#transgender man

[donnieisaprettyboy]

you are not a man.

you're a heterosexual female woman with artificially induced hormonal imbalance.

YWNBAM.

the sexual tension is palpable

[ruikasanrobots]

Dear users of Tumblr,

As of recent, for the past 4 weeks I've been called many rude transphobic things in real life, including a slur that we all know well. I am sick of being treated like this and am preparing to fight back against these.

So, here is my question: What are some good insults against transphobes? Take note that this is a preppy girl that thinks she's superior, so any insult that could target her would be lovely.

REBLOGS ARE APPRECIATED AND REQUESTED!!

[island-76]

Here's your reminder that AFAB doesn't mean that person has breasts and a vagina. That AMAB doesn't mean that person has a flat chest and a dick.

AFAB PEOPLE CAN HAVE DICKS.

AFAB PEOPLE CAN HAVE FLAT CHESTS.

AFAB PEOPLE CAN HAVE BEARDS.

AFAB PEOPLE CAN HAVE DEEP VOICES

AMAB PEOPLE CAN HAVE TITS

AMAB PEOPLE CAN HAVE PUSSIES

AMAB PEOPLE CAN HAVE CURVES

AMAB PEOPLE CAN HAVE HIGH-PITCHED VOICES

Don't let AMAB and AFAB become the progressive binary

[iceeericeee]

arguing w/ my brother and I needed to make this

Reblog if you think ‘transmasc lesbian’ is a valid identity

I’ll show him the number of notes after about a week or so

[angelic-transsexual]

extreme man hate harms trans men and transmasculine people. men are not inherently evil. testosterone is not poison. masculinity is not inherently bad. i said what i said.

[nicname]

”Oh if we didn’t have xenogenders/GNC trans people/neopronouns/MOGAI/etc etc etc then transphobes would respect us.” Untrue. Most transphobes are so insanely vitriolic that you could be the most standard, decent, agreeable trans person, and they would still hate you.

I’m a fairly basic trans man, online and off. I tone my gender down even more for work. I have short hair, facial hair, I wear pretty standard non-fitted pants and t shirts with some manner of compressive undergarment underneath, and I go by my fairly basic, common masc name. The only difference between me and my cis coworkers is that I openly engage in good-faith discussions about my being transgender when brought up, and I have a “he/him” pronoun pin I like to wear.

I have one coworker who I’m well aware has never gendered me correctly. I have assumed it was an intentional, bad-faith decision (because of other, unrelated-to-me conversations he has had with coworkers), but I’ve never really cared enough to bring it up to him. I figured, “if this is intentional, that’s his issue. I’m not interested in trying to change his mind.” I’ve reached a point in my transition to where I don’t really care that much if some random person doesn’t respect me or my gender, because I don’t need every stranger’s approval to be happy with myself.

With all that being said, I’ve treated him the same as I have every other coworker. I’ve been civil, I’ve been agreeable, I’ve still been friendly to him and haven’t gone around the workplace intending to smear his name. (Yes, I have discussed his behavior to those close to me who have asked, but I’ve kept it very private and said that as long as he doesn’t say anything outwardly malicious, I don’t really care about his behavior.) He has been outwardly friendly to me, too, telling me about his past careers, showing me pictures of his family, we’ve talked about our hobbies and other things we enjoy.

Still, after all of this, he has given up the ghost and decided to gossip about me negatively to coworkers. I won’t go into detail about what I’ve been told he said, but it was all explicitly transphobic and pretty aggressive. I’ve never gone out of my way to make him mad, relating to my gender or not, so it’s a little out of nowhere. I’m not particularly surprised by this, but I’m more surprised that he would be bold enough to say everything out loud when working for a company that has explicit protections for trans people in place. He was reported fairly quickly, without me ever knowing what occurred. The only reason I found out about everything is because I overheard a manager discussing it with a concerned coworker from my department.

