#sex ed for grownups

[lilithism1848]

[erinsintra]

why do human genital names sound like fantasy spells. i mean. clitoris. testicles. cervix. scrotum. i feel like if i say these on the right order my furniture will start floating or some shit

[everybodysinvited]

What is Asexuality?

An intro to asexuality! A quick intro to what the term means and some pop culture sources for if you want to explore more! Plus a short interview with my friend Heather, (she/her) on her experience and advice as an asexual person. Thank you Heather! 💖

It's important to remember that like any other sexual orientation, it's a spectrum and each person's experience is unique and one account doe not represent all accounts. As mentioned, asexuality is an umbrella term and some people may use it as just one of many descriptors for their sexuality! If you're unsure you can politely ask someone, but they do not owe you an explanation or a deep-dive into their sexuality. Why not check out one of the recommended books above or Yasmin Benoit's movement #thisiswhatsexuallookslike

If you have any more pop culture mentions or resources on asexuality, why not drop them in the comments! 👀

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[rosierayne]

If you’re having a bad day - go fuck yourself!

I’m not just saying that. It’s been scientifically proven that having a wank actually improves your mood by releasing feel-good hormones like dopamine and oxytocin. They make you feel happy and counteract the stress hormone cortisol.

So have a wank and go fuck yourself because it’s good for you!

Find more of me HERE

[g0blinmull3t]

Forget other life skills, teach yourself how to have earth shattering orgasms. Ofc it feels different to partnered sex but it’s not comparative. If you don’t know how to make yourself feel good, how can you expect someone else to?

There’s no shame in experimenting lads.

[sexandthebrooklyn]

Twitter is … not it anymore so I’m bringing the discourse back to my middle school home :)

[gender-sexuality-happiness-rage]

*reminder this lady is not a role model - your kid should never think you might beat them ALSO sex should be private, this “mom” should not have called the boy’s mother

[hufflepuffdoingmybest]

Ovulating is such a weird experience because my body and hormones are like: baaaaby!! Get some!! We. Are. Ready.

But my morals, religion, finances, and semi asexual tendencies are like: absolutely not.

I’m also very paranoid about being assaulted during that time and getting pregnant. It’s a weird couple days.

[lookingtopleasemylady]

I am infinitely horny 1.....

If ever looking for someone to join in I am that person. Looking for fun and inspiration.

[bdsmishka]

What are your thoughts on 24/7 D/s, M/s, Dd/lg lifestyles?

I love them. I've been living some version of 24/7 D/s (preferably DD/lg) on and off for years now. I have a lot of thoughts on how protocol shifts to make a 24/7 dynamic sustainable on both ends without burning either the top out or becoming less effective for the sub or too restrictive on the sub's personality, too. I used to run workshops on them back when I was in the sex education world.

[clitfinder101]

masturbation is normal

In one of my previous posts, I talked about shame around the vagina. Well, that shame is also heavily placed on vaginal masturbation.

When you think of masturbation, what words come to mind?

For me, it's 'jacking off.' That is the term I learned in middle school for masturbation, but I only knew that boys could do it. I did not know what I was doing when I touched myself, only that it felt good, but I was extremely guilty about it. I thought it was wrong.

It is not.

There are actually many benefits to vaginal masturbation, one being that it increases dopamine. An increase in dopamine is a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction, a euphoric feeling, even.

Another benefit: practice makes perfect. If partnered sex does not feel good to you, then maybe you should try masturbating. Getting to know your vagina in such an intimate way lets you correlate your vagina with pleasure rather than shame. It also helps you find what kind of stimulation you like, which you can then tell your partner.

A little fun fact: you may even sleep better after orgasming!

Check out this article about the health benefits of masturbation!