#successmindset

[svdaily]

Do yourself a favour and start believing you deserve everything good in life and that nothing is out of reach for you.

[theambitiouswoman]

The people who have accomplished the things you want are not better than you. They are not more skilled than you are. Their mindset is simply different. Their mindset inspires new habits and attributes that contribute to a strong sense of self-belief and enables them to overcome obstacles, achieve their goals, and lead fulfilling lives.

Fortunately, this is something you can work on and have complete control over.

If you want to change your life, these are some of the things you should be working on within yourself.

Self-awareness: Successful people have a clear understanding of their strengths, weaknesses, values, and goals. They are aware of who they are and what they want to achieve.

Positive mindset: They maintain a positive outlook on life and view challenges as opportunities for growth. They focus on solutions rather than dwelling on problems.

Resilience: Bouncing back from failures and setbacks quickly. They see failures as temporary and use them as learning experiences to improve and grow.

Self-motivation: You need to be internally driven and have a strong sense of purpose. Successful people set goals for themselves and work persistently towards achieving them.

Confidence: They have confidence in their abilities and believe in their potential for success. They trust their judgment and are not easily swayed by others' opinions.

Adaptability: They are open to change and embrace new experiences. They are willing to step out of their comfort zone and take risks to pursue their goals.

Discipline and consistency: They practice self-discipline and maintain consistency in their actions. They set routines, establish habits, and follow through on their commitments.

Emotional intelligence: They possess a high degree of emotional intelligence, understanding their own emotions and the emotions of others. They can manage their emotions effectively and maintain positive relationships.

Growth mindset: They believe in their ability to learn and develop new skills. They see setbacks as opportunities for improvement and are open to acquiring new knowledge and experiences.

Self-care: They prioritize self-care and well-being. They recognize the importance of taking care of their physical, mental, and emotional health, which helps them maintain a positive mindset and stay motivated.

[venuslilgirl]

I am worthy of all the good things that are happening to me

[st4rtar0t]

Money and success affirmations

"I am worthy of abundance and success."

"Money flows to me easily and effortlessly."

"I attract wealth and prosperity into my life."

"I am open to receiving unlimited sources of income."

"My actions create constant prosperity."

"I am financially free, and money comes to me naturally."

"I believe in my ability to achieve financial success."

"I am a magnet for wealth and opportunities."

"My bank account is overflowing with money."

"I am deserving of all the good things life has to offer."

"I am a money magnet, and I attract abundance."

"I create wealth and abundance in every aspect of my life."

"Every day, in every way, I am becoming richer and richer."

"I release all negative beliefs about money and invite positivity into my financial life."

"I am grateful for the abundance in my life and excited for the wealth that is on its way

[elicathebunny]

Is comparison the thief of joy?

How to be comfortable in your own skin and learn healthy competition. (suggestion post)

Comparing yourself or being compared to someone else is not the best feeling. It can make you have low self-esteem and bring up feelings of jealousy or anger. But self-comparison, like others, is only bad when too much of it occurs.

To help you understand my point,

Let me show you an example:

Your friend is doing better than you academically. You may feel pressured to achieve at the same level and constantly compare their grades to yours. Your grades are not bad, but in comparison, they are lower than your friends. This leaves you feeling constantly bad about yourself and possibly having negative feelings towards your friend. This example shows that the person feels unhappy with their grades. Therefore, anyone else succeeding will trigger feelings within them. Not only is it bringing up negative emotions about themselves, but those emotions could possibly be reflected onto their friend. The person isn't even failing academically, but they are blinded by someone else's success, to the point that they cannot see their own progress or achievements.

Shift your mindset on what comparison truly is.

Yes, comparison can be negatively used. But it can be a helpful way to learn and grow.

Here is another example:

Your friend is doing better than you academically. You decide to ask them for help with your work or if they could show you how they study. You also spend extra time looking into other ways you could support yourself academically. You use your friend's achievements as motivation to improve your grades and congratulate them even though they are still achieving higher than you. Your grades may not be the best, but you recognise your efforts made and small progress over time. This example shows the person has used the energy that would have gone into creating negative feelings, into motivation to achieve better despite their friend achieving more than them. They are not upset because they acknowledge THEIR own improvements and focus on THEIR own achievements, not others. The person still congratulates others on their hard work and efforts because they recognise that the progress of others (no matter what big) is not the absence of their own. This means that their relationships are still intact and healthy!

If you are comparing yourself to someone who isn't close to you, then obviously it is a 50/50 chance that they will be willing to help you out. It also depends on what the comparison is about which will determine if you can actually ask for help from said person.

Why are you being compared/ Why are you comparing yourself?

Who are you being compared/ comparing yourself to?

Why are you being compared/ comparing yourself to it?

When did this comparison start and do you know why?