So, if you take anything away from this, let it be that no amount of friendliness, gender-conformity, or civilness with stop a transphobe from taking their transphobia out on you, and it’s not your fault or any other trans person’s fault. Don’t victim blame trans people who become the subject of someone’s transphobic hate, because a transphobe is dedicated to harming trans people regardless of whether they blend in with cis people or not. Don’t use a transphobe’s needlessly malicious behavior as a reason to harass other trans, GNC, nonbinary, or otherwise gender diverse people.

[felixfeliccis]

Mission failed

[genderstarbucks]

[possibly-astraeus]

...I LOOK LIKE A BOYYYYYY AHAHUAHAGAHAU

My mother did her very best, and I am very, very proud of her <333

[madamepestilence]

Massive Anti-Trans Blocklist

Hi! One of my friends accidentally rb’d from a TERF and I ended up in a giant rabbit hole of anti-trans accounts. Here they are so you can go block them! They’re in no particular order, and this certainly doesn’t encapsulate all of them, but I sure did run into a lot.

riverxdaughter

battlefemme

magnetictapedatastorage

female-malice

starinyourhand

omgitsburning

feministfairy

lez0mbie

apostasy-is-ectasy

overt-menstruation

gatekeeper-of-witchcraft

gender-critical-analytical

rad-by-nature

deadlysunlight

rad-octopus

permutational

thecoloredcanvas

sappho-the-witch

artemis-howl

shedwarf

menalez

spookyradluka

basedandradpilled

radfeminist-suggestions

coochiequeens

joannerowling

feministclassicist

capybarad

bezoarcureforpoison

blackswallowtailbutterfly

madolecence

shes-unforgettable

radgritty

destielterf

chadradfem

sweetlyobsessing

apple-pie-42

femmegoddess-hecate

prinzessintor

butchviking

oracle-cassandra

sartbismus

nansheonearth

cisthoughtcrime

friendlymathematician

bumblee-stumblee

femmesandhoney

kiefbowl

kronkk

radmoonpriestess

balkanradfem

vulvasaur

Feel free to add more. Happy blocking! I made sure not to tag any of these accounts so there’s less chance of people rb’ing being harrassed.

[dragoncuspid]

Been a min since I wore my cowboy hats and I also just found this shirt at an antique store which I think goes really well with it + a bolo tie!!

[donnieisaprettyboy]

thinking about the stories I used to write in middle school about girls cutting their hair off and stealing their brother’s clothes to escape home and become a cowboy in the west, or a member of a local revolution, or a pirate on a ship, etc etc

I thought I was a creative genius but turns out I’m just trans

[natasha442]

Available for fun daddy's 💦💦🥵

[jirai-boy]

i just saw someone say "trans mascs we need to do better and stop denying the gravity of transmisogynist violence." while downplaying the gravity of anti-transmasculine violence. not only that, it was on SOMEONE ELSE'S TWEET, of him venting about how he can see someone say that he has it less hard, and then scroll and see multiple articles about trans men being murdered.

i'm so sick of this. how do you go onto a TRANS MAN'S VENT TWEET to try and shift the focus onto trans women? to try and go "ermm well youre a transmasc so it's actually not that bad". do you understand how fucking vile that is?

[randomcartoonbro]

Heya!! My top surgery consultation is right around the corner and I still need a bit of financial help to pay for the surgery, so I've added some new designs to my RB to help with that :D . If you're a fellow queer punk, I think you'll enjoy these. If not, there's other softer designs up there too that might suit your fancy! Check it out!

[angelic-transsexual]

trans men and transmasculine people should not have to be misgendered in order to be in certain safe spaces for themselves. as a very feminine gay trans man i do not feel "safe" in cis men spaces, even cis gay men spaces. but when i try to go to spaces that are safer for me they are labeled as "women only" or "women and nonbinary people" (which that is another issue in itself). in the past i've been in so many spaces that were very "no men" i was often told that i was "different" and that its okay because i'm a trans man. it simply makes me feel like i am not seen as a real man.

transgender men and transmasculine people are often in this sort of limbo when it comes to community. this is simply one example.

as a transgender man i feel like i do not belong anywhere and that i am in the middle and its very isolating.