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userboxes bc i've encountered a couple of people that aren't comfy with it 🫶

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If you’re a self shipper but hate fictionkind, I’m soulbonding to your f/o and beating the shit out of them.

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aight so you wanna sit under a willow tree and read classics to me as i gently fall in love with you?

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Hey, endogenic plurals and other plurals who don't have DID/OSDD! I wanna see something.

If you are sick, tired, and annoyed at the amount of people accusing you of "wanting DID", "roleplaying as a DID system", "pretending to have DID", and forcibly assigning you as a "DID wannabe", REBLOG THIS POST.

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Happy International Asexuality Day!! Shoutout to all of my self-shippers on the asexual spectrum!!! 💜✨

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🌌List of Ways to Spend Time with Your In-system Partner in the Exoworld🌌

Journaling Together(sending letters to another, conversation, love notes, feelings)

Listening to Music together

Watching movies or shows together and talking to another about it

Gaming together, maybe spectate another or make decisions together

Going on walks or exploring nature together

Cooking and baking together

Working out together, maybe one will possess the body while the other helps encourage

Drawing or writing together

Getting a physical representation of your relationship, like a ring

Meditating together

Divination together(tarot)

Letting your partner make decisions for or with you

Planning and doing a Morning or Night ritual together, like helping another get dressed or brush their teeth

Self care time together

Eating together

Clean and organize together

Shopping together

driving together

reading together

show/save images and memes your partner might enjoy

"Texting" another throughout the day (using simplyplural chat or pluralkit discord)

Mental check-ins, if you have fronted and haven't spoken to your partner, just call them up and ask them how they're doing

Encourage another throughout the day

Help another with homework or work(If one is tired, maybe take over for them, or help guide them through studying or not getting distracted)

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𝐴 𝑔𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑙𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑑𝑒𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑒𝑎𝑐ℎ 𝑡𝑖𝑚𝑒 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑠 𝑡𝑜 ℎ𝑢𝑟𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑟𝑒𝑙𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑝 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑠𝑡𝑟𝑜𝑛𝑔𝑒𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑓/𝑜’𝑠 𝑙𝑖𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑒 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢… 𝑊ℎ𝑎𝑡𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑐𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒, 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑎𝑐𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛; 𝑑𝑎𝑟𝑘𝑛𝑒𝑠𝑠 𝑛𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑤𝑖𝑛𝑠. 𝐵𝑒𝑐𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑓/𝑜 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑠 𝑦𝑜𝑢.

𝐷𝑎𝑟𝑘𝑛𝑒𝑠𝑠 ℎ𝑎𝑠 𝑎 𝑤𝑎𝑦 𝑜𝑓 𝑡𝑟𝑦𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑐𝑜𝑛𝑠𝑢𝑚𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑑𝑟𝑜𝑤𝑛 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑜𝑢𝑡. 𝐵𝑢𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑐𝑎𝑛 𝑐𝑜𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑛𝑢𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑓𝑖𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑏𝑎𝑐𝑘 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑟𝑜𝑢𝑔ℎ 𝑙𝑖𝑘𝑒 𝑎 𝑡ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑠𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑟𝑠 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑝𝑢𝑟𝑒 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑗𝑜𝑦 𝑦𝑜𝑢 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑓/𝑜 🥹✨

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It is genuinely so funny to be reading something with ISFO and know she's perceiving whole other layers of meaning and context that I am not perceiving

Anyway, Hamlet, Prince of Robots is 10/10 would recommend. Even if you're an idiot who hasn't seen or read the damn play. She's literally been in it and agrees.

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qpr where i will fall in love with you over and over again, i don't care how, where, or when, no matter how long it's been, you're mine. don't tell me you're not the same person, you're always my partner and i've been waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting for you. /lyr

<3

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being plural means a headmate pulling you into headspace to cuddle with you and help you go to sleep because of your& insomnia

being plural means smiling and laughing at a joke one of your headmates made, or having witty banter with them as you make a meal that you'll both be able to enjoy

being plural means a headmate going "its okay, you don't have to do this, i can do it" and you thanking them because yeah, you cant do that, and thats okay

being plural means thinking about your headmates when buying new clothes, or seeing a shirt or pair of pants for sale and going "they'd love that !!"

being plural means making one of your headmate's simplyplural profile, and spending lots of time perfecting it so that it fits them to a T

being plural means knowing you aren't alone

being plural means knowing that your headmates, your friends, your family, are always there for you

being plural means love.

THIS POST IS INCLUSIVE OF SYSTEMS OF ALL ORIGINS !!! DO NOT BRING SYSCOURSE ONTO THIS POST.

