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Me whenever I see someone flirt with f/o in source

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Imagine your f/o

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better yet , and , consider this. your f/o would rub voltaren on your joints when they hurt like a son of a gun . f/o is gonna loosen up them joints DO NOT FEAR

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if you have trouble sleeping, imagine your f/o holding you in their arms and stroking your head in bed. maybe even a tender kiss on the forehead if you allow them. or perhaps they make you a nice warm drink that'll help ease your nerves. however they do it, they'll try their best to help you fall asleep <3

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—⊹₊⋆ to my fellow selfshippers with learning disabilities ,

It stings when you struggle with things that come so easy to other people. But when your F/O sits beside you, holding up their fingers to help you count or reading aloud with you in a steady yet warm tone, you need to realize you're truly not a burden. The calmness in their voice isn't a facade, but rather proof of their endless patience. So what if they have to break it down step by step, even multiple times? They've got all day. And it doesn't make you any less capable.

And imagine this: being able to be gentle with yourself when you can't answer a question they ask you. You're not shaking, nor tearing up or holding your breath; for once, you're being kind to yourself. Because that's what they teach you to do.

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your f/o loves you, despite anything you're ashamed of, by the way. don't let your brain get to you. we're all flawed, imperfect beings, and so is your f/o. they love you, and don't let yourself feel any different.

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To all the selfshippers with baby faces, your F/O loves you for it and doesn't see it unattractive or weird. Your F/O loves you for who you are.

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A non-sharing selfshippers daily life:

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imagine them holding you, relief painted in their eyes and tears almost falling over their cheeks after they believed they had lost you.

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🍯 A F/O So Smitten With You 🐝

Imagine a f/o of yours as they make you fall in love with the way they look at you as if heaven itself gifted you to them, with the way they need ‘just one more kiss’, or ‘an extra hug’, and end up giving you an over abundance of their love as if they may never see you again – every time.

Imagine finding a f/o of yours entirely endearing as they catch you off guard by remembering the tiny details about you, and becoming so effusive when they talk about the future and of you and the things they would love to do with you.

Imagine a f/o of yours so in love with you that they cannot possibly imagine (and don’t want to) of what life would be like to be without you!

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If you’ve never thought about this, imagine tasting the sugar on your fictional love’s lips when you kiss them after a treat! Ice cream, cake, a churro, something to sweeten an already oh so sweet kiss <3

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Shoutout to selfshippers who have a romantic f/o that is shipped so commonly with a character that you can RARELY find art of your f/o alone. Especially if you dislike the pairing, or don't ship it. We are the strongest soldiers, gang /hj.

This being said? You, my friend, are your f/o's canon lover. The realest one 💞 and if that other character your f/o is shipped with has a good rapport with them? They're your biggest fan! They support the two of you the most. And if the relationship between your f/o and that character is more complicated? Well, they are NOT interested in each other anyway. Especially with you in the picture. So don't break a sweat! Your relationship will be the one that we, the community, know and love. And you deserve SO much support! Your f/o adores you so, so much.

Pro/darkship dni please and thank you 🫶

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this imagine has probably been done a million times but imagine your f/o who dresses fancy teaching you how to tie a tie.... ouuugh their fingers brushing against your neck... whispering instructions to you....

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by the way, your f/os think your stimming and fidgeting is adorable. they wanted me to tell you that. yeah, all of your little tics and mannerisms that you think they don’t notice? they do, and they love it. don’t feel embarrassed about it, that’s part of what they love about you. it’s just one of the many things that make you you, and they would never want you to stop for the world.

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⊹ ࣪ ˖ helping your f/o's heal,

even when the process isn't "pretty". . .

...because they help you more than they know.

They’ve held you together on your worst days, steadied your mind when you couldn’t trust yourself to, listened when the words were hard and stayed when they didn’t have to.

But love goes both ways.

You see the weight they carry, too. The parts they don’t talk about unless it’s late and quiet. You see the way they take care of others so easily, yet flinch at being cared for. You know what healing can look like: uneven, unglamorous, sometimes hard to watch.

There are days when their armor slips, and you catch the truth of it all. Their trembling hands, the tired crescents beneath their eyes, the unspoken storms that flicker in their gaze; and you learn that love isn’t rushing to mend but standing beside the cracks, letting light through.

That's your only aim. To know they feel seen, especially when their own world fails them.

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Imagine your f/o doing a double take when they see you.

Perhaps you're wearing a new outfit. It's something they've never seen on you before. They vaguely recall a mentioned shopping trip with friends, maybe this new look is something you purchased? Maybe it was even a gift from someone?

Maybe you're wearing something fancy. An elegant dress, or perhaps a dashing suit? Either way, you look like an ethereal being, like something straight out of a fairytale.

Heck, maybe you haven't even done anything. You could be wearing your pajamas and sporting some serious bedhead.

No matter what you're doing or what you look like:

You walk into the room and they glance over at you, only to whip their head to stare at you. Their jaw has dropped, their eyes are wide with awe. They can't stop staring! When you ask about it, they can only reply:

"You're stunning."

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By the way, F/O doesn't only have to mean fictional other.

It means fabulous other because they are extradordinary.

It means fitting other because you are right for each other.

It means faithful other because they are always there.

It means fabled other because their life is legendary.

It means fascinating other because they hold your attention.

It means fated other because you belong together.

In no way does F/O mean fake.