#or assume the worst about me as a person

[cemeterything]

okay fine i'll read homestuck. whatever. i've cracked i can't take it anymore i need to fuck around and find out.

[thermodynamic-comedian]

imagine ianthe's suffering rn. its so funny to me. girl all u wanted was power and i respect that but turns out that the side effect of power isnt the moral implications or whatever, its dealing with god's personal drama.

[cactoo-the-cactus]

l + ratio + your takes are BADD! + amane is innocent + why are you beefing with a traumatized 12 year old + DUDE? + what’s wrong with you

That is a very easy question my friend. You see, I don't have beef with the 12 yo, I have beef with her crazy inovoters 🤷‍♀️. Personally I wanted a 50/50 became I don't think either a guilty (it might make her worst) or innocent (it reinforces her cult beliefs) verdict will help her in the long run. But after seeing people started name-calling and bashing everybody who DEARS have a different opinion than them and vote her guilty, saying you're a horrible person, saying you don't care about neurodivergent people and victims of abuse, wishing on people they never speak with abuse victims because they made a joke about her being guilty 💀 (this literally happened to a friend of mine WHO IS ACTUALLY A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC ABUSE HERSELF together with her mother and sister) etc. I got really pissed off. So in conclusion, I started spite voting, it's that simple 🤷‍♀️

[steamanband]

I think about those old men a lot

[thiefscant]

the thing abt anaistarion is that i DO absolutely Ship It and am excited to explore it in every form. but i’m p sure i’ve done a good job not forcing that on any of my mutes who write astarion. at least i have tried bc i get what it’s like to write a character who’s so popular and i don’t want my partners to feel like i only value them or their portrayals for the shipping opportunities. like just bc i’m upfront about my ship biases on the dash/in personal headcanons doesn’t mean i will forceship in practice, y’know? it was the assumption that i must also be doing that which rubbed me the worst abt the anons i received. i don’t like the feeling of being willfully misunderstood (or maliciously misrepresented). otherwise i just found them funny.

[coldasyou]

tbh I feel like everyone in this fandom assumes stuff about taylor and her relationships and it just depends on how an individual interprets it so idk why anyone here gets high and mighty about being like the CORRECT level of "parasocial" lmao

[fleshdyke]

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[ultimate-sword-showdown]

Genuinely thank you so much to everyone who submitted swords and otherwise helped me boost the tournament after my whining and complaining yesterday I love you all so much

We're now up to 72 submissions which is a MUCH more comfortable number. This is a number I could hold a tournament with!!

[ftmtftm]

Hey I like your posts. I hope people aren’t uncomfortably parasocial in your ask box anymore. Have a good one

Thank you - I appreciate the sentiment.

Honestly? I'm probably just gonna publish the ask I've been working on answering tomorrow and then take a break for a few days. That ask is triggering something in me and I need to take time sort out that feeling.

[always-andromeda]

Sometimes I remember that I’ve gone out of my way to give love to people who really didn’t deserve it and gosh it really hits me just how much I’ve learned about my own boundaries in just the last year alone.

[esta-elavaris]

Thinking the suprisingly wholesome thing about tumblr (and when I do a yearly IG anon thing with the NGL app, too) is that so, so few people use it to be absolute shits.

Like, 99% of the time (unless you're burdened with being a really big creator and in that case I pray for you), people use it because they're just a wee bit shy about being nice off-anon? And like same, bestie, I get it, but it makes me think of how many times I've been somewhere and I've noticed that someone has like, a gorgeous jacket or an amazing look or whatever and I'm so tempted to compliment them on it, but I am socially anxious and I don't want to be weird or creepy or I'm worried about their reaction being bad, so I say nothing? And the person never even knows that I was sitting like 😍 for a good thirty seconds debating on complimenting them. And then you realise how many people have probably had that exact same feeling around you, so they just sort of quietly admire and move on because slipping an anonymous note into someone's jacket being like "your vibe is God Tier" is serial killer behaviour.

With the IG thing, for example, I remember a friend who I have a very joke-y banter relationship with used it as a chance to be like 'I never say this because we don't talk like that but I really respect and admire you and I'm glad we're friends" and it just stopped me in my tracks bc it's so easy for us as individuals to just never think others go around thinking that way?

[sanzuphobe]

part of me is sad that no one i know knows strangers from hell because i dont get to talk about it with anyone but the other part is really glad because if they did know it and heard me talk about it they would be very concerned for my mental health im sure

[sleidog]

don't feel like spreading the poll of the week because theres enough negativity and pointed-ness around, however

[descendantofthesparrow]

i used to travel the Descendants discord every day, always eager to look what people were saying and seeing what they posted-and now i practically avoid it...so fuckin fun

[maddie-grove]

I totally get why people are miffed at not getting thank-you notes for wedding gifts at all—I do think that’s pretty cold unless you know all your guests are people who don’t care about thank-you notes—but I think there’s something legit wrong with someone who fumes at getting a thank-you note late, especially if they’re like “this is more insulting than no thank-you note!” and “they don’t care about me at all!” Especially when the lateness is attributable to different sources giving different timelines for post-wedding thank-you notes. Like, being judgmental is fair, but assuming malice in all cases is foul.

[ocdhuacheng]

Oh you people are getting on my fucking nerves. Making suggestions to me like I’m fucking stupid. You think I never thought of that before? Go fuck yourselves