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You have to actually work for it. Instant manifesting videos and manifesting gurus and the loa community can easily have you thinking you can just sit at home and raise your vibration and everything will come to you, it won't. As a matter of fact the 'raise your vibration ' and 'feminine energy receives ' and 'manifest instantly' and 'godess energy' and the ilk is now a billion dollar industry with new gurus dropping faster than EPs and all are banking on the laziness and comfort-zonedness of us. I'm willing to bet the reason the industry rose so fast is it gave people a fast way out- sleep and focus in thought and it comes to youuuu

It won't. It won't come you'll spend all that time in your head getting frustrated. And I'm not anti manifesting pls I manifest every single day and create effortlessly- why? Because there's truth to it, science will back it up. What NOTHING can back up is all you have is to raise your vibration and chill at home and that Rolls-Royce will magically appear at the garage you don't have.

Faith without action is dead.

Wake tf up. Make a plan, follow, adjust, rebrand accordingly. You do have to work for it. Manifesting with no action is daydreaming. Wake up.

Mina Irfan calls it- expanding your container. If you're manifesting money expand your container of it- learn investing and money and have bank accounts and saving plans. Take a business class. Ask for that promotion. Learn to negotiate salary. If you want a masculine provider learn to be a feminine receiver of it. If you're manifesting travel start saving up, apply for your passport. Research on the area, etc.

My mom puts it this way: when God gives you what you are asking for, where will He put it? To 'expand your container ' is to 'create the avenue' for what you are praying for /manifesting to fall on. It's putting in the work. Raising your vibe and focusing and visualizing and vision boarding will align you with the opportunity, your job is to be ready for it. How??

PUT IN THE WORK.

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Ladies to achieve anything worthwhile in this life you have to get very comfortable with the idea of embarrassment ,disappointment, resistance and ostracization from your current environment.

When you start out posting on socials, your current friends, family, classmates, and neighbors will laugh at you. They'll call you pretentious and put you down every step you take. Online trolls will call you a wannabe and put you down and compare you to others. You'll deal with six likes on a post that took you hours to perfect. When you get your first brand deal, it'll be as low value as it gets.Then there will be all the virtue signaling and getting canceled and character anhiliation that comes with projected envy. When you start that business, your friends will expect discounts and debt and cut you off for not giving them one. When you start getting successful, they'll feel entitled to your success and hate on you for not crediting them to it. When you decide to leave the country, your own parents will come at you from angles higher than 360°. When you decide to dress better and sit upright and smell nice, your current friend group that's used to low balling you will have a group chat called 'lmaoo she looks so stupid'.

This is the price of success. Success is lonely. Its hard work and being underestimated. It's losing best friends and rifts in your family. You'll shower in tears and triple guess every decision you've taken. Success is uncomfortable and slow, and it will cost you friendships and relationships, and comfort.

If you can't stomach this, don't try. If you can't imagine not being friends with your current friends or your own family backbiting and badmouthing you at family gatherings and your cousins laughing at you and ex classmates from 2014 trolling your work stay where you are.

If you decide to chase your dreams understand you'll be running solo. Understand your mom and bf and bestie said 'I'll support you through everything ' to be polite and they might even have meant it but the second you start showing up as a different person than what they're comfortable with there will be resistance and be ready to work through it with them while staying true to your goals.

If you choose the success way forget the romanticized success stories. It's gruesome . It's survival only for the fittest, and either go big or go home mediocre, there is no mid point.

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Setting meaningful boundaries is so important. Stop being a people pleaser. Stop saying yes to the things that don’t serve your highest good.

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There are some events in life that breaks all the plans, wishes, but it ain't the end of the world. It's the choice of the person to change the plan accordingly in order to succeed. Preplanning is necessary but thinking that no other problem would come in the middle of the plan is just being delusional. Constant change is the only requirement.

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Religion is so misunderstood.

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Drives me crazy everytime it happens. You finally start to feel that it's here, and then suddenly BOOM! Gone in seconds.....

this search for the essence of who I am

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Manifesting a partner and manifesting to become a partner who is there to guide, help, scold, love, care, hear, listen, respect, trust, forgive, communicate and comprehend. To appreciate, to remind love every now and then, to be kind and loyal. To be that one hell of a romantic person, to be that who respects boundaries. Manifesting to admit the mistakes, to help correct the mistakes. To be considerate about the feelings and emotions.

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People need to understand it's not a personal attack, it's a general suggestion. Hear the people out what they are trying to say. Admit your mistakes. Also hear me out, the people who are giving suggestions please do not impose your beliefs on the other person like a shit human. If you have to suggest something maybe try conveying it in a decent way and not make the other person feel stupid about it. Don't act like you know everything (trust me you don't).

