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thegyusorcerer · 5 months
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me: comes out as bi, ready to explore my queerness and date new people (hopefully girls...)
also me: falls for a gamer boi
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thegyusorcerer · 6 months
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My favorite genre in books is queers describing their significant others as magic.
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thegyusorcerer · 6 months
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Sapphic Book Recommendations: Grumpy x Sunshine
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Written In The Stars by Alexandria Bellefleur
Love By The Numbers by Karin Kallmaker
Lucky In Lace by Melissa Brayden
A Thorn Among Roses by Haley Anderton
All The Little Moments by G. Benson
Devil's Advocate by T. B. Markinson and Miranda McLeod
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thegyusorcerer · 6 months
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you are not "inconvenient" for using pronouns other than he or she or for having a complex gender, or one other than male or female. you are just being honest about who you are, people who refuse to acknowledge you correctly are the ones being inconvenient.
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thegyusorcerer · 7 months
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It is inherently fun and sexy to say statements that swap the traditional genders of pronouns and terms mid-statement, such as: "I'm going to make him my wife" "She's my boyfriend" "Who says a guy can't be a pretty princess?" "That girl's the coolest dude I've ever met" "She's a madman who has to be stopped" "It's not his fault he's a material girl" Gender is a set of watercolors and the prettiest shades come from mixing the paints together.
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thegyusorcerer · 7 months
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Something I dislike is how when something is a "phase" people act like that it was fake.
A good example is with Identity, that's where my complaint is at mostly. A lot of people are so stuck in this idea that no, we are born the way we are, we can't POSSIBLY change overtime, so any phases we have were fake and we weren't ACTUALLY bisexual, or a lesbian, or nonbinary, etc.
Just because the moon has phases doesn't mean those don't exist. When it's a full moon it is a full moon for that time period, and just because it changes to a new moon the next night doesn't mean it wasn't a genuine full moon the night before. Sure, no matter what phase it IS the moon, but just like no matter what your identity is, you're still you, but the phases are important and REAL parts of your life.
And I get that some people might have been confused, or buried in internalized self hatred, but I feel like we forget that as people as we very much do change overtime, and that can include things like our attractions, preferences, gender presentation and identity, etc.
You weren't a "fake" lesbian, you were a lesbian and maybe now you're bisexual, or transhet, or maybe you're still a lesbian just with a different attraction experience. Maybe you DID grow up Cis and now find yourself with dysphoria.
I feel like this mindset that changing your identity is admitting you were wrong just leads people to be afraid to explore themselves, out of fear of losing a community they've felt at home in, or were/are apart of.
I think this ties into the queer communities fear of fluidity, and I also believe this ties into the queer community wanting to appeal to allocishets idea of "we can't change ever this is always who we are", because so often, the allocishet patriarchy we sit in shames us for the ability to change and paints change as invalidating, so we scramble to appeal to a society that will always try and find a pointless way to invalidate us.
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thegyusorcerer · 7 months
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my new hobby is making hyperspecifc Pinterest boards about my favorite topics of science 👍
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thegyusorcerer · 7 months
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btw there's no hard barriers between any queer identities- where one identity ends and another begins, they meld together, creating a gradient between the two, and every other identity around it. it's one big gradient, not rigid boxes that can never be touched by one another. queerness involves embracing those gray areas, celebrating them, and the lives of people who occupy them. being unique does not involve casting away those who are similar to you- there are no barriers between different queers, we are all part of the the same beautiful tapestry.
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thegyusorcerer · 7 months
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you know what's weird and what I can't figure out about my gender... that I envy gay men a lot, especially when I see gay couples0. I feel so connected to them and feel like a feminine little guy so much of the time... but when I see a lesbian couple I envy them as well- and it makes me feel like a masc sapphic too. It's like I simultaneously feel like a twink and a butch. it's confusing af, I know.
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thegyusorcerer · 7 months
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haven't posted in so long....
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thegyusorcerer · 7 months
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young entrepreneurs must stick together, so I'm spending all of my money buying cute little trinkets and jewelry from them all 😋❤️‍🔥
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thegyusorcerer · 8 months
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gayness and lesbianism are inherent parts of the bisexual experience. gayness and lesbianism are not exclusive identities that cannot exist alongside other types of attraction. gayness and lesbianism do not mean exclusively attracted to men or women. bisexuality does not exist outside of lesbianism and gayness, it encompasses and includes them. these terms are not and will never be mutually exclusive, they can be and are parts of the same experience.
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thegyusorcerer · 8 months
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It’s time to stop treating first dates, first kisses, and losing virginity as milestones or rites of passage that must be completed. It’s time to stop expecting these things to happen in everyone’s teen years or even in their twenties. It’s time to stop letting people call themselves “late bloomers” for getting their first kiss at 16. It’s stupid. It’s unnecessary. It’s damaging to people who for whatever reason it may be don’t have romantic prospects or don’t even want to do those things.
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thegyusorcerer · 8 months
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You don't have to be consistently "feminine" or "masculine" in your appearance as a nonbinary person if you don't want to be. You don't have to engage with either at all.
Those categories are very subjective and flexible for us. Bend and mix them for your use. Invent something new.
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thegyusorcerer · 8 months
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whenever anyone says they are “okay with gay people as long as they don’t make it their whole personality” it makes me so sad.
firstly, we should not merely be tolerated. secondly, you’re clearly homophobic and your tolerance extends only so far as your comfortability for that which is different. finally, why should we not make out personality who and what we love? i would rather be defined by my love any day than hatred or indifference.
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thegyusorcerer · 8 months
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happy pride to polyamorous people, non-monogamists, relationship anarchists, swingers, people who follow to multiple models of love, people in kink families/houses, and anyone else who feels their love and the way they conduct their life does not suit the amatonormative "one partner for life" model. i hope you have an amazing time loving and being loved and enjoying life
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thegyusorcerer · 8 months
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being an entrepreneur is a full time job y'all 🫡
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