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Remember that statistically women do better in female only enviroments and men do worse in male only enviroments. We don’t need them they need us.

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If you think someone’s shirt is cool, tell them! If you think your friend is beautiful, tell them! If you love someone’s art, tell them! Speak goodness into the world, it is time to stop suppressing kind thoughts.

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What's the best way to turn down a guy?

This shouldn’t even be a question girls have to ask but the patriarchy has society all fucked up so I’m gunna give it to you straight. Just say no. You don’t owe him anything. You don’t owe him your kindness. You don’t owe him an excuse as to why you’re not interested. Teach him the meaning of no. Teach MEN the meaning of no. If he asks why, say, “because I don’t want too” or “because I’m not interested.” Leave it at that. Watch how fast that shuts him up. Remember: YOU DO NOT OWE MEN YOUR BODY, YOUR TIME, OR YOUR ATTENTION. You do not need to beat around the bush or tip toe around a “no” because you don’t want to hurt his feelings. He is not a child. You are not depriving him or taking away something that was his. You are yours. Masculinity is fragile these days but that doesn’t mean you have to cater to it. Just say “no.” Say “I’ll pass.” Say “I’m not interested.”

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Me: reblogs cute picture Me: the government is corrupt and wants nothing more than to kill you Me: reblogs funny post

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ALL 👏🏾 OF 👏🏾 THEM 👏🏾

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THIS IS THE REASON MY BLOG HAS SUDDENLY GONE APOLLO 13. Please check your settings and turn OFF this lousy stinking algorithm that the Tumblr Termites keep turning ON.

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I fucking love turtles. I have a Hawaiian turtle tattoo. They also mean longevity.

Here come the most Extra of turtles and tortoises

Indian Roof Turtle, about as close to a dragon turtle as we’re likely to get.

Burmese Roof Turtle, with a banana for a head

Diamondback Terrapin, the Rorschach of turtles

Red-Bellied Short-Necked Turtle, just look at those colors!

Burmese Starred Tortoise, geometrically chic

Radiated Tortoise, also geometrically chic but maybe more art deco

Painted Terrapin, no need to send in the clowns

Leopard Tortoise, breaking the mold with a little art noveau

Bell’s Hingeback Tortoise, “You think box turtles got it on lockdown? Hold my noms and watch this!”

Impressed Tortoise, what it says on the tin

Cane Turtle, otherwise known as “Winner Of Turtle Death Glare Competition Since Forever”

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i hope that you become filled with so much happiness that it heals every part of you

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reblog this if you want a LONG (or short) anonymous message saying what they think of you.

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can we just collectively agree as a generation that we aren’t going to care if each other’s houses are clean when we visit bc im gettin real sick of the “the house has to be spotless or our guests will judge us” deal my parents got goin on

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when a crime is committed, it is not the victim’s fault

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i hope this year has a good ending

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remember kids: rats are the capri sun of the vampire world