#questioning

[hal-monitor]

🌀 what is happening to me… 🌀

[publicbreath2020]

Phew 😥

She accepts me, yay!!! 🎉

[touratoura]

I would like to make a probably invisible poll for the LGBTQ people of Tumblr. Sorry you can’t do multiple, just try and choose the one most important to you! Gray-anything fits here too.

[swords-and-aros]

"You shouldn't teach teens aro and ace identities! What is they start identifying as ace instead of gay!"

Ah yes, how terrible indeed would it be for a teenagers to experiment with their identity

We all know that who we decide we are at 13 is who we end up being for our entire lives, regardless if it is authentic to our present selves

[not-ay-vin]

I want a qpr so bad rn

[neverquiteeden]

Sensual attraction got me questioning my entire life rn (could also have used the "is this a pigeon?" meme but oh well)

[nonbinary-wyvern]

psa for those who chest bind or are planning to chest bind!! you are only supposed to wear your binder 6-8 hours with breaks!! please take care of yourself!! i know it feels amazing in the moment but chronic chest pain won't!! be careful!! i love you!!

[avenpt]

Romantic Orienations

We realize there are an infinite number of romantic orientations, so we apologize if we've left yours off! Please select Other and let us know how you identify. :)

[samsayswhatever]

Shout out to the people who wake up a woman and go to bed a man. The the people who wear lipstick and have a beard. To the people whose gender is complicated. To the people who need a minute to think about it. To the people who don't really care. To the people who never stop thinking about it. To the people whose gender and sexuality are the same thing. To the people who like people in a way they can't explain. To the people who don't like anything. To the people with a thousand crushes. To the people who never had one.

[heartless-aro]

“Can I call myself aromantic if—…?”

Worry not. You need neither my permission nor my approval. Free yourself from your doubt. You can do whatever you want forever.

[aroace-thoughts]

Just a reminder: Questioning people are always welcome in the aspec community

Stay, have fun, learn, ask questions, this is a safe place to explore your labels!

I know everything can feel overwhelming.

Don’t feel bad if you end up discovering you are or aren’t aspec. There’s nothing wrong with deciding a label isn’t for you after all, either way you’re not wasting anyone’s time.

We’re here to give you resources and support and a listening ear!

Never forget that the Q in LGBTQIA+ stands for both queer and questioning 💜💚

[jaygubz]

Sameeeeeee

TW Eye Strain

[tumbler-polls]

[incognitopolls]

We ask your questions so you don’t have to! Submit your questions to have them posted anonymously as polls.

[aromantic-diaries]

List of things that imply you may be on the aromantic spectrum (based on personal experience)

You don't get crushes

You only get crushes on fictional characters, celebrities or people who are unattainable to you

If you do have crushes you might not actually want to be with them and you only admire them from a distance

Any crush you have turns out to just be you thinking someone is really cool

You're annoyed by how many love songs there are and how many movies revolve around romance

You don't understand why people are so focused on shipping when it comes to fandoms

You think it's weird that people are obsessed with romance when you don't see it as a priority

You might like romance in theory but in practice you really don't want to have anything to do with it

You do want romance but you don't like anyone in particular and all your daydreams involve a faceless someone rather than an actual person

You can't tell what makes a romantic relationship different from a regular friendship

You have a hard time imagining yourself in romantic scenarios

The idea of someone liking you romantically feels absurd and you can't see why they would do so

You might want someone to like you romantically not because you like them but because it feels validating in a way

Someone liking you romantically makes you feel uncomfortable

Your hobbies are more important to you than your pursuit of romantic relationships

May update this later, also I'm not saying that if several of these apply to you you are definetly arospec but what I am saying is that if that's the case you might wanna think it over