Black selfshippers please imagine wearing a bonnet with like a really wide band and it keeps falling over your eyes so your f/o gently tugs it up and is like "There you are, can't hide from me now, can you?" And gently kisses your forehead
once again, biiig big big shout-out to selfshippers whose f/os have a canon partner / popular ship with a canon character and are uncomfortable with contents of them or anything related to them. no, you're not a 'stealer'. your f/o ONLY WANTS you. you're their canon partner. no one can change it. you're destined to be with them, and no one else.
we're here for you. you're not alone, and we all know that your f/o loves YOU and YOU only.
I think self shippers are allowed to have complicated-ass relationships with their F/Os, like yeah we love the lovey-dovey sweet flustering stuff, but also some of us go nuts for a good case of
‘we want to and probably have practically strangled each other but also you’re my soulmate and fate has intrinsically tied us together and I would protect you and fight for you in any given universe but also you’re an actual dumbass and I will tell you so and if we ever go down it’s going to be by the others hand’
Or other related variations, I think it’s great to go hogwild and not all F/O relationships stop at Romantic or Platonic or Familial, the dynamics are endless and can be so fun to play with and navigate
imagine: catching your f/o singing in the bathroom. 🫧
you're in the living room, busy watching the tv when suddenly you hear a faint noise coming from the bathroom. it doesn't sound like water at all — more like a muffled voice. curious, you slowly approach the bathroom's door, trying to make out the voice.
maybe your f/o is a good singer? they sound magnificent in the shower, and you couldn't help but smile. god, they should do a concert!
or maybe singing isnt their forte, but they still do it anyway? you giggle, shaking your head as you say to yourself, oh, you're so silly.
either way, you decide to leave them uninterrupted. let it be your little secret, maybe for a teasing material in the future. ♡