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can i say something controversial yet brave

to me.

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the story arc is a mess. the pacing is tragic. but somehow the vibes are immaculate. explain that. explain how i’ve done that.

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can everyone reblog this and tell me who The Character is for you. like the one that you're obsessed with / hyperfixated on. mine is gojo

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In New Horizons, the mannequins in the Able Sisters re-use the player model with a few facial features taken off, and being recolored to black. This was likely to make it easier for the developers to interchangeably place clothing on them.

Due to this, they are actually compatible with all of the game's player animations. They're just normally set to only do the mannequin-specific "animations", all of which are just a 1-frame pose. In this gif, I have swapped the poses for the Shrunk Funk Shuffle, demonstrating this quirk.

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over on twitter they’re currently having lesbian discourse about whether or not femmes can wear packers but i haven’t been able to participate in the discourse because every time my brain conceptualizes femmes wearing packers i immediately get lightheaded and pass out from all the blood rushing to my

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there are a lot of undiagnosed adults out there but i do think it's a shame that we've reached a point where having hobbies and interests past the age of 20 is seen as a touch of the tism. i know many older adults who suppress all their childish desires and throw out all their old toys and for what. are you scared of being 'weird' ? who give a shit.

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jakey wrapped you wished jakey

died 20434 times exploded 534 times got run over 5422 times

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The four horseman of please shut the fuck up

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It's always "Woah mama" but never "How's mama?"

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This my pokemon oc Beau! He is a fairy gym leader who battles in drag.

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i am so genuinely blinded by how attractive masc women are that i will forget that the rest of society refuses to find them sexy until they reform into femininity. you would take a carving knife to a flawless painting and claim you’re the better artist.

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Apologizing when you’ve messed up without spiralling is so important for your relationships.

Messing up doesn’t make you a monster. It makes you human. And learning how to apologize with care, without guilt-tripping or panicking, is one of the best things you can do for yourself and your relationships.

Here’s some ideas of how to do this.

Pause and take a breath.

Before you rush in with “I’m sorry, I’m the worst, please don’t leave,” take a breath. Remind yourself that you’re not bad. You’re learning. You can handle this. And if needed, try a skill to prevent any urges.

Genuinely apologize with the intent to validate and show remorse, not to get reassurance.

A good apology isn’t about begging for reassurance. It’s about acknowledging your impact.

“I’m really sorry for what I said. I see now that it hurt you, and that wasn’t okay.” This is a great way to apologize instead of something like “I’m sorry I’m such a horrible person and you probably hate me now.”

The difference between these two is the second one makes it about you, and puts pressure on the other person to reassure you instead of sorting through their own feelings.

Apologies should be about acknowledging the other person and how you’ve messed up and not done just because you’re afraid someone will leave you.

Try not to be defensive.

Even if you didn’t mean to hurt them, what matters is that they were hurt. We often want to defend ourselves because we want the other person to know our intentions but sometimes this can come off as invalidating. The example I’m going to share below is a way to apologize to someone while still getting to share your intentions because while the apology is about the other person, sometimes we need to do this for our own peace of mind. This way of wording should still allow the other person to feel heard and validated while honouring your feelings.

“I didn’t intend to make you feel that way, but I understand that I did, and I’m sorry.”

Don’t make assumptions. Ask questions.

Instead of scrambling to fix everything or smother them with affection, try finding out what they need.

“Is there something I can do to make this right?”

“Do you need some space or want to talk it through more?”

Be patient.

You can apologize perfectly and still need to wait for the other person to feel ready to reconnect. That doesn’t mean you failed at your apology. It just means they need time and you’re strong enough to give it to them. And if they cannot forgive you, know that while they’re allowed to feel that way, it doesn’t mean you aren’t allowed to forgive yourself.

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my half of an art trade for @wild-moss-art :3c more hapistance but modern au this time

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not much to offer in terms of art right now because i'm currently working, so. munchlax