#turigirl

[everyponie]

"anti good faith identities" do you know how insane you sound

[queerbatting]

people need to realize that dissolving the lines between gender also means dissolving the lines between sexuality. you cannot say gender is fake and then say sexuality is strict and rigid.

there are multigender/genderfluid people who are lesbians and gay men at the same time. there are mspec lesbians/gays/straights who have a complex relationship with gender and their sexuality. there are gay men who are women and lesbians who are men because male isn't the opposite of female.

"conflicting" labels are a part of many people's queer experience, because the human experience isnt simple enough to be put into neat perfect categories. if you truly support trans/genderqueer people, you need to accept the fact that gender and sexuality is complex and there will be people whose identities you don't understand

[transonlyspace]

[moonshinedyke]

I am literally fucking BEGGING you all to also acknowledge the racism behind the terms "non-man" and "non-woman" and how they're used in queer definitions.

Black and Indigenous queer people have literally been talking about this since the definition was COINED but there's literally NO acknowledgement of this when pointing out why "non-men loving non-men" and "non-women loving non-women" are shitty fucking definitions to force on a whole community.

"Nonman" and "nonwoman" are terms that have been historically used to describe the degendering of black people in society. And words can obviously be used to mean different things- we don't have to stop using these terms altogether. But forcing these terms on a whole community of queer people is really fucking antiblack.

Not to mention that it blatantly degenders a lot of 2S lesbians and gays as well. It basically tells them that they can't be 2S and as a lesbian or gay at the same time, because then they would be "contradictory." I seriously hope I don't have to explain how racist it is to exclude a large portion of Two-Spirit people from your queer label because they don't fit into your neat little white gender binary.

Like these definitions aren't bad to use for yourself personally- but stop forcing them on all lesbians/gays. And if you're advocating for why these shouldn't be used as the most prominent definition, PLEASE acknowledge the racism aspect of it.

[eggdoesthings]

Begging people to get normal about the way multigender people label their attraction

[thehealingsystem]

It's so wild to me that as a community we're still so hostile to multigender and genderfluid people existing in gay and lesbian spaces.

You...are aware that people who are both men and women are allowed to be gay, right? And lesbian? Their other genders doesn't cancel their connection to womanhood, or manhood, or whatever else they id with. They are allowed to be gay despite their fem-alignment, and they are allowed to be lesbian despite their masc-alignment.

It comes from these weird online spaces that the standard to be gay or lesbian is to be a "non-woman" or a "non-man," which is inherently transmultiphobic and...extremely ahistorical. And completely misunderstands nonbinary identity. So if you're both then you just don't belong anywhere I suppose.

[antisocialbimbo]

Shoutout to the coolest motherfuckers around

- AMAB (trans/enby) lesbians

- Masc presenting transfem AMAB ppl

- Lesgays / Gaybians / Fagdykes

- AFAB intersex transfems

- AMAB intersex transmascs

- AFABS who are transfem anyway and AMABS who are transmasc anyway

- Transmascfems / Transfemmascs

- ALL transneutrals

- Mspec gays & lesbians

- Lesboys / Gaygirls / Velaurians

- FTM mothers

- MTF fathers

- Neopronoun users

- Xenogender users

- MTF Femboys and FTM Tomboys

- Loveless aromantics / Romance repulsed aros

- Aplatonics / Aplatonic spectrums

- Lesbians with Bfs

- Gays with Gfs

- She/Her Gays

- He/Him Lesbians

- Any enby who uses he or she pronouns

- Transsexuals

- Invisibly disabled queer and trans people

- Visibly disabled queer and trans people

I LOVE YOU ALL SO SO MUCH PLEASE NEVER STOP BEING YOURSELVES 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

[murielsbottombitch]

the progressive leaving people's body when they hear about mspec gays, he/him lesbians, she/her gays, multigender people, oriented aroaces, xenogenders or any other "weird" queer label:

y'all care so much about queer people until we aren't queer in a way that aligns with your binary world view

[sapphic-boy]

ppl are literally so shitty about multigender people particularly boy+girl multigender ppl and i dont think they even realize it

saying boys cant be lesbians excludes us

saying girls cant be gay dudes excludes us

saying you cant be straight and gay or straight and lesbian at the same time excludes us

saying "non-men loving non-men" and "non-women loving non-women" excludes us

saying lesbian and gay are inherently inclusive of nonbinary people while also saying lesbians cant love men and gay dudes cant love women excludes us

having "men dni" or "women dni" on ur nblw/wlw and mlnb/mlm blogs excludes us

[doomsdayradio]

i love you mspec lesbians and bi lesbians and pan lesbians and omni lesbians and ply lesbians and abro lesbians and mspec gays and bi gays and pan gays and omni gays and ply gays and abro gays and mspec straights and bi straights and pan straights and omni straights and ply straights and abro straights and abros and gaybians and lesboys and trans man lesbians and turigirls and trans woman gays and enbyhets and aplatonics/aplspecs

[thexspiral]

"We need more weird queer people!"

Yall can't accept lesboys and turigirls

Yall can't accept mspec gays and lesbians

Yall can't accept cistrans people

Yall can't accept FtMtF trans women and MtFtM trans men

Yall can't accept intersex people who aren't cis or trans

Yall can't accept transfemmascs

Yall can't accept gaybians

Yall can't accept neurogender people

Yall can't accept loveless aros

Yall can't accept aplatonics

Yall can't accept xenogenders

Yall can't accept cis non-binary people

Yall can't even accept straight trans folks.

[everyponie]

Give me all the strange queerness!! I want lesbians with beards, femmes with top surgery, gay men with boobs, bears in dresses!! I want it all!!

[intersexfairy]

i love when men. especially when trans, gnc, and nonbinary men. i love men and the way they exist.

[mogai-flaggot]

BUTCHBEAR ; for those who identify with both the butch and bear labels. this can be self-described however the identifier pleases, and represents queerness in masculinity and self-love.

[doomgendr]

girltwink & boybutch flags

for girls who are twinks & boys who are butches !

girltwink ⤵️

boybutch ⤵️

higher quality versions on my twitter

[zootzbootz]

"you can't be bi and lesbian!"

"you can't be straight and gay!"

"you can't be allo and aspec!"

"you can't be a lesbian man!"

"you can't be a vincian woman!"

"you can't be cis and trans!"

multigender, abrosexual, and varioriented people have left the chat

In all reality, "contradictory" labels and the people who use them are wonderful/gen