Welcome to my blog. I'm Clara, 26, she/her, INFP, Pisces, Hufflepuff, from Italy, nice to meet you. 🌸
~ I love ... #music {BTXT; Louis Tomlinson; Ermal Meta}, #books {HP; TPOBAW; Someday This Pain Will Be Useful To You}, #anime&manga {Evangelion; Kuroshitsuji; BNHA}, #series {TGP; Flanaverse; Marvel}, #cartoons {ML; SU; TOH}, #ships {Taekook; Kawoshin; Bakudeku}, #games {TS4; The Witcher; AC}. My ultimates: 민 윤기, 김 태형, 최 수빈 💙
~ Following right now: J-Hope/Songs of the day ~ Fahrenheit 451/Chainsaw Man ~ One Piece/Frieren/SE ~ 3 Body Problem/Aletheia ~ ALNST ~ BkDk/Frieren&Himmel ~ TS4
This hit so hard cause the first time I used 8tracks it /actually/ was to make a Sterek playlist with a 10TIHAY theme and I had a reason for each and every song on there and eye. I felt this
i come from the 8tracks generation where you weren't allowed to just dump three and a half twee indie folk/tswift records into a fanmix and call it done. on 8tracks you had 8+ handpicked songs in rigid chronological order and an accompanying mission statement and thesis defence detailing exactly why each one applied to your derek x stiles coffee shop au AND cover/track-list art hodgepodged from stolen pinterest/tumblr aesthetic photography, and all of this was done under constant threat of death because it was the DMCA wild west and the site was in a constant state of gradual collapse.
Your parents are not "narcissists". They're typical authoritarian assholes who treat you like their property because society allows them to.
Your ex boyfriend is not a "narcissist". He's a typical misogynistic douchebag who treats women like shit because society allows him to.
Your boss is not a "narcissist". They're a typical classist dipshit who thinks workers' entire purpose in life is to generate profit because society allows them to.
And even if they happen to be a "narcissist", that's not what gave them the power to get away with abuse.
So stop blaming mental illness and start blaming society's normalization of abuse. Stop acting like someone has to have a mental illness in order to do something cruel when ordinary people have been doing atrocious things since forever.
Favorite thing about Dracula Daily so far is that yesterday I read a post that had in-depth, well-researched analysis that could easily be mistaken for a published literary criticism of Dracula, except it casually makes a passing reference to "the polycule" without feeling the need to elaborate