some things about nonbinary ppl because some peeople are ignorant:
not all of us are afab (i really fucken wish this tiktok girls would stop assuming that because it's just not true)
not all of us want to be called an enby, that makes some people uncomfy and everyone needs to respect that
not all of us go (or want to go) through hrt
not all of us use they/them prns or neo pronouns
some ppl use just he/him or she/her and that is fine because it's your own person
not all of us name ourselves just. words. like "sock" or "blue" (no hate of course to the people who do, those names are very cool, but it still is a stereotype and it's annoying when ppl genuinely assume this outside of being meme-y)
not all of us dress androgynously and we dont have to
and lastly, none of us owe anybody else anything because it's our gender, and it's no one else's business
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just a little reminder that:
you’re still trans if you don’t struggle with dysphoria
you’re still trans if you haven’t felt “trapped in the wrong body since birth”
you’re still trans if you accidentally misgender/ deadname yourself sometimes
you are valid and don’t let anyone tell you you aren’t “really trans” because you don’t go through the “typical” trans experience
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psa for those who chest bind or are planning to chest bind!! you are only supposed to wear your binder 6-8 hours with breaks!! please take care of yourself!! i know it feels amazing in the moment but chronic chest pain won't!! be careful!! i love you!!
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trans people do not need to pass as cis before their identity/gender is taken seriously. sure, it’s great for some to be told that they pass, as it can feel amazing to be told you are seen the way you identify but that isn’t the case for all. some may prefer to be seen more feminine/masculine (just like cis people do) and that’s okay!! they should still be respected!! it’s the same for nonbinary folk and anyone that doesn’t fit as ‘man’ or ‘woman’, they don’t have to look androgynous or the way you expect them to.
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Happy Trans Day of Visibility folks 🏳️⚧️
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Hey I decided to make a social Discord server for trans-umbrella folk who are also aspec. Most of the trans servers I’ve run into have an implicit assumption that members are allo and it made me feel kind of unwelcome or like I was being pushed out of conversations I was already participating in, but the aspec servers I’ve tried joining were mostly comprised of cis people. There are Sapphic trans servers and Achillean trans servers, so why not a server for aspec folks as well?
<begin self-promo>
Aspec Trans Gang is a social server intended for gender-variant adults who are on the asexual spectrum, the aromantic spectrum, or the aplatonic spectrum!
This 18+ server is SFW and new users are verified by staff to prevent trolling. Neopronoun, multigender, xenogender, non-transitioning, non-dysphoric, gender- and orientation-questioning friendly! All good-faith identities are welcome!
🌿40+ self-assignable roles
🌿 Dozens of cute emotes
🌿 Categories for hobbies, health, and gender/orientation discussion
🌿 Icebreaking, poll, and QOTD channel
🌿 Resource-sharing channel
🌿 Ticket bot for easy staff outreach
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Like/reblog if ur under the trans/nonbinary spectrum
wanna see how many of my followers and just random peeps that see this post are trans or nb in any way :3
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