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wait hold up

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ok typically what i do is i wear Not Home clothes when i'm out of the house and Home clothes when i'm in the house which also double as Asleep clothes but apparently nobody else on earth does this and that's super weird. please help me gather data points/settle an argument

not to panhandle for reblogs but this poll won't work unless someone reblogs it 🥺🥺🥺

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“He’s supposed to be a geek - he looks like Captain fucking America” - John Rogers

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Do you remember what you spent 2020 doing?

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Honestly the way in "feminist spaces" bras are talked about like they're a beauty treatment is so weird. They're a support garment. Some people also wear them for modesty, which like if you don't care about that fine but a lot of people do, but either way they're ultimately practical, supportive underwear pieces and not necessarily anything more. You can get very utilitarian ones and very decorative ones and we've incorporated them into sexual play like we have panties, but they're just there to help keep your tatas from smacking you in the face.

Whether its some skinny small-tittied bitch in the 70s burning them or some skinny small-tittied bitch now sharing psas like "you don't Have to wear a bra! Feminism!" they never fucking go away. Like pretty sure the folks who don't have to already know that. I'm not wearing one bc I want to appeal to patriarchal beauty standards, I'm doing it bc the alternative is Deeply physically uncomfortable and even painful, and that's what the fucking things were invented for. I get that you're Thin™️ and Normal™️ or whatever but the rest of us aren't. Like why dont your call out jock straps or shoes, obviously people only wear those for sexualized and performative patriarchal reasons and no actual practical function, right? Like live a goddamn day in my cup size before you talk to me about this shit again.

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Brought to you by my intense love of k.d. lang's version of Hallelujah (originally by Leonard Cohen).

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Some of yall need to be more embarrassed about what yall say online and im not talking about the fandom people because at least they have friends that share their niche interests. Some of yall dont even have that and be on here talking to strangers any kind of way and then wonder why ur lonely. Like girl it’s because u are awful to be around

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rb to make a biological essentialist mad <3

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PRIDE & PREJUDICE (2005) Dir. Joe Wright

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I mean that’s also, in part, wrong? I’m an agnostic atheist. I don’t BELIEVE there is a deity but I don’t know that for sure. My understanding that you can’t prove there is no God means that I am agnostic. The fact that I don’t believe there is a god means I’m an atheist. They coexist.

Some atheists are sure, so theists question. I think of this as more similar to the varying scales of romantic attraction, sexual attraction, and aro/ace scales. They’re all related and we all sit on at least two of them but not necessarily all of them.

There's something about atheism that I've repeatedly tried and failed to put into words on several posts on this blog but I think I finally got it.

Atheists are the only religious minority who, even (or sometimes even *especially*) in ostensibly progressive spaces are not allowed to ever act like they're sure of their beliefs.

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Nothing hits like "romantic couple and a third guy who's not dating either of them but is definitely a part of this dynamic"