packers are cool. stps are cool. strokers are cool. transmascs and trans men and anyone else who likes having a dick sometimes or all the time deserve to have support and easily available information for them
Anon said: "Days of Girlhood" by Dylan Mulvaney is loved by some, while others are deeply offended by it. I wonder what Tumblr users think 🤔
The video: https://youtu.be/77rRP_Sk3JI?si=LIbPMWCSAHmH2xNt
poll for ppl who have had/are planning to have top surgery (any sort, mastectomy/reduction/augmentation/whatever) cause im wondering about how many ppl here opt for no nipple grafts. I'm assuming if this gets votes most will b trans ppl for obvious reasons, but cis ppl feel free to vote you if got something relevant, your call
(no "show results" button bc i dont want the results mega skewed, pls dont use the "other" as "show results" just wait a week. schedule a reblog or st. ty.)
QUESTIONS FOR THE TAGS if u feel like answering any:
gender+what surgery+nipples yes/no
for ppl who opted for no nips, any partic motivations for your decision? comfort, cost, easier healing, just like the vibes, etc?
any plans on tattoos, or just gonna leave blank? (still trying to decide if i wanna do coraline buttons for myself....)
as usual reblog to give this very scientific poll a slightly different sampling bias
we should hype up bottom surgery more i think. both twitter transphobes and chronically online trans people really like to be disgusted at phalloplasty, vaginoplasty, ext. and i really think we should treat them as cool and sexy and neutral like top surgery scars or whatever
btw if a trans man decides that they want to get pregnant and you're not normal about this and start spewing a bunch of transphobic shit i show up at your house and beat you to death with a baseball bat
i love headcanoning old men as ftm. like considering fandom loves to equate being transmasc to being young no one will probably agree with me but i look into his eyes and see the wisdom only a post-menopausal man could provide
It's actually terrifying how often I have to tell transmascs + men that tell me about how much it hurts then when their partner(s) constantly talk about how much they hate men, that it's actually not something they have to tolerate. "But they've been hurt by men" — so have you, man
and you've been hurt by women, and other trans people. If you constantly talked about how much you hate one of those groups, people would be rightfully offput by it. Why is it okay to do to you?
It's not. Somebody who cares about you won't gaslight you into tolerating it.