Heteromantic Asexual Male, Married, 35, Father of 2 Little Girls. Here for the Ace Stuff. We're Here, We're Queer and We're making Aphobia Disappear.
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Aro-ace Katniss Everdeen who shows affection to Gale and Peeta through kisses because she’s not sure of how else to do so but she knows that people kiss the ones they care about
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Happy Pride to all the aces and aros and bis and pans and enbies and queers and everyone else in the “we always get left out” club. And none for all the gatekeepers, bye.
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dont talk about my daughters
I think my kids are Ace and we are thrilled. They will be to lucky to have Ace Parents, we will understand them in a way our parents never could
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can someone whos not a condescending asshole tell me why m-spec is a bad term apparently
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Aspec/Mspec Solidarity Flag

(link to hd download)
A solidarity flag, for people who are both aspec and mspec, or people who are only on one spectrum and just wants to support the other.
Some of you may have seen my other version of this flag going around, with a black symbol on it.
PLEASE do not keep the other one circulating, I deleted it because I was informed that the symbol I used, the Awen, was inappropriate to use because of its meaning to Pagans.
Use this blank version only! It’s very pretty and I spent much time on it. The pink and blue come from the bi, pan, and ply flags, and the white and gray stripes come from the aro and ace flag.
And some people have been asking so to clarify: “mspec” stands for multi or multiple spectrum. So that would be bi, pan, and ply people.
(link to the original) it’s got important info on what this is.
(tagging people who have reblogged the other one so they know. @arokaladin @windwatcher @goodpositivitylgbt @aroacesallygrissom)
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One of the things I like about serial fiction podcasts is like, the first couple episodes are like “yes let’s do a couple episodes that all follow the same formula based on our premise and have very little continuity making it seem like you could drop in at any time”
And then a couple episodes in the Episode happens and suddenly everything is Real and there’s a linear story that follows episode to episode
idk why i LOVE those moments where you’re like “oh shit this is the story I’m being told”
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ace discourse reminds me so much of that one snl sketch: a found poem
literally, nothing exclusionists do, and nothing you say to an exclusionist, will ever matter. nothing will ever get a response beyond “nuh uh!” they’ll phrase it different ways every time: “aces are cishet. cishets are cishet. they just wanna be oppressed so bad. they’re literally not oppressed in any way. they don’t experience homophobia or transphobia. they benefit from homophobia and transphobia. they are lying. that never happened.
“you can’t use their tumblr posts as proof. you can’t use studies about them as proof. you can’t use every real-life org including them as proof. you can’t use our community’s own oral history as proof. you can’t use our community’s own written historical documents as proof.
“lmao i’m not a terf, i’m literally an nb lesbian. lmao i’m not quoting terf rhetoric, i’m literally an nb lesbian. lmao i’m not consistently attacking trans women inclusionists, i’m literally an nb lesbian. lmao our movement isn’t full of terfs, we literally called out a terf once. lmao how dare you show me a blocklist of hundreds of terf exclusionists to call out, I’m literally an nb lesbian.
“anyway the community literally started to combat homophobia and transphobia. anyway it’s always been lgbtpn. anyway it’s always been lgbt. anyway cishets aren’t lgbt.”
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An important tenet of aro activism is–or should be–dismantling the idea that any type of relationship or attraction (romantic, platonic, queerplatonic, sexual, etc.) is inherently deeper, more meaningful, or more valuable than any other. The axis on which someone’s feelings or interpersonal relationships operate should not determine their value. All of these things are self-definable, and the depth and meaningfulness of anyone’s individual experiences ought to be determined by that individual, not by classifications constructed by others.
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Is this a troll account
just a reminder that asexuals ARE lgbtqqiaapn+! not only are they lgbtqqiaapn+, they are MORE lgbtqqiaapn+ than bisexuals because bisexuals are half straight and asexuals aren’t inherently attracted to the opposite gender uwu
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me waiting for alloromantics to give a single shit about aros:
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It occurred to me I could use the screen record function to make gifs, so I did.
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There’s room under the umbrella ❤️
(A small sketch thing to let aces and aros know that they’re loved and welcome here! Happy pride)
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[Image description - Image of the asexual pride flag with the text: Respect ace people. End description.]
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