How to Stop Comparing yourself to other people.
Avoid these 3 stages of insecurities:
Complaint
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Critique
COMPLAIN
All the negativity occurs during the complaining stage.
when you become aware of your flaws and imperfection, you will begin to complain about how ugly it is, how inconvenient it is, how they ruin your image in the eye of others, and so on.
COMPARE/CONTRAST
In comparing, the stage is where the problem starts. you will start to compare what you have and what you don't have to someone that is close to you, or maybe to someone that doesn't even know that you in the first place ( you know, comparing yourself to celebrities and other famous people in some industries).
CRITICIZE
This is where the bigger problem starts.
After you complain and compare yourself to others. You begin to criticize them to compensate for having less of what they have.
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Hello! I've been reading a lot of the fics you rec. I was wondering if you have any more fics that are like or are similar to Waiting by isthatbloodonhisshirt on a03? That's my favorite fanfic and would greatly appreciate it, please and thank you!
Waiting is completely brilliant!! It deserves to be your favorite. ❤️ Here are a few more feral/full wolf Derek fics that I love.
Waiting by isthatbloodonhisshirt (wasterella) | 81K
Not wanting to think on it took much, Stiles took a step forward and passed his hand between the bars, moving the bleeding side closer to Derek’s mouth.
“Not too close, he bites.”
Stiles snatched his hand away just as Derek had been about to lick at it. The snarl he got in response was not comforting.
“He what?” Stiles asked nervously, turning to Deaton.
The man looked a little amused. “Don’t worry, only if he doesn’t like you.”
“Well, he probably hates me, now!” Stiles insisted, turning back to Derek.
He looked extremely displeased.
The One With The Scottish Wolf Lord by Stoney | 11.7K | Explicit
The Hales are alive and a royal family in Scotland; Stiles is the waif sent to work in the kitchens, elevated to personal attendant/servant to the young Lord Hale. Who happens to be a wolf who can’t shift back.
The Wolf in the Tower by exclamation | 57K
Too many people are scared of witches so when Stiles accidentally sets a building on fire with magic, he is taken prisoner and dragged before Lord Hale. Rather than leave an untrained magic user free, Peter Hale thinks he might be able to make use of Stiles’ skills and hands Stiles over to his sorceror Deaton to be trained. Stiles is still unsure about his future, but he’s even more confused when he finds out that one of his new duties involves feeding the black wolf imprisoned at the top of one of the towers. There’s something very strange about this wolf and Stiles can’t help wondering if magic might be involved.
Lock All The Doors Behind You by entanglednow | 25.9K
He has no idea what you’re supposed to say when you find one of your…werewolf acquaintances, completely out of their mind, growling like they’re about to see what your insides taste like. There’s no handbook for this. Stiles is thinking that if he survives he might write one.
The Hale Beast by secretfanboy | 17.7K | Mature
Stiles would rather be at home playing X-Box than attending the ceremony inaugurating the Wolf nation’s sovereignty over the Argent kingdom, but he’s the Sheriff’s son so those are the breaks. What he doesn’t expect is the feral werewolf Prince Derek AKA The Beast to take an interest in him.
Fully Grown by thedaughterofkings | 36K
Stumbling across a wolf in the preserve is not what Stiles expects when he goes for a run the last night before school starts again. But even if the wolf acts more intelligent than a mere animal, he can’t have anything to do with Stiles’ unusual soulmark, four vicious scratches down his forearm, can he?
And what is Kate Argent doing back in Beacon Hills for the first time since the Hale Fire?
Stand Fast in Your Enchantments by DevilDoll, Rahciach | 76.9K
“Stiles knew damn well what a pissed-off wolf sounded like, and every hair on the back of his neck was telling him that somewhere in this room was a very pissed-off werewolf.” An AU in which Derek is feral, Stiles is magical, and they eat a lot of fast food.
Fire, Fury, and Flame by IAmAVeronica | 124.5K
Stiles Stilinski was never going to be the omega who got knocked up right after high school, and then he’s accidentally artificially inseminated with a stranger’s sperm.
Awesome.
And the father of Stiles’s baby just so happens to be Derek Hale. Half-feral, quite possibly a murderer, and pursued by a gleefully sadistic band of hunters who are only too eager to use Stiles and his baby to hit Derek right where it hurts.
Joy.
Don’t Feed the Wolves by Amazonia_8 | 30.3K
Stiles took the dare, because what else was he supposed to do when the whole lacrosse team was chanting his name? Even though the werewolf pack had left Beacon Hills years ago, nobody was stupid enough to set foot on the Hale property.
