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Don't spend these last few weeks of April doing the same things that held you back last month.

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Don't beg. Don't force. Don't chase.

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The lack of respect was the closure. The lack of apology was the closure. The lack of care was the closure. The lack of accountability was the closure. The lack of honesty was the closure.

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I hope you find the courage to step out of your shell. You deserve to be seen. 

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Self-love without self-accountability is self-sabotage. 

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Sometimes it’s not what you said, it’s how you said it.

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Sending love to everyone silently pushing through the waves of grief while trying to continue on each day.

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We all don’t want to get out of bed sometimes. We all feel lost or loney sometimes. We all doubt if we're doing enough sometimes.  We all feel like we should be further along sometimes. We all have days where just getting dressed is the big win. We all lose motivation to cook sometimes. We all lose motivation to exercise sometimes. We all have fears about the future. We all don’t feel like doing anything sometimes. We all have moments of procrastination. We all face financial challenges now and then. We're all painfully human, learning as we go.  We’re all just trying to be okay.

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What you focus on, you become. Don't let people who are engulfed in distraction, distract you. Remember your 'why,' and protect your energy.

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Cherish your unique path, because all that glitters is not gold. You may already have what the people you envy and size yourself up against are still searching for.

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Don't create and subscribe to imaginary competitions. Time spent focused on them is time spent away from what truly matters. Your only competition is your potential. 

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Every time you put yourself out there, despite the possibility of rejection, you validate your courage and willingness to take risks. Embrace rejection as a form of empowerment. Your journey is one of hope, not self-shame.

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There will always be people from your community who missed your earlier posts. And the ones that didn't get to enjoy it with a fresh perspective. It’s okay to repost your work.

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You are not for everyone, and that's okay.

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I’m proud of you for trying.

I’m proud of you for not giving up.

I’m proud of you for getting out of bed.

I’m proud of you for staying afloat this week.

I’m proud of you for even wanting more for yourself.

I’m proud of you, even if none of the above was achieved.

I’m proud of you for every small step taken toward healing.