#poor communication

[dumblr]

Never catch feelings for people with poor communication. If you want an easier life, choose people who can easily communicate, how they feel about both you and the relationship.

[esperosisdoeswriting]

Prompt #582

[Villain] scowled at them, "Seriously?"

"Yes, seriously! What's the problem?" [Hero] huffed in exasperation.

"You know what the problem is," their expression continued to sour.

"No! I don't! That's why I asked!" [Hero] nearly shouted.

[Villain] rolled their eyes, "The fact that you don't know what the problem is is even more of an issue, really."

[Heor] exploded, "You always pull this! Expecting me to read your mind and then getting mad at me when I can't! I'm not a telepath [Villain]! I don't know what's wrong! That's why I'm asking you!"

[Villain] looked at them in shock, utterly speechless.

"I'm done," [Hero] spat as they began to walk away.

[wot-tidbits]

The misunderstandings in Love Is War always make me cackle, but the ones in WoT make me wanna chuck my book across the room.

[kindnessisstillhere]

Communication

We talk, laugh, joke,

Say everything and nothing,

Sticking to the surface level,

Avoiding deeper subjects.

The depth is where arguments lurk,

Side-by-side with communication,

With developed views and understanding,

And unbreachable differences of opinion.

So to avoid those disputes surfacing,

We keep to small easy talk,

The weather out the window,

Current events rather than issues.

And change has to fight through.

[vedette-venti]

i was trying to get this cute 4 year old tortie cat named bianca from my ex’s relative’s home that he was staying at. all i can remember was how incredibly difficult it was to get this cat to me. 

i had asked him a couple of times if i could travel to their own and pick her up because he was super busy and i was trying to make this process easy as possible, but he would tell me no without an explanation. 

when i was doing a ton of research on how to care for a cat, he had questioned me about how i was going to care of the cat. don’t get me wrong, it’s a wonderful question to ask. however, this was kind of an issue for me because we knew that she wasn’t being fully cared for in the home where she was at and he doesn’t like pets, especially cats. i quietly suspected him of trying to keep me from getting a cat because if we ever lived together, then he would know the cat was coming in with us. i don’t if this suspicion is true. i just felt he’d rather live in a pet free home.

when i was done researching and cat proofing my home, ready to receive her, i went and talked to him about it with a plan. i told him that i was ready and that i can drive down there and pick her up or when he’s free and not tired, meet him halfway somewhere. he was upset cause i didn’t consider him and his situation in any of this.

the situation: he got into a huge argument with 2 of the ladies in the home. afterwards, the house essentially divided against him.

so he let me know that he was too busy and that he couldn’t do this plan, let alone anytime soon. i was very upset cause i was eagerly awaiting bianca. i let him know this later on and he let me know that if i really wanted her, i wouldn’t have waited so long and that i could have asked to pick her up on a couple of days that he was free that he did not communicate to me. 

at the time i didn’t realize it, but i was the only one really working overtime to plan and receive this cat. i only know this because of how seamless he came up with dates that i could have picked her up after i worked to get our schedules and see when we were both free. this included days where i knew he was free, but maybe wanted to himself.

this text conversation happened awhile after the situation above regarding picking up bianca. it shows what guilt tripping and poor communication looks like. happy learning !

♥ || ♥ || ♥

the apology was nice. it’s always nice, but he has been abducted by his emotions in this same fashion all 3.5 years we were together. this situation in particular has been one of the tamer times, unfortunately.

[cmesparkle]

Look Who's Silent Now

My words are reflections of this truth I sat with on simmer for three years, begging myself to never boil, knowing that your soul disrupted mine. How could I climb with your dead weight? How could I be your peace when you weren't mine? How could I be the beacon in the middle of your night when you never answered my calls? My words encapsulate you, you hate what I am and you still can't stop looking, the beauty in our naked bodies trumping all logic and reason. When you really think about it, there's no point in speaking up. I shouldn't have told you how you let me down. You never cared, and why would you care now?

[cosmicevolushion]

It's just me and my poor communication skill against the world

[laf-outloud]

Anon: It was terrible communication and I'm sorry that Jared's fans were not informed. But at least these issues are coming to light and people, like yourself, can make more informed decisions about which conventions to attend and where you want to spend your money.

[chloeworships]

The Russian….

Someone’s ex and their current love interest are trying to expose them. Why? Because this man was not honest from the start.