Except, apparently, Stiles.
Now he’s got a feral werewolf following him around town with the sole purpose of claiming Stiles as his own.
I’ll wrap up my bones, And leave them by LunaCanisLupus_22 | 65.1K | Explicit
The sign on the cage actually reads Beware: The Beast! in that crappy horror movie red paint that trickles down the paper in a failed attempt to appear like dripping blood.
And it would seem stupid if not for the living supernatural creature currently trapped behind its bars. Little hard to dismiss the big, hulking werewolf as a poorly constructed horror movie prop.
Oh how the mighty have fallen. Dude, cannot catch a break.
Where the Real Beasts Are by kaistrex (weishen) | 109K | Explicit
Crown Prince Stiles is gifted a direwolf on his eighteenth birthday by King Gerard I of Venatia. The only instruction? Never remove the collar.
Stiles never has been one to do as he’s told.
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A few months ago, Christ graduated me to a new way of self healing. He said that I do mot need Him to heal because I have the sovereignty in me to heal myself. It inspired me to research how to do that. I found Kryon! He is the way in which I have learned so much more about myself in every aspect of my physical and spiritual voyage. As far as self healing, this is what I've learned in a nutshell: The remembrance of the true you is so refreshing, it's like quenching a thirst for water after being dehydrated for so long. Some say the truth is hidden, the fact is, the truth has always been in you. It was never hidden, you simply forgot it was there all along. More than ever before, we are in the era to awaken to it. You no longer have to thirst for truth. Look inside, drink life and heal, rejuvenate, renew and recalibrate the best of you inside. The new energy is now being brought to your attention to develop a relationship with your healing engines inside. Your Innate is the bridge to your Cellular Structure, Higher-Self and Akash. Shower your love upon them and make your healing commands and they shall honor them. Be patient through the process because you are in for a beautiful healing ride. It can even be a quantum if you so choose to swiftly heal any affliction you want gone. Listen to Kryon because he knows! He teaches about every aspect of life in your physical and spiritual journey. It's beautiful! Peace all you majestic souls of love and light!🕊💞💞💞🙏 #healrejuvenaterenewrecalibrate #heal #rejuvenate #renew #recalibrate #kryon #selfhealing #learnaboutyourself #learnaboutyou #learnhow #physicalandspiritual #works #everyaspectoflife #beautifultruth #shineasbright #asthedivine #godzillionsuns #youareperfection #thereisnothing #wrongwithyou #loveyouasyouare #godlovesyouasyouare #youmatter #yourbeautiful #createbeautyeveryday #benevolence #compassion #patience #joypeace #consistency (at Heal Yourself) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cm1a1bQrzGb/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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I need help finding a fic, please! It's where I Derek is royalty (?) and is an alpha. and he goes to the town Stiles lived in just to find out everybody thought Stiles was a witch when really he was just an omega. His house was pretty broken down and Derek helped him fix it and fed him and stuff. The town tried to kill him too but Derek saved him. I honestly don't even know if I dreamed this or not because I can't find it anywhere!
Hi @youareperfection! @anowlnamedpig and @generouscandyearthquake says it's this one.
The Rarest of Gems by Hedwig221b
(7/7 I 26,497 I Explicit I Sterek)
"There, somewhere, a flower grows. Its curious petals reach in curiosity, but get burned in return. It craves a soothing touch, a lover’s kiss. It is the sweetest nectar, the brightest moonlight, the most alluring starry night. It is the rarest of gems. It is your mate, alpha Hale. But beware and haste, for the flower grows among the most vicious thorns, who can’t wait to tear it apart."
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1, 2, 12 for the tumblr asks :)
1. Do you have any side blogs?
yeah, i have two! one is @dontcry-youareperfect it's for arcane, but i don't really post there. the other is a secret vent blog ;)
and i'm thinking about starting a separate one for critical role so i don't flood it here!
2. How long have you have your account for?
since june 2020, i think? :D
12. Out of your orginal posts what is your favourite?
hmmm probably the unfinished doodle of my neria lavellan. it's not good and i really regret the background color choice, but i spend a lot of time on it! :)
also there were those really bad solavellan smut audios i made a whiiile ago, but i deleted them since because they're super embarrassing. i had no idea how to work with audio (still don't), literally learned the basics of a program to make them. still i spent a lot of time on them, so they're an honorable mention xD
who knows maybe I'll remaster them one day ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
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