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[advicefvryou]

What does it mean when your boyfriend started talking to a girl when you were broken up but once you got back together he still talks to her and refuses to not talk to her even though he tells you he likes her and that he is attracted to her? I don't know what to do

Well to me that‘s quite disrespectful if he even told you that he likes her. I‘d personally have a conversation with him and let hin know how I feel about that and that you want him to respect your feelings.

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so i think i like my boss?? i’m 16 and idk how old he is but like 30 ish?? and idk he may like me too?? cause like he constantly hugs me at work and is really touchy to me and calls me cute and says his day gets better when i’m at work. that he likes it when i smile. but then last night he drove me home and was going on about how he has loved this woman for like a year and she’s the reason he broke up with his fiancée and stuff?? and idk it hurt a bit and idk what to do??

Personally I would just forget about him and see him as my boss only.

[advicefvryou]

If someone I'm seeing says that they want to take things slow, although the feelings were made clear and we feel very compatible, why do I feel so crappy about it? I understand that we should get to know each other more, and I respect that. I've just wanted to be with someone who deserves the amount of love that I have to offer and now that this person is in my life it's like "why not make it official"😪 I'm trying to be patient and not overthink it too (I promise)

I know it‘s hard especially when you are sure but maybe the other person is not 100% sure and wants to be that before making it official. Give it some time and if the other person still doesn‘t want to be official, then you can talk about with the person again.

[advicefvryou]

Do you think I should try to make more friends? I've messed up a lot in the past and I've tried really hard to rekindle my relationship with my brother and my girlfriend. I focus a lot on them now. However, I realize that I don't really have any other friends. I've never really been good at making friends. Do you think it's a bad thing?

Can I ask you how old you are? Are you still in school or already in the working world?

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So, I’ve had this friend for a long time. We’ve known each other in high school. Funny, cause I considered her a bully in school. But we bonded after graduation, from disliking a friend we both shared that was kinda mental abused me. But now me and my used to be bully are friends and roommates. I found out she has anxiety, and some anger problems. She’s better than she was in high school. But ever time I go out with people from work she seems mad at me. She does the same but doesn’t invite me.

Please talk to her about it. Ask her if she‘s mad and clear things with her.

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Hey, I need some advice. I’m in this weird position where I don’t really like any of my friends like I used to. Don’t get me wrong, they’re absolutely amazing but I feel like I’m sort of taken as a joke and I hate it. I can’t be who I really am in front of them and I just don’t know what to do.

Please talk to one of your friends and tell that friend how you feel. Maybe they can show you that they do not take you as a joke and really love you.

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Hi I sent an ask about hating my old bullies. 1) thank you for your amazing answer ❤ 2) img im sorry it came off like the worlds biggest hate speech i was just so incredibly frustrerade after a tiering bullshit day. Im trying very hard to move on and heal and be better & I just wanted to rant Im really trying not to let it tale over me!

I‘m so glad to hear that. Bullies will always be bullies but you‘re growing and you‘re getting better. I‘m proud of you.

[advicefvryou]

What would you tell a physically disabled young women who has given up on love? I hate myself and don’t see that changing any time soon... everyone tells me that to be able to find love I have to love myself first?

You do not have to love yourself BUT you have to accept yourself. I hate to hear that you feel that same way about it, but you need to change your opinion about yourself. :( Also please do not give up on love, love will come.

[advicefvryou]

Are you okay? How are you doing? This blog is an amazing idea and you're very sweet and kind, we care about you just as you does about us 💚💙💛💖❤

I‘m okay. How about you? I‘m a little sick and can barely talk but other than that I am doing really good, how are you? I‘m so glad to hear that 💗 feels good to know that someone cares.

[advicefvryou]

Hello! I just wanted to ask a question. So I am talking to this guy and he's one of those guys that are better in person than over text. We saw each other two days ago and I don't want to send the first text because I want to see if he'll say anything about us hanging out again tonight. Maybe I should just suck it up and message him because he seldom does get busy but if you want to talk to someone, wouldn't you make time?

Don‘t start overthinking right now. Just message him and you‘ll see if he makes plans to see you again. It‘s okay to message first.

[advicefvryou]

im thankful that u have this blog. keep on doin this

Thank you. I‘ll do my best to keep this blog as active as I can. I want to be there for you all. 💗

[advicefvryou]

I will neber forgive my bullies. People can think what they want of me still having a grudge seven years later, but what they did RUINED a large part of my childhood, and of me. I'm not going to let its go because they were kids - if you can push and bully someone to the point where they risk Physical harm because you wanted a laugh, then fuck you im going to keep my grudge for as long as I like.They made me cry for fun & to this day im scared of crying in public, im almost phobic. Fuck them.

You don‘t have to forgive them but don‘t let the grudge control your life. You can live without the grudge, but still not forgive them.Just don‘t let that limit yourself and your life please.

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She means that she was hitting rock bottom when it came to her grsdes. Her parents are very strick on her so im dcared of talking to them about this.

Oh ok, I misunderstood that. Hm..maybe study with her? Offer her to be her study buddy. Or ask the teachers if she is able to pass when she holds a presentation or stuff like that.

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One ofmy friends is going through a tough time. She might have failed all of her exams and she just feel so bad and keeos saying thag shes hitting rock bottom. I tried to tell jer that ill be there to suppprt her but she wont listen and keeps saying things like shes gojng to fail. What can i do?

Maybe talk to her parents about it if you feel like it‘s something serious. You can only be there for her then. Does she mean rock bottom in like she is failing in life and stuff?

[advicefvryou]

how do I tell my parents that I’m depressed and want help? I’ve told my mum about being depressed, but she didn’t take it seriously.

Make sure to get your point across and tell them that you‘re not joking around and that you want to be taken serious.

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Im talking to a guy, and he's asked me on a date. Im scared that when he sees me he won't think I look pretty or anything anymore. Im honestly so scared because personally I don't think I'm very pretty in person.

Don‘t worry too much about it. I bet you are one beautiful human being. Enjoy your date 💗

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Recently, my best friend has been really distant, and they won't tell me what's wrong. Every time I try to ask, they either ignore it or change the topic. I don't want them to feel like they have to tell me everything, but I can tell something's hurting them. I want to help them, but I have no idea what to do.

You can‘t force them to tell you. You can only be there for them, when they are ready to tell you what is going in.