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When you start standing up for yourself and setting boundaries, you don't lose genuine friends, genuine opportunities, or genuine relationships. You lose abusers, manipulators, narcissists, attention seekers, and mental-health destroying yes men. I truly used to be afraid of losing people until I realized most of them were never really down for me. Even though my loyalty and love for them ran deep, they couldn't care less. So instead of being afraid of losing them, I fell back and watched them lose me.

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Men are supposed to fall in love with you falling in love with yourself

For years I never quite understood the whole you have to love yourself first in order for others to love you.

But now I do and I’ll explain it as best as I can:

When you walk into a room, the only thing you have going for you is your appearance and attitude (aka confidence)

You could be a loving, creative highly intelligent woman beneath the layers of insecurity, but if you act insecure, don’t take up space and speak negatively of yourself, people will just accept that conclusion about you because again they can only know what you show them, they’ll assume that you must have something to be insecure about.

Similarly, you could have previously been the ugly duckling, could have been bullied at school, picked last, a victim of trauma, but if you act confident and speak highly about yourself, that’s the only conclusion people will take with them, they’ll assume you have a good life going for you because you’re confident.

You are a walking advertisement for yourself, everywhere you go, through your confidence(or lack of)you’re telling people how you feel about yourself and how they should expect to treat you.

We are wired to want the best for ourselves, so given the choice between a confident and insecure person we’ll choose the confident one, because they carry the promise of a good time!

Think about weddings, there’s always that one bridesmaid who’s a bundle of light, she’s talking to the DJ, and helping the staff serve food and chatting up the elder family members, everyone loves her and remembers her. Think about the cool girl you meet in the bathroom of a club, she lets you borrow her lipstick and gives you an uplifting compliment and makes you feel good about yourself, and you think wow I’d love to get to know her.

THAT’s the impact of self confidence, it’s this luminosity that’s so addictive and that draws everybody in.

In dating too, you will have the best outcome if you carry yourself with utmost confidence knowing that you’re adding more and contributing to anyone who walks into your life.

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I hate to break it to you, but that ‘I’m tired today, I’ll do it tomorrow’ energy is not going to bag you the life you dream of. Waking up everyday, sleeping on your dreams because of this nonchalant energy of tomorrow. It's not serving you sweetie, your dreams require actual actions. Not actions every now and then, not actions when you’re in the mood. And why? Because that ‘sometime-ish’ energy is keeping you stuck and stagnant and moving you at a snails pace towards your dreams.

So what you think about doing, what you'd like to do, what you’re plotting to do means absolutely nothing if you don’t take actual actions. Sorry to break it to you but the intentions mean nothing. Do you know how many people intended to start businesses, pursue their dreams, do something good for the world? Help someone? But they did nothing. They just thought about it. Taking no action. You might know someone like this, that might even be you. Stop pipe dreaming your life. What you do today, right now, is what defines your progress of moving closer towards your hopes and dreams. The universe responds to your actions. So make today count, take a step, even if it's a baby step towards your dreams. Do it today, for you. For your future self.

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You wanna be picky with your men but are you picky with what you spend your time on? Are you picky with your friends or people you spend your time around? Are you picky about what you let yourself be exposed to? Are you picky about your grades? Are you picky with jobs? Are you picky with your career? Are you picky about what food you put into your body?

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if you’re offline or away and i message you something (like a link to a meme or a picture or w/e) honestly just assume that i’m just leaving it there for when you get back and not expecting you to answer straight away. i don’t need you to respond with “hey, sorry, i wasn’t at the computer!” or anything. i was leaving u a gift for later.

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Self love is indeed important, but hiding your wrong doings in the name of self love isn't going to make things better. People who genuinely care about you will tell you to strive for better things in life. So instead of covering your faults with "If I like it what's the problem" take a deeper dive in yourself and find out what's wrong.

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The ability to control ego and handle agression is what defines a person. People can be kind to the society but still act rudely to their family. Sorry to break it to you, you are not a "nice person". But you can be one.

What exactly is being an ideal person?

There can never be straight forward yes or no answer to these questions. What my experiences has taught me is that there is no such thing like an ideal person.

The things one should ask themselves is how they can get better at their skills, and how they should behave around people, how they can channelise all of thier emotions. Do they have the ability to think before reacting under critial situations? Setting boundaries, saying no to the people if it is degrading your mental health, saying yes to the people who actually need you. Must be open-minded, means they should not act like the most knowledgeable person on the earth and listen to people if they are suggesting you to change something in yourself. And what not, the list would never end. Just keep maintaining the balance.