Now, he may have had his reasons why he didn’t reveal the the truth as to why he was hiding these children, but what was revealed to me was that he should have told the truth about the situation he was in. It would have panned out better for him.

This man has two children that are not his and he doesn’t know 😞

This man or his ex could be Russian.

Sorry fellas but I have to be 💯 truthful. So many issues could be resolved if people were honest. When you deceive others you yourself become the deceived. This man has no idea these two children are not his.

Ladies, you may have tried to reach this man to ask for clarity and to voice your suspicions but he ignored your calls and left you to assume the worst. That’s where he went wrong.

Although I don’t see this being necessarily vengeful, your current love interest wants to show she has proof of you with this ex in the past, even though you’re no longer together. God revealed to her that those kids you’ve been mining on the side and hiding from her, are not yours.

The lying and sneaking around was all for nothing and it may impact your pockets 💰your career (reputation) and cause you embarrassment…Severely…. Not to mention the children 😔

This man ignored the woman who was the one being true to him for the woman who was lying. I saw him ignoring her calls but answering the calls of the deceiver 📲

What’s even more insane about this is, the one who did the deceiving will take part in this exposé. 🤦🏾‍♀️

Ladies if you are the current lover, you could have left another broken relationship only to find out your new love interest was keeping secrets from you and it broke your heart 💔 For that, I am sorry girl. You deserve better because YOU were loyal the entire time.

Please don’t blame yourself because you did the right thing by asking for clarification. You were somewhat of a good luck charm for this person to alert this man to this deception. The LORD sent you to reveal this to him but he ignored you for what he thought was better 👩🏻‍🦰

Withholding the truth is just as bad as telling a lie.

Now you know so be ready. The audacity of some people eh?

PS. I know for someone in this situation, their ex-wife is Russian. She tried to speak to me in Russian when I tried to confront her about the cold hard facts. I was willing to have an honest conversation with her in contrast to my love interest in the dream.

PPS. I want to be clear, that no one in the dream was actually together… it was more like a situationship rather than a committed relationship. I specifically said “love interest” instead of boyfriend or girlfriend for this reason.

Songs I heard 🎵

SN. Pls note some folks could be actors in this dream and this could be for more than one person.

Someone here loves their cannabis. I smelled it while writing this.

I also saw the Russian woman with a lollipop 🍭

My “proof” was a photo she and I took in front of his house 🏡👀

Btw he cannot stand this ex-wife. He tolerates her for the sake of the children who aren’t even his. The Russian woman looked a tad bit frail and looked as though she suffers from low self-esteem. I felt bad for her in a way 😭 Maybe it’s because I confronted her.

Scriptures to consider:

Lastly, a good wife always brings her husband favour, not trouble 🍀 She herself has a good reputation in her community.

Whatever you do,

KEEP YOUR 🆒

Remember this message is to give you the heads up of this upcoming deception. Not to ridicule you.

I forgot to mention I made Ms. Russian FaceTime my love interest while I listened in the background to prove he was indeed ignoring my calls. If this hasn’t happened yet, be honest with your new love interest. Even if she becomes upset, at least she can’t call you a liar 🤥 The other woman is your ex.

I have another message that’s sensitive like this to share 🔜

⚠️UPDATE:

If this isn’t love related, are the Russians hiding children somewhere?

👀

I saw two red head children in a pink stroller. They were no older than two years old. Come to think of it, aren’t two red head children apart of the missing hostages abducted in Israel? 🇮🇱 Aren’t Ukrainian children missing also? Why would they be in RUSSIA???? Or are the Russians involved in this kidnapping somehow? Lawd have mercy!!!

I need answers.

And people are going to sit here and condemn Israel while Hamas parades around falsely dubbed as some Resistance. I promise you, calamity and chaos is coming for anyone supporting this injustice.

💔🔥😡

All hell is going to break loose if these children are harmed.

[phywrites]

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[bluegiragi]

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[alex2xander]

Be nice and don't mock tumblr users that communicate differently.

Examples:

1.) Typing quirks

2.) No punctuation

3.) Random Capitalisation

4.) Long run on sentences

5.) Frequently misspelled words

6.) Missing spaces between words

7.) Repeating words and sentences

8.) Posts audios and videos instead of typing

9.) Express themselves through custom emojis

10.) Use an AAC (Augmentative and alternative communication) device

Some users have intellectual disabilities, use speech to text, struggle with grammar, have hand tremmers, have high support needs, etc.

Regardless of how they communicate and their reason why, they still deserve respect. They are trying their best.

