#self-acceptance

[akindplace]

Your exhaustion is not shameful. It is not a moral failure to be physically, mentally or emotionally tired. It is okay to be overwhelmed. You're not inferior to anyone just because it's hard for you to keep up with a fast-paced life.

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

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[namitha]

Always keep in mind that you are a complete and valuable individual, deserving of genuine and wholehearted love, unwavering attention, and sincere effort in all aspects of life. Settling for anything less than you deserve is a disservice to your self-worth and well- being. Embrace the empowerment that comes from recognizing your inherent value and prioritize your emotional and mental health by establishing healthy boundaries. Surround yourself with people who appreciate and respect you fully, and let go of those who offer only half-hearted affections or minimal efforts. Remember, you are too whole to accept anything less than the genuine and fulfilling experiences that life has to offer.

//Tuesday 25th July//

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[the-healing-mindset]

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[eaudelune]

Being requires accepting oneself, staying within oneself and not doing to prove oneself. It is a discipline that is accorded no applause from the outside world; it questions production for production’s sake. Politically and economically it has little value, but its simple message has wisdom. If I can accept myself as I am, and if I am in harmony with my surroundings, I have no need to produce, promote, or pollute to be happy. And being is not passive; it takes focused awareness.

Maureen Murdock, The Heroine's Journey: Woman's Quest for Wholeness

[iseetheworldinmetaphor]

“The neurotic, no matter whether productive or obstructed, suffers fundamentally from the fact that he cannot or will not accept himself, his own individuality, his own personality. On one hand he criticizes himself to excess, on the other he idealizes himself to excess, which means that he makes too great demands on himself and his completeness, so that failing to attain leads only to more self-criticism. If we take this thwarted type as we may do for our purpose, and compare him to the artist, it is at once clear that the artist is, in a sense, the antithesis to the self-critical, neurotic type. Not that the artist does not criticize himself, but by accepting his personality, he not only fulfills that for which the neurotic is striving in vain, but goes far beyond it. The precondition, then, of the creative personality is not only acceptance, but it’s actually glorification of itself.”

—Dr. Otto Rank on Art and Artist, found in Anaïs Nin’s Diaries, Volume One

[lowcountry-gothic]

Transformation does not come about through trying to become someone else, but by relaxing into who we are.

Susan Piver, The Buddhist Enneagram: Nine Paths to Warriorship

[akindplace]

Having a soft heart is not a shameful thing. Being earnest about what you love isn’t either. Sometimes it feels tiring to care when so many people in the world act like nothing moves them. But it doesn’t mean you should become uncaring only to seem stronger, because allowing yourself to be moved, to love, to be sensitive and soft is a brave thing, especially in a world that often seems so cruel. Remember to treat yourself with that same softness, that same care. It’s not a shameful thing to be vulnerable, to be seen.

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

[artist-issues]

Just saw a couple video essays on Lilo & Stitch where self-acceptance is mentioned. And like. There is NO “self acceptance” in Lilo & Stitch. 

If there were, there would be no reason for this ☝️ 

The whole entire POINT of Lilo & Stitch is that who Stitch is is BAD. His very nature is evil. He is made to, and finds joy in, destruction. It is NOT  TRUE that he has to learn to accept himself. Aladdin has to learn to accept himself. Mirabel has to learn to accept herself. Freakin Mei from Turning Red has to learn to accept herself. Stitch is not like them. Stitch’s character arc is to learn to REJECT himself so that he can be made new. It’s part of what makes Lilo & Stitch BETTER than Aladdin, Encanto, and Turning Red. 

Because it’s an EASY message to tell everybody to accept themselves. Everyone already wants to hear that they’re loved and okay the way they are. It is a much HARDER thing to make a movie about love that is unconditional AND active enough to call you out when you’re wrong. If there’s no such thing as being wrong, there’s no need for grace or forgiveness, two of the most powerful indicators of real love. It’s a much harder thing to make a movie that says, “no, you know what, sometimes you’re just WRONG and BAD and you need someone from the outside to FIX YOU. YES, you do. You are NOT okay the way you are; and that doesn’t mean you’re beyond hope.”

