#nonbinary man

[ftm-radio]

[SCENE: driving back from my appointment]

dad: ...am I going to have to teach you how to shave?

me: uh yeah! at some point, lol

dad: hm. well I can show you the way I prefer, with mug soap and a brush, because the aerosol cans are just no. I showed your brother my way and he likes it a lot better too...

dad: [rambles for a bit]

dad: ...it's really just another chore, you look in the mirror and go 'ugh I have to shave soon' so it's just one of those things you do every once in a while

me, externally: haha yeah, I can't wait :]

me, internally: he's talking about this like it's no big deal, it's not weird at all,,, he doesn't mind the idea of teaching me despite the fact that he never expected to be doing this with me,,,, he's my dad and he supports me even if he doesn't completely get it,,,

[st-dionysus]

Gang, I am looking for a photograph I know exists, but I can not find. It is a historic black and white photo of a group of butches/transmen with a sign that say's "Who says there are no boys in Chaigao" (I believe, in reference to the draft)

[intersexfairy]

there is no shame in being a queer man. there is no shame in being a femme, a butch, a bear, a twink, etc. there is no shame in doing drag. there is no shame in being an intersex, trans, gnc, or nonbinary man. there is no shame in having sex traits that are deemed "female" as a man, or lacking one's deemed "male." there is no shame in not feeling attraction as a man. there is no shame in having multiple partners as a man. there is no shame in being gay, lesbian, or multisexual as a man. the list goes on and on.

all queer manhood is beautiful. all queer manhood deserves celebrating and visibility and protecting. there is so much joy and freedom inside us, and our existence makes the world a better place. we are not shameful - not in the slightest.

[ford-ftm-150]

Trans men, transmasc folks, & anyone else to whom this applies

I’m curious how many people wear a binder &/or wear a packer. Always = daily or almost daily, often = around half the time, & never = not at all or almost never. Pick whichever option is closest to your experiences.

If you have had top &/or bottom surgery choose the option that reflects what you did before surgery. People with a more complex experience of gender (genderfluid, multigender, butch, etc.) that affects their desire to bind or pack feel free to elaborate on that in the tags.

Reblogs to boost sample size are appreciated!

[genderqueerdykes]

i've seen a lot of people express the worry that they can't claim they're nonbinary until they start hormones or get surgery. i just wanted to say this absolutely isn't true. you don't even have to change your presentation, the way you dress, the way you speak or act, or anything. you don't have to change anything to be able to claim that you're nonbinary. you are a nonbinary person from the moment you realize and accept it. it's okay to call yourself nonbinary before transition. it's okay to call yourself nonbinary if you never transition

[sydsixxftm]

Masculinity comes in many forms, here's to celebrating them all 🏳️‍⚧️

[brokenfoxproductions]

It's always going to suck knowing that people around me will always see me as less than a man because I don't have a dick and my voice is really high.

And yeah, I'm nonbinary and trans masc, and I don't pack and don't care about passing, but if the cis gay men around me are allowed to identify as men in dresses or drag, even if they tuck, even if they have high voices, I should be allowed to be comfortable and be seen a man as well. It shouldn't matter how I sound or if my dick is natural or silicone, or even if I just don't have one.

[milocelium]

moment of vulnerability: as a transmasc nonbinary person I have very low self esteem and struggle to love myself and my body. I am scared that I come off as annoying, rude, socially awkward, and have a very hard time accepting that someone could be attracted to not just my body but my personality as well.

If you've struggled or are struggling with this can you please share anything that has helped you?

If you are a transmasc person in a relationship (sexual or romantic) can you please share because I feel like i rarely see transmasc rep in romance and it doesn't help discourage the idea that im unlovable.

[vlada-slavik]

LGBTQIA+ CAT PROFILE PICTURES [ pt 7 ]

Free to use, just credit if you can!

Don't see yours? Check the #lgbtcatpfp !

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[v-rg1l]

I so deeply love trans people it is hard to express I love us like I love the stars, the way the summer loves the monsoon winds, the way the spring loves the flowers, the way sidewalks love the fallen leaves and the way life loves the sun. I love us all, even if here i speak specifically to trans mascs, I love every single one of us dearly. You are Loved.  

I love trans men, trans mascs, I love us when we have full chests and when we have flat ones, I love us in skirts and suits and shorts and pants and dresses that flow like a stream. I love us in binders in bras pre post and no op i love us with deep growly voices like the rushing waterfalls and I love us with gentle voices like birdsong on the wind and I am so in love. 

