reminder that deadname and birthname are not synonymous for all trans people! there are trans people (of all genders) who use the name they were given at birth, either alongside (an)other name(s) or by itself!
also, not all trans people with gender neutral or gender conforming names chose that name for themselves. some trans people were given gender neutral names (or names that are non-conforming for their AGAB) at birth, which is one reason a trans person might choose to keep their birthname.
also also, some trans people (due to gender nonconformity or for whatever reason) choose names that are gender nonconforming for their actual genders but not for their AGAB, so someone who calls a transmasc by a feminine name or a transfem by a masculine name or a non-binary person by a gendered-sounding name is not necessarily deadnaming them. (if you have concerns that they are and if it would be safe for both yourself and the trans person to do so, ask the trans person what their actual name is. don’t automatically berate the other person for "deadnaming" them.)
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Due to personal reasons I hc that all of Sebastian's bodily fluids are black. You're welcome guys.
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little miss buys everything pink just because she thinks it's cute even though it's absolutely not needed..🎀 ߹𖥦߹
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Often father and daughter look down on mother (woman) together. They exchange meaningful glances when she misses a point. They agree that she is not bright as they are, cannot reason as they do. This collusion does not save the daughter from the mother’s fate.
~Bonnie Burstow, Radical Feminist Therapy: Working in the Context of Violence
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In other universe I'm 8 again and I do not care abt any1. It's just me and my toys. Just enjoying life without any worries abt the future
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I read tumblr on instagram, I watch tiktok on tumblr, I follow tiktokers on instagram, and twitters… there.
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Me, finding an old movie: oh I loved that movie!
*has no idea what actually happened in it because I retain nothing and everything at the same time*
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You know the feeling? when you're trying to share something to somebody close to you and they're just like "oh okay, you know what happened to me..."
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I want to say fuck to my exams and assignments and then my teachers, the society, me and life in that exact same order
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I need people to figure out if we're supposed to go outside and socialize and talk to "real people" or if we're supposed to be responsible and stay at home and not get covid.
I'm sick and tired of getting the messaging that you should do both of these things when they are in fact mutually exclusive.
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It's just me and my 1600+ black butler pinterest board against the world
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the stars aligned and new constellations were born and the wind sighed over this fever dream of a world when gregory alan isakov penned down "smoke it flies from whisky mouths, vagabonds walk this suitcase town, summer left us beckoning, the cottonwoods were all worn out, night comes fixing on the day, the universe reigned again "
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