I love you selfshippers who imagine their F/Os as freaky degenerates!
🩷 Those who's F/Os are related to their S/I
🩵 Those who's F/Os are loli/shota/kodocons
❤️ Those who's F/Os are abusers
🖤 Those who's F/Os are manipulative
🤍 Those who's F/Os are unredeemable
Regardless of what your dynamic may be, always remember that selfshipping has no rules! Make your relationship with your F/Os anything you want it to be!
Do y'all remember when this was a normal thing to see all over the place? Because I do. I remember seeing and posting this image everywhere when I was like 12-15.
I'm starting to find evidence on twitter of antis encouraging each other to shun friends and family for not being one of them and I am deeply concerned. This is some cult shit.
"should I shun my friend for being proship even though they're my only irl friend?"
"Should I shun my mother for being proship?"
The answer to both of these is GET HELP. You are being brainwashed into thinking that your friends and family are dangerous when you know that they wouldn't hurt anyone. See a therapist, take some time off the internet, reevaluate your situation. Fiction does not take precedence over your loved ones.
I'm tagging this with "antis please interact" because I think they need to see this too, and hopefully it helps someone. Your loved ones are not dangerous because of their taste in fiction.
Antis: Normal people wouldn't be okay with your freak shit!
Normal people: Watches Game Of Thrones where a rape victim falls in love with her rapist and many viewers enjoyed their relationship, even quoting their saying or getting jewelry of it. (Not even mentioning the incest.)
Normal people: Enjoys IT which has numerous scenes of child sexual abuse, torture/abuse, racism, even a child orgy that is written to be a good thing at the end of the book.
Normal people: Watches Star Wars where two of the main characters are siblings and kiss.
Normal people: Enjoys mythology which often includes themes like incest which are not "bad" things in the stories.
Normal people: Reads/watches and romanticizes Romeo And Juliet. A story where two young people (one of which is 16 and the other is 13 in Shakespeare btw) kill themselves over each other.
Normal people: Watch/read/play violent media and root for the killers, especially enjoying things where they themselves are the murderer.
People say stuff like this without feeling a type of way ? All this over fictional things drawings , sketches , pixels are making you wanna say this stuff to REAL people !?
It’s not that I mind minors in fandom. Really, I don’t.
It’s just when they ignore the multiple warnings that I put on things or lie about their age to see things they shouldn’t that pisses me off. Especially when they throw a screaming hissy fit about the dove really being dead or start telling anyone over the age of 18 that they need to get out of fandom.
Darling, we built this place. And if you don’t have the reading comprehension to understand that trigger warnings are there for a reason, maybe you need to get off the internet and go do your homework.
PSA to antis: The people in your life don’t have to “vet” the fanfiction you jerk off to. I don’t know why there’s this weird obsession with if your family would “approve”
Adults don’t talk like that. Friends, maybe. But family? I hate to break it to you but if you tell your mom what you jerked off to last night she’s gonna be grossed out whether it was loli porn or straight, missionary videos.
Do you know why? Because people don’t usually tell their parents about what they jerk off to.
And you're weird for caring about them so much! Especially when the character isn't even human!
You see all these comments, yes? About this character named Mahito? You must think he looks like a literal baby, or at least looks very "young"? You'd be wrong!
Mahito is a mass murderer who looks like this.
Here are the rest of his crimes btw:
Mahito has no concept of age, he can change his form, gender, appearance all at will. He is a cursed spirit, he is NOT human. More importantly, he is NOT real! You will not go to jail for dating this man! But he WILL go to jail for the mass murder that's for sure!
This is mostly a lightheaded post but seriously what's with this obsession about arbitrary character ages? Mahito certainly doesn't LOOK 7 months old, and that's that on that.
So while I put together my next essay (thesis?), I would like to hear from you, the community, about your experiences with Antis. I want to hear your stories and thoughts and gather data. Everything will be kept anonymous.
Edit: I'll keep this survey open until the end of the month. And thanks to the folks leaving feedback in the replies, it's very much appreciated. ^_^
Edit 2: Made some fixes- the 30-35 age range has been added, and there are now N/A options in the BITE model section.
Edit 3: Seems that a couple of antis have found the survey. The cutoff date will now be at the end of the month, or earlier if it starts getting out of hand and the data gets muddied.
So, the thing about pro and anti shipping discourse is it's not really a "well I think both sides are stupid!" situation.
You can't really say "well both sides are stupid" when one side is just trying to exist and create fiction in peace while the other side is wishing them physical harm, harassing them, and sending them death threats.