musical, bouncy, animated, nostalgic, euphoric, etc."

Coined (made) by me. Add credits if reposted.

[lgbtq-userboxes]

[sirenium]

If you're against self diagnosis, that's ableist. If you're against neopronouns and xenogenders, that's ableist (neurotypical allistics use those things as well, but it's commonly used as a tool by neurodivergent people to express their gender. Myself included).

If you preach about 'narcissistic abuse', you're being ableist. If you say autism isn't a disability, that's ableism (it's a spectrum disorder for a reason!) if you fakeclaim people, that's fucking ableist.

If you use a crazy font or typing quirk and don't provide plain text translations, that's ableist, and so is not adding banner IDs for your DNI banners and similar stuff. Edit for this one: if you can't do these things for any reason, that isn't being ableist; I mostly had people who refuse to do these things cuz it'll ruin their 'aesthetic' in mind.

Feel free to add on.

[cvntkisser]

some men be like im a sigma/alpha male and i hate beta males and use bro/dude/blud to refer to people instead of traditional pronouns but if i told them that creating new catagories of men is creating new genders and that by calling themselves a sigma/alpha male they are identifying as a neogender and by not using he/she/they and using bro/dude/blud as a replacement they are gramatically using neopronouns they would call me a slur.

[sweaty-confetti]

literally in conservatives’ eyes all trans people are the worst kind of trans people. feminine trans guys who don’t go on T or surgery are actually just cis girls fetishizing gay men and are faking being trans for attention. big hairy trans guys with beards and deep voices are creepy mean predatory guys who Mutilated™️ their bodies. hyperfem trans girls with dresses and feminizing surgeries are fetishizing womanhood and are actually creepy sexual cross dressers. masculine trans girls with 5 o’ clock shadows and body hair are disgusting men who invade lesbian spaces and “don’t even make an effort to pass”. nonbinary afab folks are gross girls trying to appear superior to womanhood and nonbinary amab folks are predatory fetishizers trying to invade  Real Trans spaces. neopronoun and xenogender folks are nasty cis people misinterpreting transness and cringe gross weirdos. moral of the story is fuck around with gender and fuck around with bigots, because bigots aren’t gonna like you regardless. trying to make your identity palatable and respectable very rarely works, and when it does, it’s able to be revoked the Moment you do something “weird” or “cringe” or “gross.” you can do whatever you want forever and i love you for it.