[hoarder-of-dragons]

[Season 2 summed up]

Aziraphale's thoughts: Oh I shall team up with Crowley and make Nina and Maggie fall in love and make them confess. Oh what if I also confess then. I need to prepare everything to set the scene.

Still Aziraphale's thoughts: Ooohh a ball with dancing and tiny snacks to make it fancy and it will be like a Jane Austen novel coming to life and then I will ask Crowley to dance and all our problems will go away as I stare into his eyes....

Crowley's thoughts: Keep Aziraphale safe Keep Aziraphale safe Keep Aziraphale safe Keep Aziraphale safe FUCK YOU GABRIEL Keep Aziraphale safe Keep Aziraphale safe Keep Aziraphale safe PLEASE HOLD MY HAND AZIRAPHALE Keep Aziraphale safe JANE AUSTEN WAS AN AUTHOUR?!?! Keep Aziraphale safe-

[radiance1]

The Ghost Prince does not, under any circumstances, answer a summoning after it was made aware he existed. None know why he doesn't, some are bitter and hateful of it while others are thankful that it's one less bloodthirsty manic to deal with.

The Ghost King meanwhile hasn't been seen in multiple eons, so the magical community who wanted to use his power just, stopped, trying to summon him for a long time.

Most magic users knew that the Ghost Prince never answered a summons, and that the Ghost King just dropped off the radar.

So could you really blame Constantine for not taking it that seriously when some wannabe hotshot cultists try to summon both of them in the middle of a city to wreak havoc?

He'll give them some credit though. Points for doing it in broad daylight and actually being somewhat of a threat with not relying on just summoning the Ghost royalty and figuring out what to do from there.

The area they were in was somewhat destroyed, then the cultists manage to complete the summoning circle to summon both of them and Constantine, well he just light up a smoke.

It isn't going to work anyways so what does it matter?

...

Is that a fucking Ice cream truck he hears? Who the fuck is driving an Ice cream truck while their city is being under attacked with cultists trying to summon eldritch ghost royalty?

He'll give them some points for dedication, though.

Then he looked at the cultists and nearly had a goddamn heart attack to see that the summoning circle is actually fucking lighting up and working.

The Bat is so gonna give him a headache over this.

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Danny Phantom, crown prince of the Infinite Realms. Does not answer summons.

For one, it is annoying as shit, whenever someone interrupts his day just to ask for infinite power (that he can't give), world domination (that he won't do) or infinite riches (which he also can't do).

It just got annoying being summoned all the time so. One day he just, well, no. And hey, it worked out well enough for him to not continue doing it.

Then he also learned that Pariah Dark is basically the same, after he got out the coffin and stopped trying to take over the world for whatever reason. He was actually a pretty swell guy!

He was just with him too, with him being not so swell at the time for making him go through lessons about Ghost etiquette, rules, stuff that's expected of him as the crown prince.

And don't even get him started on the engagement and marriage proposals.

Overall, he just wanted to find an excuse to leave. Then he felt the familiar suggestive pull of a summoning and, instead of rejection as he usually does in a second. He thought for a bit if he wanted to go with that or crown prince duties.

It was tempting, but dealing with cultists seemed worse than this so he was about to reject.

At least, before he heard an Ice cream truck playing in the background. He doesn't even know how the hell that popped up through the pull but by the gods has it been a while since he's had Ice cream.

So he answers and is gone with a pop.

Pariah Dark just stares for a good second or two, before breathing out and deciding to also answer. Fright Knight is just there, off to side, questioning what he should do now.

Danny wastes no time with the cultists on the other side and in fact, he pushes them out of the way and goes diving for that Ice cream truck he hears. Only to realize he doesn't, have any money on him.

Fuck.

Pariah Dark is less inclined to follow the rules imposed by humans like money, but he does know it can be important. Once in a while. Not that often, but it has its times.

So when he sees his adopted son being sad over being unable to pay for some kind of human delicacy, he digs around in his hair (yes, his hair.) and pulls out some money and puts it on the counter as payment.

The man inside the tiny vehicle had shrieked before getting what they wanted. Which is good. Fear is a good motivator, Pariah thinks.

Unknown to him, it wasn't out of fear (Well, mostly) but because the Ghost King placed down a coin made of pure, solid gold on his counter.

The two then go about their business in the human realm, completely forgetting about the fact that they were summoned here for something.

Constantine is both relieved and about to have an aneurysm at seeing Infinite Realm royalty only answering a summon because of Ice cream.