I love fat trans men I love thin trans men I love us toned and muscular I love us soft and squishy I love us so deeply. I love disabled trans mascs I love mentally ill trans men I love chronically ill trans men I love Black trans mascs I love Indigenous trans men I love Asian trans men I love European trans mascs I love mixed trans mascs love us all so dearly I can barely take it. 

I love us with scars and I love us with freckles and I love us with acne i love us with facial hair, with beards and mustaches and stubble that just won’t seem to grow out but it will love I promise and you’ll be so handsome and even if it doesn’t you glow like the mid afternoon sun hasn’t anyone told you ? You are beautiful, to your very core. 

I love sunny and bright trans men who reflect the colours of the rainbow like a prism I love scene and goth and punk and alternative trans mascs I love plain trans men who wear t shirts and shorts I love showy trans men in their frilly shirts and corsets. 

I love us roaring with laughter and crying out in anger I love us singing until our throats are hoarse I love us in the waves of pleasure I love us in the quiet content like sitting on the earth as the gentle breeze tickles our skin. 

I love us in love, I love us who have one, two, any number of partners or no partners at all I love us no matter what faith we hold I love us without any faith at all I love us who feel the energy of the universe and I love us who do not. 

I love us taking part in the joy of creation i love us who create art i love us who build cars or fix roofs i love us who educate i love us in theatre and music i love us making scientific developments i love us in hardware software the brilliant machine that is the human body I love us saving lives I love us creating new ones I love us so much. 

I love us like we hung the stars and the planets I am so in love I feel as though the word cannot possibly contain the true and full depth of my feelings for us. I do not have the vocabulary to thoroughly express how much I love us, how deeply in love i am with being trans. 

There is so much more I could add but if you are trans, if you are a trans man or are trans masc or anything at all I love you so much. We will be happy, we will thrive. We are beautiful and valuable and we are, dare I say it, divine. You do not have to make it into the history books to be so valuable. You are of the greatest worth of anything for simply being. I wish you nothing but happiness and a life that you love.  Be well, you who I gladly share my soul with. You are more than words could ever describe.

[genderstarbucks]

whats it called when ur only attracted to nonbinary men?

Nbymasexual / Nbywomasexual!!

Nbymaromantic is a term for those who are exclusively romantically attracted to nonbinary men / enboys / menbys / masculenbys. This says nothing about their sexual orientation.

Nbymasexual is a term for those who are exclusively sexually attracted to nonbinary men / enboys / menbys / masculenbys. This says nothing about their romantic orientation.

Nbywomaromantic is a term for those who are exclusively romantically attracted to nonbinary women / girlbys / fenbys / femienbys. This says nothing about their sexual orientation.

Nbywomasexual is a term for those who are exclusively sexually attracted to nonbinary women / girlbys / fenbys / femienbys. This says nothing about their romantic orientation.

[ftm-radio]

so I found this ⤵️ on pinterest...

...and went down a bit of a rabbit hole, found a neat article/blog post about it (did you know these babies are from 1884???!?! ), went on the pronoun dressing room, et cetera...

and idk, I'm very happy with he/him and they/them, I wasn't really interested in searching for any other pronouns (neos are cool but don't do much for me, personally) but thon/thons has kinda snuck up on me and I'm just like

oh??? 👀

so I think I might add these to my collection, as a little treat! I figure they'll probably be more of an online special, at least for the time being, but yeah. kinda doing a test run with 'em. :)

aaaaaaand here's a bonus usage chart thing I nabbed off of the pronouns wiki !!

[ybne]

It was pride in my city yesterday

I’m part of the group that started and organizes reclaim pride in my city

We organized a potluck for queer people this year (as we didn’t start to plan until very late this year), to socialize and get to know more people, increase the chance to build community

We also walked under the queer anarchist flag in the parade

Was at the pride party last night, someone gave me a glow stick, couldn’t resist

[intersexfairy]

shoutout to the trans and nonbinary men, mascs, etc. who were AMAB (or not AFAB). you dont get enough love, let alone recognition. you deserve better and i absolutely adore your gender. i am giving you the biggest hug, if you want one. double hug if you're intersex.

[neopronouns]

flag id: a flag with 4 stripes, which are light golden yellow, white, medium dark teal, and dark sky blue. end id.

banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.

a version of this nonbinary boy/man flag in the nonbinary flag's format for anon!

dni link

[sydsixxftm]

Being a hairy overweight he/him dyke f'ing rules! I am so hot