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Friendly reminder- actual misandry doesn’t exist. No amount of women complaining online will ever compare to the acts of violence actually done by men

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“I’m a straight woman who is no longer interested in having relationships with men.”

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A growing number of South Korean women are banding together to reject rigid patriarchal norms and vowing never to wed, have children or even date and have sex.

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Now she has gone even further, embracing the nation’s radical feminist movement called 4B, from the “four nos”: no dating, no sex, no marriage and no child-rearing.

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Lee said: “I realized this society is a system that I cannot accept as a woman, and from then any encounter with men — be it marriage or dating — became meaningless to me.”

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Yoon is convinced most South Korean men in their 20s and 30s have watched spy-cam videos or revenge porn — footage released by male exes — one reason she no longer wants to engage with any of them.

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She insisted, “My dream is to build housing only for women who plan to never marry.”

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This is what the normalization of sex work does. It forces women to rely on their bodies to survive because they know men will take advantage of any chance to “get some”. And men won’t be ashamed to take advantage of women because they understand that they can always say that ‘well one bad example doesn’t mean it’s not “empowering” for other women” or some bullshit like that and people will eat it up.

It doesn’t matter if it’s small, seemingly harmless things like feet pics/ lingerie pics or hardcore porn and prostitution, the option to buy women’s bodies will always cause damage. 

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“no one pressures gnc people into identifying as trans!”

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I hate the way everyone acts so clueless to the treatment on black women. Abusing black women is like an initiation ritual in the black community. We have an entire industry for of know abusers, criminals, rapist and pedophiles. Domestic violence rates against black women are increasing everyday. Y’all were literally just watching Blueface abuse his partner like it was a performance. You watch Quavo drag Saweetie from that elevator, we know what Fabulous does to his wife, we know what Joe Budden did to his pregnant partner, Trey Songz, Chris Brown…

Tory Lanez almost killed Megan. Black men expected her to be silent for the sake of a black man’s reputation and are now using her as a scapegoat for not being a ‘black queen’ correctly… Black Women being abused and almost killed by black men is supposed to stay hush hush within the ‘culture’… that is the culture that has been normalised. That expectation for black women to keep quiet about their abuse at the hands of black men because “they have it hard out here” is manipulation, something that is also normalised to use against black women.

“bLaCk MeN dEsErVe To GrOw OlD” meanwhile collectively not a shred of grace or human decency has been granted to Megan after almost being killed or after she lost her mother… or any black women for that matter.

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Hey 18 - 29 year olds,

THANK YOU! You made a difference. You may not see the overwhelming, immediate, desirable results. Please do not be discouraged. But you stopped more really horrible things from happening. Times are hard. So many people are struggling. But you showed up! Please keep showing up. Please become leaders. Please keep voting in EVERY ELECTION. You are a huge generation full of love, light, equality, and determination to see justice for marginalized people. Use your voices, lead, and VOTE😺💗🌸

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by zeewipark

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not being productive or relaxing but a secret third thing

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the way radblr takes the statement “i, an osa woman, would like to be in a relationship with a man one day” and translates it to “all i want to do is suck dick and cock and be a man’s maid-mommy. my only purpose in life is to be barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. i have already accepted that that i will be beaten and violated but that’s okay because im mad for the penis. like crazy for it. like if someone asked me to choose between weeiner and oxygen im not picking oxygen. my female friendships and hobbies are entirely worthless to me compared to the loving touch of the most mediocre man in existence. i cant wait to be a proud hastag tradwife”  is like unhinged 

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why is it that when radfems wanna talk about feminism it's always about how men oppress women? while that is a fundamental cornerstone of feminism, it is not the whole picture.

women oppress each other in unique and harmful ways. women are not exempt from misogyny in any form, nor are they exempt from targeted misogyny towards different races, ethnicities, abilities or class.

because, yeah, i have met women who specifically hate black women. not black people in general, black women.

i know gentile women who specifically hate jewish women.

women can abuse disabled people, they abuse and mistreat the poor.

feminism is never going to succeed as a movement if we cannot acknowledge the culpability of women to do harm unto other women, if we cannot acknowledge the ways in which women too uphold the patriarchy.

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Black Chocolate & Banana Vegan Loaf Cake

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The question isn’t how to get your bf to unfollow all those IG models but why you are dating a man with a social media presence to begin with…anything more than LinkedIn and an inactive Facebook account is a red flag

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being completely financially dependent on a man is quite literally dangerous and someone warning you about that when you talk about wanting to become a housewife doesn’t make the person warning you a misogynist lmao

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I think the propagandists missed their mark.

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Lucy and Sweat for Close Shave

Photography by Lydia Garnett

Close Shave, an exhibition at Toppins London […] paying homage to Dyke, Butch and transmasc haircuts, style and expression. Close Shave is a collaboration between photographer Lydia Garnett, barber Zara Toppin and curator Lucy Nurnberg. Inspired by Dyke tenderness and the Butch barbershop experience, Close Shave is a body of work that explores themes of Butch-on-Butch care, love, and trust.

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Porn creates unreasonable expectations against women just as RomComs create unreasonable expectations against men