Furthermore, literally no character in Lilo & Stitch has to learn self-acceptance. If Nani and Lilo accepted themselves as they were at the start of the movie, they’d be fighting and screaming at each other as a plot point by the end. If Nani accepted herself at the beginning of the film, she’d be saying, “‘yup, arrest that little alien, he’s mutated and he wrecks my house and makes my life harder.”  If Jumba accepted himself the way he was at the beginning, or even near the climax, of the film, he wouldn’t have let Stitch rescue Lilo. He’d be tearing him apart for the trouble Stitch caused him, and then he’d be fleeing the Galactic Alliance to cause more mischief himself.  Heck, even if PLEAKLEY had accepted himself, he wouldn’t be saying “does he really have to go?” to the Grand Councilwoman. He’d be saying, “‘yes, remove this creature from Earth’s habitat, it is destructive to the planet’s delicate ecosystem.”

Lilo & Stitch is not about self-acceptance. It is about self-denial. It is not about self-help. It is about not being able to help yourself. Needing saving. Do not make Lilo & Stitch into some twisted banner for our stupid, nonsensical modern values. 

[hexora]

Mastering the Art of Manifesting Beauty: A Professional Guide PT. 1

In the pursuit of personal transformation and empowerment, manifesting beauty has emerged as a powerful practice that transcends the superficial. Beyond mere aesthetics, true beauty radiates from within, reflecting a harmonious blend of physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. This professional guide is designed to provide you with a comprehensive approach to manifesting beauty, integrating time-tested principles with contemporary insights.

Section 1: Cultivating Inner Radiance

Cultivating inner radiance is the foundational step in your journey to manifesting enduring beauty. This aspect delves into the core of your being, emphasizing the integration of mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being for a holistic and sustainable transformation.

Begin your beauty manifestation journey by incorporating mindfulness practices into your daily routine. Engage in activities that anchor you to the present moment, such as meditation, deep breathing exercises, or mindful walking. Cultivating awareness of your thoughts and feelings establishes a solid foundation for a positive self-image.

Develop a repertoire of affirmations that reinforce a healthy self-image. Craft statements that celebrate your unique qualities, focusing on self-love and acceptance. Repeat these affirmations regularly to reprogram your subconscious mind and foster a mindset that radiates confidence and positivity.

Building emotional resilience is key to maintaining inner radiance. Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, and develop coping mechanisms to navigate stress and adversity. Emotional well-being significantly impacts your overall appearance, contributing to a vibrant and luminous presence.

Allowing your authentic self to shine through is a transformative aspect of cultivating inner radiance. Explore creative outlets, express your passions, and embrace your individuality. Authenticity not only enhances your inner beauty but also radiates a magnetic charm that draws others toward your genuine essence.

Cultivate a gratitude practice to shift your focus toward the positive aspects of your life. Acknowledging and appreciating the beauty in your surroundings, relationships, and personal achievements fosters a sense of fulfillment and contentment. This gratitude radiates from within, contributing to an outward glow.

Prioritize your overall well-being by adopting a holistic approach to health. Attend to your physical, mental, and emotional needs through balanced nutrition, regular exercise, and sufficient rest. A harmonious balance in these areas not only supports your inner radiance but also enhances your overall vitality and beauty.

By prioritizing these aspects of inner radiance, you lay the groundwork for a beauty manifestation journey that transcends the superficial, creating a lasting impact that emanates from the depths of your authentic self.

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– Ryan La Sala, The Honeys

[namitha]

If you keep living with confidence, the rest of your life will unfold exactly as it is meant to. It won’t always be comfortable. Some will recognize your brave; others won’t. Some will understand and like you; others won’t. But the way others respond to your confidence is not your business. Your business is to stay loyal to you. That way, you will always know that those who do like and love you are really your people. You’ll never be forced to hide or act in order to keep people if you don’t hide or act to get them. To be brave is to forsake all others to be true to yourself. That is the vow of a confident girl.

🌿 Glennon Doyle, Untamed

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