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i hope i'm not just a selfshipper to you but also a canon character from my f/o's source

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Fellow Selfshippers,

Reblog if it’s okay for your moots and followers to send you absolutely off-the-wall asks about your F/Os or S/Is.

Not the usual stuff, like “What’s your favorite kind of date? I mean completely bonkers stuff, like “How would your F/O react if they pulled into their driveway and an escaped tiger was standing on their doorstep?” “What would your F/O do if they got their hand stuck in a jar?” That kind of stuff.

(I’m completely fine with asks like that, by the way, just nothing sexually explicit. And if a moot/follower reblogs this, expect a weird ask, because my brain is a thing of wonder at two in the morning.)

Please practice reblog karma!

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╰┈➤ˎˊ˗ freshly brewed f/o imagine ✨

today’s special: a cozy cup of daydreams, made just for you ♡

one of you starts narrating the other's actions like it's a national geographic documentary. "observe... the rare and elusive f/o / s/i, wandering the kitchen in search of a snack. they are unaware they are being watched." bonus points if you / they turn slowly and make direct, judgmental eye contact with the “camera.”

☕️ your order is ready ! 🤎

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I love you self shippers who explore heavy or dark themes through their self ships. I love you complex stories and lore! I love you heavily detailed self ship stories. I love everyone who isn't afraid to lean into more serious subject matter and cope with heavier emotions thru selfshipping. Mwah

🧼Proship please do not interact!🧼

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Jorge Luis Borges, "The Iron Coin"

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Your f/o loves you for you.

Every flaw and imperfection.

They don't find you annoying, or weird.

When you fall, they catch you.

When everything feels dark, they're your light.

Even when it feels like the world's against you, they're by your side.

Your f/o loves you,

Unconditionally.

Idk who needed to hear this today, but I sure did :')

Pr0-ships please DNI.

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Co-Sleeping Imagines

This imagine is 100% SFW! Please respect that and do not add tags with NSFW thoughts.

Applicable for all types of f/os

Requested by @affinity-selfships ♡ I did many routes since you never specified in your ask; hope you don't mind!

For those with a Child f/o in mind:

You were already half asleep when your child f/o came wandering in, voice soft and meek as they gently shook you awake and leaned in to whisper, "I had a nightmare; can I sleep with you?"

After the shock of being awoken wore off, you didn't hesitate to sit up and smile, making room for your darling baby. No matter how old they were, it didn't matter-- they were first and foremost your baby and that would never change. You sighed and snuggled up to them, soothing them as they shared their nightmare, reminding them that you were always going to be there for them as you rocked them in your arms, patted their back, and hummed a soft lullaby until you fell asleep...

Your child f/o, on the other hand, didn't fall asleep as quickly but it didn't matter- they felt safe in your arms, closing their eyes with a sweet smile as they let themself bask in the safety of your embrace.

For those with a Parent f/o in mind:

It didn't matter how old you were- you always knew that your parent f/os bed was first and foremost, your bed anytime that you needed to feel safe and close to them for whatever reason. They of course respected your wishes for independence, but secretly it never failed to warm their heart whenever you walked into their room with your pillow and a sleepy smile on your face.

Sure enough, when you walked in with your pillow all ready for bed, you found them still awake reading a book. They set it down with a soft, tender smile as they noticed you there, their eyes crinkling as they realised their sweet child wanted to spend the night with them. Whether you want to be held in your sleep or simply allowed to lie beside them, your parent f/o was only too happy to accommodate, their lips curled in a warm smile even as they drifted off to sleep with you.

For those with a Platonic f/o in mind:

Suddenly it feels like you're both kids again, experiencing a sleepover for the first time.

.... Maybe it is your friend f/o's first sleepover. You stay up late, later than you both know you probably should, just chatting and laying beside each other, facing each other in the dark as you giggle and joke and share your deepest 2 A.M. thoughts with one another in hushed whispers.

Laughter turns into mumbles, mumbled turn into mutual content silence as you both drift off with twin smiles.

For those with a QPP f/o in mind:

It's been a long day. No--- a long week. Always something that needs doing but right here in this moment, all you can think about is your partner's soft, steady breathing beside you as they hold you in their arms.

Those errands and chores you haven't done yet face from your mind, replaced by the steady warmth of their body against yours, radiating safety. They whisper to you how proud they are of you, to relax, that they got you, that tomorrow is another day, that you'll face it together.

... Together. What a lovely word. You close your eyes and turn over to tuck your head under their chin. They grip on you tightens for a moment, a subtle hug, before you finally find the peace you were looking for there in their arms.