#your feelings are valid

[thepeacefulgarden]

[lovveclub]

repeat after me: I’m not being difficult when I stand up for myself when someone is not treating me right

[ed-recovery-affirmations]

Just a semi-regular reminder that you do not have to wait until it is "that bad" in order to start pursuing recovery. You don't have to let it get worse in order to count. If it's happening to you, it counts. You matter and you don't have to put yourself through more suffering and a longer, more arduous recovery process (and more lasting damage!) in order to prove that it was bad enough. If you want to get better now, you do not have to get anybody's permission to do it. Healing can start anytime, anywhere, and you do not have to endure any worse in order to deserve better.

[wordsofwisdomandsoul]

[sketchesinstillness]

“If it matters to you, it’s important.” said ladybug. “All Your feelings are valid.

“Don't let anyone tell you

that whatever is hurting right now is not important.”

Stay close to people to whom you do not have to explain why your pain is important. Stay close to people who validate your feelings and to whom you do not have to explain your pain.

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

[loogi-selfships]

♡︎This is for all my selfshippers who are emotional!

Your F/Os understand that you show your feelings very openly and you express yourself more than others, but they will never judge you for it. They will never see you as someone who is "fragile", they understand you have flaws. You are allowed to express yourself to them. They'll listen to you, they'll comfort you, because they care.

♡︎prøshippers dni♡︎

[yourlovelyspace]

And they're also really important to me 💝

[icedteaffee]

It’s my party and I’ll cry if I want to!

Happy 26th Birthday to yours truly 💖

[safe-haven-safe-place]

[thepeacefulgarden]

[loveofentropy]

i have cried every last tear, and exhaled as many sighs as i can.

now what remains is a pent up rage with a hunger for the promise to make it out alive.

no matter how many times i regress and want to curl up into a ball so i cannot be perceived by a world that hates me anymore,

i always wipe the tears that follow up with the rage to prove myself, to love myself, to escape a self i never was;

and with that comes the words,

“i live because i can’t die.”

[navybrat817]

So sorry to bother you but I’m a writer as well but not of smut, I wouldn’t know how to write it but i’ve posted a few Bucky work’s recently that have got zero traction and it’s really unmotivating not getting any attention for the work i do, i use all the right tags and stuff but it doesn’t seem to get me anywhere.

do you have any tips on how i could get my work to gain traction?

You are not a bother, nonnie, and no apologies. I understand the frustration and discouragement when you put so much into your fics, but the traction isn't there. Interaction is hit and miss for many, myself included. Our worth isn't tied to our note count, but saying that to ourselves doesn't make our feelings immediately disappear.

I answered a similar ask here for writers who want to get their works out there more and connect within the community. I also answered a similar as here with a writer who was on the fence about whether or not they wanted to continue posting on this site due to lack of feedback. I hope this help and I hope things look up. ❤️

Love and thanks. ❤️

[breelynnxoxoxo]

A THOUGHT WORTH SHARING! 🖤🖤🖤

[befemininenow]

Getting your butt slapped by your boyfriend isn’t just sexually pleasurable. Sure, you love his rough hands softly slapping and caressing your big, rounded ass. But what turns you on is his response of showing his affection to you in a way that makes you feel so feminine and valid. Making out with him is one thing, girl. It’s another when you both feel the love connection sexually and intimately.

[yourlovelyspace]

All feelings are valid. 💝