#poly rights and wrongs

[thebnha-auhoard]

[boom33713]

projecting my aroace experience on my fav character is hilarious actually. not only because using them as a lens for my own experience is highly entertaining but also because it fits so fucking well im not even kidding.

[j4zz4lop3]

“Blablabla clato is the better ship”

“Noooooo glato is”

“Lol I just cut out the middle man and ship glimmer and clove with each other”

“I think this discourse is stupid and ship cato with marvel as a joke lol”

“I ship marvel with clove/glimmer because i headcannon cato as dating the other one”

Guyyysss they’re literally polyamorous. They’re literally all so hot they just started dating eachother. Clearly.

[miru-has-thoughts]

This Smackdown taught me two things

1. Kevin Owens is a funny fucker and I love him

2. My weakness will always be Tongans 😍

[empty-blog-for-lurking]

i finally finished High Noon Over Camelot. I am...........unwell

[greensaplinggrace]

so glad im not in the bg3 fandom because all i see from it are bad takes, an absurd amount of entitled behavior, and incorrect character hate for literally every single character

[mishyoona]

Final Fantasy X-2 HD Remaster (low-poly) | Final Fantasy X-2 (high-poly)

[fuckin-sick-bih]

zenith is on spotify i'm screaming

[thebnha-auhoard]

[ladyelainehilfur]

hm...ngl, I think a lot of modern popular opinion and trend is pretty degenerative. How is it progress if you're just going backwards?

[groupwest]

also. i love being poly <333 my ex boyfriend didn’t know shit

[vassothmercar]

The previous Era post is just so I can explain that yes Era is very much dreaming of kissing the daylights out of the nerd wizard but she is too 👉👈 about it while in the Weave so she is just- jus-just thinking about h-holding -h-hand-hands 👉👈 😳

[not-quitenormal]

I got to visit Devon after work!! He's staying with his parents until our new bed comes in (our current one is just. on the floor. and there is no way he is going to heal on THAT), so we both sat on opposite ends of the living room as we chatted. I wanted to hug him so badly it hurt, but I'm still assuming I'm contagious so long as I have even the sniffles. But I got to see him walk both with a walker and without it and...y'all. He's not stumbling or shuffling anymore. He's walking normally.

I'm about to start crying as I type this, but I am so happy that the worst is over.

He's still worried about his hand still tingling a bit, but he's only a few days to a week post-spinal surgery. The swelling and bruising will go down soon. And if the tingling doesn't completely go away, it's better than what it was. I reminded him that it's okay to be frustrated. We'll figure it out. We always do.

I'm going back over tomorrow night and hanging out longer. More updates soon!

[la0hu]

the other thing that's really upsetting about this connie-alan thing is also how i have no idea who connie has spoken to about this besides who she tells me. so she let me know i could talk to ira, rich, or rebeccah about it, because she's already talked to them about this. so they've presumably known about this whole situation way longer than i have, which makes me also feel upset, because i was running around oblivious this whole time.

AND i can't talk to anyone who has overlap with alan or connie, like any of our housemates or mutual friends, because it's technically not MY problem, it's up to connie and alan's discretion who they want to know about this situation. but that means i'm just going around the house, visibly miserable and low-energy, and i can't tell anyone about it because it's not my right to tell anyone about it. but also it IS my problem because that's why connie told me about this in the first place. i'm just in this really shitty position where i can only turn to the people outside of the house for sympathy and help, but obviously that doesn't solve the issues of living my day-to-day life with nine other people

[unproduciblesmackdown]

step one. going "well, this is the way things always will be" like yeah at that rate obviously you won't be doing anything to change that, but that it's also not simply "ohh inaction, terrible" but rather like, what's he point of that if not to apologize (in the Apologetics (pl noun) sense &/or "sorry :/" sense alike) for Actions that play into The Way Things Are. then how that "things will always be this way, thus: i'm acting like it" logic is found in more blatant Actions, like: may as well invest in it! perhaps by punching down on people who Aren't acting like that, & rather being more disruptive & operating according to premises & principles that are Not the alleged "way things are." like you might be classed as Woman, bummer, but instead of embracing what disrupts the creation & maintenance of a patriarchy, how about punching down on more vulnerable women as the Real Problem? same goes for being queer but hey it's This queerness considered even less compatible (&/or allegedly eligible for consideration as meritous exceptions in The Way Things Are, whose obviously preexisting existence within it will totally be Accepted the way the more conforming parties are) with normativity that's the real issue. always the status of Truest Authorities, the logics of who are "opposites" of them, the status of Disruptive Rejectors Of This System, the status of those who totally have the Bold Vision of: scapegoating the people rejecting the system & acting accordingly, who just might happen to end up perfectly aligned with those who already openly embrace & actively support The Way Things Are, & who the Truest Authorities sure benefit from, like yeah focus on undermining those who disrespect & question this & are Responsible for my pushback which is an inevitable force of nature b/c this is the way things always will be. le epic. existing in the lil authoritarian unit of Shit Nuclear Family Household sure is a heck of a primer / learning by living lol like the familiar (lol) logics crop up everywhere in the other sites n structures of authoritarianism & the "well, this is how it'll always be, & i'll be acting like it, thank you" times like the Search For The Scapegoat & the people totally sympathetic to & on the side of those as/more shitted upon / with less power until whoops push comes to shove they'll wash their hands of it if not lash out at them. the Highest Authority lashes out? force of nature, whose fault was that Really? well, the people they targeted. you bring it upon yourself & perhaps others if they're Also shitted on & if i'm targeted too i sure won't care about Others, & while i'm Less targeted, i'll be doing the best thing i can do: appeasing the authorities. which your Disruptive behavior sure isn't doing so umm you're kind of my realest enemy & wow it sure is easy to punch down on you so i'll be increasingly invested in doing that, maybe, & the sheeple can't handle it so i'm also a martyr

[thebnha-auhoard]