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David Shrigley

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Ethical non-monogamy and the full moon.

“Don’t look at the full moon with her. It would break my heart.” I know it’s unreasonable so I never ask, but I wish I could. I know better though, I know the moon doesn’t belong to me, and neither does he. Standing under the moon is a different thing between any two people, I know this, but it feels like mine. 

Never let her turn around and kiss you on the stairs the way I do. Never let her write stories on the back of your neck with her fingernails after you fuck. Never let her fall asleep on your shoulder, in the crook of your arm, the one that’s just the right shape for me to nestle against. I know in my heart it’s not just for me, I know it’s human-shaped, not me-shaped, but let’s pretend okay? Let’s pretend you were built just for me. What a pretty little fantasy. 

Let’s pretend that there were rules that could protect us, that if we just stayed within the right boundaries this would never hurt. Let’s pretend we can legislate our feelings, follow the red tape, let’s pretend regulations and a page of things we Can Not Do would be simple, like a grocery list. You never look at the moon with her and I’ll never let anyone brush my hair out of my face when it’s messy. I’ll never let anyone kiss my baby toes or hide my face during movies at the scary parts. I’ll never slow dance in the kitchen with anyone but you. 

Until I’m dancing, in a different kitchen, with someone who isn’t you. It’s a different dance, of course. They don’t hold me like you do, they’re cooking dinner and I touched them, it drew them to me, and next thing you know we were dancing. It doesn’t feel like a travesty or an invasion of our space, your space, my space with you. It feels like dancing in the kitchen with someone else. It’s wonderful in it’s own way, but different entirely. 

That’s why it would be a silly rule; You can outlaw an activity but you can’t control the intimacy between two people, the way any arbitrary act can feel magical, the chemistry at play. These things are not compartments you can lock up or barricade, they are life experiences, lived moments. Building blocks to connections that neither you or I can predict. We have to trust in what we’ve built together, and all the unique ways we make each other happy. The moon is going to look amazing tonight, no matter whose hand you’re holding as you look towards the sky. And if there’s fireworks between two people, you wouldn’t need the moon to see them. We can feel how we feel, that’s the deal. 

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That feel when you meet someone and the first thing that pops into your head is, “Hi, I’m queer. It’s nice to lesbian you.”

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NYC LGBTQ Solidarity Rally in front of the Stonewall Inn (2/4/17)

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⭐luv u binder boys⭐

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Anyway almost every gay person I know used to think they were straight but I literally don’t know a single straight person who used to think they were gay so statistically, whose sexuality is more likely to be a phase? Not mine bitch

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Do you know of any makeup tricks for a trans guy to look a little less feminine? Im not familiar with makeup so idk if this is actually a thing but if it is, any tips?

I don’t use makeup myself so I’m not necessarily the best person to ask, but perhaps something from here could be useful:

How to Apply Makeup to Look More Masculine

Female to Male Crossplay Makeup Tutorial

Masculine Face Contouring / FTM Makeup (video)

And [this image] seems to come up a lot when I search for masculinizing makeup stuff, although I haven’t found an actual source for it.

If any of my followers have any other resources for anon, please feel free to add to this post.

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a tall flower

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Attila Szücs

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Train ride through Western Bosnia & Hercegovina May 2014

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“Newt hurries into the vault. Inside he finds the Niffler lying among hundreds of opened deposit boxes, and seated on a great pile of cash. The Niffler stares at Newt defiantly as it forces another gold bar into its already overflowing pouch.”

-J.K Rowling, Fantastic beasts and where to find them

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an ode to shaving

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QTPOC art as self care

i’m trying this new thing where i consume something created by qtpoc daily as self care and comfort and inspiration so here are a bunch of resources to get your own daily qtpoc love going

general inspo:

QTPOC Selfies

QPOC/POC Fashion Blog

Julie Vu’s YouTube Channel (she’s a trans woman of color actress, model, and makeup guru)

i also like going under the qpoc, tpoc, and qtpoc tags 

writing:

50 Zines by QPOC

50 Books by QPOC

More QPOC Books

Books by TWOC

Lesbian, Bisexual, Queer WOC Fiction

music:

50+ Queer and Trans Rappers, Hip Hop Singers, DJ’s, and MC’s (certainly not all QTPOC but a lot of them are)

38 Queer Black Musicians

Some QPOC Musicians

QTPOC/WOC Bands

movies/tv:

10 Books, Films, Music by QPOC

Over 50 Queer POC Films/TV

Black Lesbian/Queer Web Series List

QPOC Webseries

please please please add to the list

esp less well-known artists