#protect your peace

[inmyperfectworld]

Protect your peace. 🤍🌱

[free-my-mindd]

People are powerless without your reaction, preserve your energy.

[little-tiffany]

Don't sabotage your future peace because familiar chaos is comfortable.

[positivelypositivethoughts]

[honeytonedhottie]

embracing being alone⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

learning to be alone is such a crucial thing to learn at all times during your life, but especially during your youth. and something to understand is that sometimes, protecting your peace comes at the cost of being alone but being alone is peaceful! and not as bad as you might think that it is.

being alone offers an opportunity for self discovery and growth and rest and relaxation and reflection and the list goes ON. being able to enjoy your own company is a SUPER power bcuz it genuinely nourishes you so much.

enjoying your own company ;

you dont have to be codependent on someone else to make yourself happy or to make yourself feel good. what fulfills you and nourishes you isnt the relationships that u have with others. although that is an amazing and fulfilling thing, the most fulfilling thing is learning yourself. being alone REPLENISHES you, its like, hydration for the soul.

dont wait on someone else to do something that you wanna do!! if u dont have anyone to go with, just go on your own. you dont have to wait on others to be happy.

practice being alone ;

go on solo dates, practice planning to do something fun and just doing it by yourself. once you start doing things alone and you see how nice it feels, you'll want to do it more bcuz its so easy to enjoy your own company, you just have to get over your fear of judgement or of being alone and learn to enjoy and embrace it.

have a spa day

learn to cook a new dish

read a book

have a journalling session

schedule appointments for yourself

go on a long drive

some benefits of enjoying your own company ;

you can be yourself without filter

less distractions and you give yourself time to ponder and look internally

your in control of your space and your time

you can be creative and imaginative without interference

its peaceful

being your own best friend ;

treat yourself how you'd treat someone that you valued a lot. be compassionate and understanding and respectful. dont talk badly about yourself and dont be mean to/punish yourself bcuz u wouldn't do that to someone that u loved and cherished.

dont abandon yourself in times where life can become stressful. focus on being present and dont forget your worth. your self worth and value doesn’t come from how useful you are to others, your valuable simply because you are you. a human being who is deserving of love. your worth doesnt come from how productive you are or what you’ve achieved, instead your worth is already done and your valuable because of your existence. 

coping without friends ;

everything is temporary and meaningful relationships will always find their way to you. just understand that some ppl are here temporarily and some ppl are here for a lifetime but only you are here for all of it which is why its important to be alone and be comfy with that.

not everyone is gonna like you or wanna be your friend and thats okay. it has nothing to do with you and is almost always simply because of different personalities and its not personal

brush off rejections bcuz rejection is just redirection. when you dont take everything personally you'll notice how much happier you'll be overall.

know that the meaningful relationships and connections that u crave will come!! no one is here to be alone forever so you'll meet the people who pour into you and you'll meet ppl that u can pour into and you'll be okay!!

overall, enjoying your own company does wonders for your mental and physical health and its a useful skill to learn in general because it brings so much peace from being able to sit with your thoughts.

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

[foxylady13]

Red Alert Notice!!!

I encourage everyone who follows Elucien and Gwynriel to block/report this account: exposedtruth. Please don't interact in anyway either as it just gives them more exposure/fuel.

They are "exposing" peoples Facebook comments, private messages, profiles with very little blocking out to make us out to be the "bad guy" amongst this ship war.

They say they'll "expose" the other side to if provided proof but I highly doubt that given they seem to have an agenda against Gwynriels/Eluciens and given how they worded the post they responded to asking if they'd expose the other side as well.

Please protect yourself!!!! This has gotten out of hand and is not okay in the slightest ��

[dumblr]

Be selective. Protect your energy and time, bc not everyone deserves it.

[sidewalkchemistry]

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[free-my-mindd]

No amount of communication can reach someone who is committed to misunderstanding you. Save your time and energy for those who are open to understanding, and who value empathy, mutual respect, and growth.

[positivelypositivethoughts]

[gqandw]

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

[beamingdesign]

Important lessons I was reminded of this year: 1. Trust the universe 2. Begin again 3. Protect your peace 4. Love deeply