Are you comparing yourself or are you being compared by someone else? (If someone else is comparing you, then it is a projection on their behalf. But if it is you who is doing the comparing, then you have a lot of inner work to do)

Could you actually resolve the comparison issue? (for example: if you are comparing yourself to someone who has better grades, could you improve your own if you actually tried to? Be honest with yourself here) .

What situations trigger you to compare yourself

Now that you know the "whys ", you know where to start your work from. Become aware of when these comparisons take place and try to catch yourself out for it. Don't suppress it but acknowledge it, and move on.

Learning healthy comparison is the way to go. But, knowing that wanting to achieve the same as another person is okay, but letting those emotions come out very strongly and out of hand is not good. Comparing yourself to someone is unfair on yourself because everyone is different and has different starting points. Beating yourself up for not being like someone else is unhealthy. On top of everything else, you don't even know the work the other person put in to get to that point or how long it took. So when your comparing yourself, are you actively trying to do something about it? for example, If you compare yourself to someone with better grades than you, and it's an ongoing thing that you feel bad about your grades. Have you attempted to try to improve your own grades? When I ask this I mean actually properly try for a long enough time that you would see progress, not an! "I tried for a bit and I'm nowhere at their level". If you feel there is something you want to change about yourself/ achieve something you have to try before beating yourself about that thing.

Stop using other people as a kind of milestone. Only celebrating your successes if you are like this person or if you have this thing. Set milestones for yourself that are for you and only for you. It's okay to not be perfect, nobody is perfect. Focus on your strengths and work on yourself to make your own goalposts to reach.

EMBODY YOUR POTENTIAL.

[anitainthegym]

[lifeiswaitingforyou]

Success story time- manifested my dead uncle to come back to life!

I repeat- ALL.THINGS.ARE.POSSIBLE

[a-path-by-the-moon]

[awhkacey]

𝑀𝑦 𝑠𝑐 𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑢𝑙𝑡𝑠 𝑖𝑛 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒~

Oh my actual god, i’ve seen so much success ever since i’ve actually gone hard core on my sc, i used to argue with my partner multiple times a day and get triggered by every little thing they did. NOW, he treats me wonderfully, we haven’t argued since. i hardly get triggered and if i do i go straight to regulation and reaffirming my sc.

And honestly my whole life had changed since i’ve dedicated myself to changing my story.

I used to do a few days of hard core affirming and get my sp to the way i wanted him to be and then go back to being my old triggered self and then yell at him for ‘not changing’ when it was me who was committed to not changing?? How do i expect the results when i was so committed to being the person who had no results?

You can’t have it both ways, if you want the change, you have to first show the mirror the change so it can reflect it back to you.

[thewannabewriter9]

[thatlatinagirlworld]

[svdaily]

It's three things I don't play about:

(1) me

(2) my time

(3) my money

[theambitiouswoman]

Success Requires Discipline To:

Exercise & eat healthy

Manage time better

Invest money wisely

Maintain good relationships

Set & achieve goals

Stay organized

Control emotions

Chase personal development

Continue learning

Wake up earlier

Be consistent

Keep focus

Face challenges

Not give up

[venuslilgirl]

I am always being guided to the right places at the right time to receive the best opportunities of my life.

[urfavstargirl]

i manifested a package arriving!! *with picture proof*

just so yall know im only adding picture proof bc some people in this community have trust issues and cant take a loablr's word for it when they say they manifested something. and im not tryna get cancelled so there will be pictures.

okay, so two days ago i was like "im bored and i don't have anything to do rn, plus i want my package already so im just gonna enjoy it in my imagination." i was also worried abt it not coming before school starts because i think the online shop might be from another country? i decided to use my dear diary method and wrote about how i got the package i ordered! here's what i wrote:

dear diary,

AAAA!!! my stationerypal package arrived this morning! i didnt get to open it up yet, because we were just about to go to a museum, and i wanted to take my time unboxing the stuff. ANYWAYS im so excited to use all my new stationery!

then i just imagined using my new highlighters, people complimenting my cute stationery, unboxing the package, etc. that was all i visualized because for some reason i was having a difficult time visualizing that day, so i just affirmed something along the lines of "i'm so glad my package arrived" a few times.

that was all i did that day, and from then on whenever i thought of the package i just thought "yea i already got it" and remembered writing a diary entry about it.

so like i said it took about 2 days to manifest it into my 3d, which wasnt even that important to me anymore but it's still pretty cool to me. i did the diary entry on sunday, and then today (tuesday) my mom brought in the mail and my package had arrived!!

yall probably dont care about this but heres what i got:

so yea my final advice would be just to fulfill yourself in imagination, it was fun to write that little diary entry! dont worry about it manifesting in the 3d, i just shared because this is one of the first times i've manifested something into the 3d and i was kinda proud of myself.

PICTURES (no pictures of the products bc i dont have a phone. i love my strict parents xoxo. but if i do ever get a phone i will add the pics)