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btw if you’re fat and your partner doesn’t love you wholeheartedly, if they’re attracted to you “despite” your body, if they avoid touching you, if they look away from certain parts of you, you’re allowed to break up with that person. look at me. you can do better. you are not unloveable and you don’t have to settle i fucking promise.

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wouldn't it be funny if alters had walk up music

In the middle of a panic attack and you just hear "Super Bass" by Nicki Minaj start playing as Jeremy comes to trade places

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I just got described as an "ad hating commie" by someone because I said a minute of youtube ads is unpleasant. fully spent 5 minutes arguing and defending youtube ads. insane stuff

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they should legalize polyamory. everywhere. and im not kidding at all. if someone wants to marry multiple people they should be allowed to. for any reason.

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trauma so bad my coping mechanisms have names and pronouns

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While a rat with a desire to cook is one thing, whatever the deal was with the guy who can be operated like a mech suit by pulling his hair was never explained in any way nor connected to anything. I'm not going to call it a "plot hole" because I'm not boring like that, but I am fascinated by it, and the potential it has. Like could he be trained to do other tricks?

What if the mean purple-haired lady decided to pull his hair while pegging him, and as an involuntary reflex he pulls the fitted sheet from under them in that way you do that tablecloth trick, and then proceeds to fold it perfectly.

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(asking my system friend who's fronting)hey so uhh.. what user is logged in right now

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our brain when something stressful happens

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basically us all the time

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i deserve to be an eel. in a crevice with a bunch of other eels. opening and closing our mouths over and over

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Calling alters "alters, parts, headmates, peices": 🚫🚫🚫🚫

Calling alters: "those bitchass motherfuckers" ✅️✅️✅️

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i continually see posts telling people how to treat systems correctly and yet i STILL see systems being hurt by harmful behavior, whether singlets know it or not.

do NOT put whether an alter is an introject or not above them being a real person. as a singlet BY DEFAULT their source does not matter to you. treat them like you would anyone else until you know what they are and aren't okay with.

do NOT treat alters other than the host like they're lesser than them. everyone in a system is in the same boat, your host friend included. if you treat any other alter like shit the host (and everyone else in the system) WILL be affected.

do NOT trigger alters on purpose. i shouldn't even have to say this. we aren't fun little toys for you to play with, we're REAL FUCKING PEOPLE. i don't care how big of a fan of our sources you are or how stupid you think our triggers are. be a decent person and treat us like you would anyone else. it's dehumanizing to act otherwise.

do NOT make jokes about "waiting for [x] to split" to your system friends. this one really depends on the boundaries of whoever's in question, but joking about wanting us to split is insensitive. we don't split for fun or for you to interact with your favorite character. we split because it's how our brain knows how to cope. you're not in the place to make jokes about this unless you KNOW it's okay.

often times i see posts like this get mainly reblogged by systems, when singlets are the ones who perpetuate this behavior a majority of the time. singlets can (and should) reblog AND internalize this. we're real people with a real disorder. learn to treat us like human beings.

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honestly if teleporters ever got invented during my lifetime i would be the most annoying analog boomer about it. my grandkids would be like ugh, grandma, why don’t you just take a teleporter trip to come visit us, we all do it all the time and it’s obviously safe and i would be like absolutely not. it kills you and reconstitutes a copy with your exact memories. you are consciously my grandchildren and i do not hold it against you but i know in my heart that you are nothing but copies of copies of copies borne out of irresponsible technology use. i am not touching that devil’s elevator as long as i live. i will take an airplane and you will wait for the several hours it takes for me to come visit you

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your annual reminder:

don’t support autism speaks this month

don’t “light it up blue”

don’t use the puzzle piece symbol

however!

do support autistic content creators

do support “red instead” and the infinity symbol

remember to listen to the voices of marginalised autistic people!

happy autism awareness/acceptance month! go tell your local autistic pal that they’re awesome! if you’re autistic, remember to practice some self-love!

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Today I vaguely told our friends we're a questioning sys by using our discord status. Dont ask -Static

Also im too lazy to properly tag this post lol

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ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴜs!

ᴡᴇ ᴡɪʟʟ ɴᴏᴛ ʙᴇ ɢɪᴠɴɢ ᴏᴜʀ ʙᴏᴅʏ ɴᴀᴍᴇ ᴏʀ ᴀɢᴇ ғᴏʀ sᴀғᴇᴛʏ ᴀɴᴅ ɢᴇɴᴇʀᴀʟ ᴘʀɪᴠᴀᴄʏ ʀᴇᴀsᴏɴs! ♡ (ᴡᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ᴀ ᴍɪɴᴏʀ ᴛʜᴏ sᴏ ᴅᴏɴᴛ ʙᴇ ᴄʀᴇᴇᴘʏ!!!)

ᴡᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ᴛʜᴇ ɢʀᴀᴠᴇʏᴀʀᴅ {🪦🌾}

ᴘʟᴇᴀsᴇ ʀᴇғᴇʀ ᴛᴏ ᴜs ᴜsɪɴɢ ʜᴇ/ᴛʜᴇʏ/ɪᴛ ᴘʀᴏɴᴏᴜɴs ᴜɴʟᴇss ᴛᴀʟᴋɪɴɢ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ sᴏᴍᴇᴏɴᴇ sᴘᴇᴄɪғɪᴄ!

ᴡᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ᴜsɪɴɢ ᴛʜɪs ʙʟᴏɢ ᴛᴏ ᴛʀᴀᴄᴋ sʏᴍᴘᴛᴏᴍs, ʟᴇᴀʀɴ ᴍᴏʀᴇ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴏᴜʀsᴇʟᴠᴇs, ᴠᴇɴᴛ, sʜᴀʀᴇ ᴏᴜʀ ᴇxᴘᴇʀɪᴇɴᴄᴇs, ᴀɴᴅ ᴍᴏʀᴇ!

ᴡᴇ'ʀᴇ ᴀʟsᴏ ʜᴏᴘɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ғʀɪᴇɴᴅs ᴀɴᴅ ɢᴇᴛ ᴛᴏ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀ sʏsᴛᴇᴍs ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ɢᴇɴᴇʀᴀʟ ᴏsᴅᴅ/ᴅɪᴅ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴜɴɪɴɪᴛʏ

!ᴅɴɪ ɪғ!

-ᴇɴᴅᴏ/ᴅᴇᴍᴏ sʏsᴛᴇᴍ/sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛᴇʀ

-ᴛʀᴀɴsᴘʜᴏʙɪᴄ/ʜᴏᴍᴏᴘʜᴏʙɪᴄ/ᴀʙʟᴇɪsᴛ/ʀᴀᴄɪsᴛ/ᴍᴀᴘ/ᴇᴛᴄ.

-ᴜɴᴅᴇʀ 𝟷𝟹 ᴏʀ ᴏᴠᴇʀ 𝟸𝟶

(ᴍᴏʀᴇ ᴡɪʟʟ ᴍᴏsᴛ ʟɪᴋᴇʟʏ ʙᴇ ᴀᴅᴅᴇᴅ ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇ ғᴜᴛᴜʀᴇ)

ᴍᴏʀᴇ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴏᴜʀ sʏsᴛᴇᴍ!

ᴡᴇ ᴄᴜʀʀᴇɴᴛʟʏ ʜᴀᴠᴇ 𝟷𝟻 ᴀʟᴛᴇʀs (ᴀs ғᴀʀ ᴀs ᴡᴇ'ʀᴇ ᴀᴡᴀʀᴇ) !

ᴏᴜʀ ʜᴏsᴛ ɪs ᴇᴄʟɪᴘsᴇ (ʜᴇ/ʜɪᴍ/ᴍᴏᴏɴ)

ᴀɴᴅ ᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏ-ʜᴏsᴛs ᴀʀᴇ sᴛᴀᴛɪᴄ (ʜᴇ/ɪᴛ) ᴀɴᴅ sᴘɪʀɪᴛ-ʙᴏx (ʜᴇ/ʜɪᴍ)

ᴀ ʟᴏᴛ ᴏғ ᴜs ᴀʀᴇ ᴀɢᴇʀᴇɢʀᴇssᴏʀs (sғᴡ!! )(ᴅɴɪ ɪғ ɴsғᴡ ᴀɢᴇʀᴇ/ᴅᴅʟɢ/ʙ)

ᴡᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ᴄᴀʟʟᴇᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ɢʀᴀᴠᴇʏᴀʀᴅ ʙᴇᴄᴀᴜsᴇ ᴡᴇ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴍᴀɪɴʟʏ ɢʜᴏsᴛ/"ᴜɴᴅᴇᴀᴅ" ᴀʟᴛᴇʀs, ᴀɴᴅ ᴡᴇ ғɪɴᴅ ᴄᴏᴍғᴏʀᴛ ᴀɴᴅ sᴀғᴇᴛʏ ɪɴ ɢᴇɴᴇʀᴀʟʏ "ᴅᴀʀᴋ" ᴛʜɪɴɢs!

ᴡᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ᴀʟsᴏ ᴍᴇɴᴛᴀʟʟʏ ɪʟʟ! (ᴄ-ᴘᴛsᴅ, ᴍᴀᴊᴏʀ ᴅᴇᴘʀᴇssɪᴠᴇ, ᴀɴxɪᴇᴛʏ, ᴀɴᴅ ᴘʀᴏʙᴀʙʟʏ ᴍᴏʀᴇ)

ᴡᴇ ᴜsᴇ ᴛᴏɴᴇ ɪɴᴅɪᴄᴀᴛᴏʀs ɪɴ ᴄᴏɴᴠᴇʀsᴀᴛɪᴏɴ, ᴀɴᴅ ᴀsᴋ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴅᴏ ᴛʜᴇ sᴀᴍᴇ ᴡʜᴇɴ ᴛᴀʟᴋɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ᴜs!

ɪғ ᴀɴʏᴏᴍᴇ ʜᴀs ᴀɴʏ sᴜɢɢᴇsᴛɪᴏɴs ғᴏʀ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴛᴏ ᴀᴅᴅ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜɪs, ᴘʟᴇᴀsᴇ ʟᴇᴛ ᴜs ᴋɴᴏᴡ!