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[amiactuallyjulia]

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[amiactuallyjulia]

JU OMG IS THIS U

GENE??? HOW DID U FIND THIS OML

[amiactuallyjulia]

why people think i look forward to fridays:

weekend! yay a break from stress!

why i actually look forward to fridays:

WANDAVISION, fridays at 12:30PM PST!

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not to be inclusionist on main but i find it shocking and frankly a little horrifying how easily the online LGBTQ community has turned on itself in the past 2 years. like, i need you all to know: i’m not old. i’m 23. so that leaves about a bit less than a decade of me knowing i’m gay, and a bit less than that of me learning about my new family and friends and lifestyle and such, as well as a bit less for actively campaigning/being deeply involved in civil rights and social justice issues.

like, i don’t know if yall realize this if youre newer here but: this whole “asexuality exclusion” thing and this “queer is a slur” thing? this is new. this is only within the past two or so years that its gained any real momentum, the same with terfs and radfems. it wasn’t a concept. there were massive, massive rallies in support of our asexual community. it’s horrifying to me how simply and neatly we as a group have gone from “The A doesn’t stand for Ally” to “There is no A at all”.

and i need you all to know: this is not a coincidence that TERFS have risen up in roughly the same time period. i need you all to realize that when you talk about your exclusion of asexuals from our community, you are parroting well-known TERF and neo-nazi rhetoric.

“they are invading [LGBT/women’s/white] safe spaces to steal our resources and oppress us.”

“they’re only pretending to be [gay/a woman].”

“[asexual/trans women/POC] aren’t REALLY [LGBT/women/human].”

and it goes deeper, fundamentally flawed: when you try to reason that asexuality isn’t inherently LGBT, but if you are otherwise LGBT but asexual it’s somehow fine and different but otherwise youre cishet…all you’re saying is that “you’re only allowed in this club if you don’t support others who are like you. you’re only allowed in this club because i as an authority say you fit nicely under a label that i agree with.”

it’s terrifying, to me, and i’m not asexual. it’s terrifying that this manufactured divide using literal talking points created by and stolen from TERFs and neo-nazis has such an appeal to so many LGBT people. i’m worried for our future on so many levels; climate change, political upheaval, the list goes on. standing strong together is so important right now, perhaps more than ever, at least in my lifetime. and yet we are so destructively focused on ideas of ‘the model of social justice’ and ‘purity culture’ and ‘respectability politics’ and so on that we would rather turn on our own–not even our allies but our own community–because we don’t think they’re LGBT enough.

we spent so long saying “my sexuality isn’t a choice” and arguing “why would i choose to be oppressed for my sexuality” and yet…here we are.

[amiactuallyjulia]

I’m thrilled to tell you that my new version of Fearless (Taylor’s Version) is done and will be with you soon. It has 26 songs including 6 never before released songs from the vault. Love Story (Taylor’s Version) will be out tonight. Pre-order now at https://taylor.lnk.to/fearlesstaylorsversion 💛💛

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cross country is a lot harder than it looks omfg

[amiactuallyjulia]

they say eyes tell all

do they?

i see eyes. they’re just eyes

the eyes themselves are nothing but stares

what tells is the face

the way the face frames the eyes

when you’re staring into them

[amiactuallyjulia]

the trees and the wind dance

noisily, like tap

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my mind is never as clear as it is

in the eleventh hour of the night

the clock reads 23:05

as clearly as my thoughts

they float and they idle

what do i do with them?

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when the burden gets to hard to hold

when the weight is too much to carry

we can’t all be atlas, ever strong and

bearing the heavens on our shoulders

it’s okay to let go sometimes

collapse, call for help

someone will come

you are not alone

[amiactuallyjulia]

is this really an accomplishment

[amiactuallyjulia]

i’m a little bit kinda new to tumblr,,, do i just treat it like a long winded version of twitter?

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someone told my they liked my name i’m gonna explode i’ve been so insecure about it lately i am feeling the warm fuzzies

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wait i can attach audio to my posts??!! amazing. enjoy this song i cried over earlier.

for context i really like this song but i’ve never read the english translation for the lyrics... they hit pretty hard ngl

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having friends that actually care kinda scares me, i'm really not used it

[amiactuallyjulia]

i cannot tell you how much this panel makes me feel...

[amiactuallyjulia]

how do i tell my anonymous online friend that i found her personal instagram and twitter...