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Ok, little background info first: I am an asexual, heteroromantic, cis female. For some personal reasons, I wish my future partner/husband to be asexual too. I've met a lot of female aces and trans* aces, but I've never met any cis male aces, and I fear I'm gonna die alone. I mean what is the possibility of the person I fancy happens to be ace like me? Anyway, can some cis male aces like/reblog this post, so at least I won't lose my hope all together?

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Asexuality by Tiny Dinosaur :)!

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"Asexuals aren’t real"

Shit. They’re onto us. *transforms in stardust and returns to space*

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So, you buy a 3D printer, what do you make with it? Tessellated Ace Pride geckos, of course!

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Here to talk, lend support, or answer your questions to the best of our ability and the ability of…

This is an awesome blog.

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I’m looking for more Asexuals/Aromantics/Anyone in the Asexual related group to follow. Like this if you want me to follow you!

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I just finished a film called “not Broken Not Alone” which follows the asexual community as they prepare/participate in WorldPride this past summer.

I’m eager to get the film out to festivals worldwide in an effort to increase both visibility but also the broader conversation that I think asexuality brings up.  I started a kickstarter cammpaign to raise money for this goal

It would be really appreciated if anyone could help get the word out about this project- there are tons of cool rewards for donating, including a streaming copy of the film, and more! and some cake karma :D

www.kickstarter.com/projects/2080916200/not-broken-not-alone

Thank you! - Rodney

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The latest from AVEN (@asexuality). Updates from the Asexual Visibility and Education Network. 

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Submission

i said stay the fuck out of the aromantic tag

just go away

the tag is not yours

also, there are people that are both aro and ace you know that right?

also, I never tag unrelevant things anyway

so just get out of my face before I go down to your level of rudeness

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Submission

if you can be aromantic without being asexual then stop flooding our tag with your asexual shit

???

also, what do you mean by "if you can be aromantic without being asexual"

???

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I just became an adult not to long ago and all this time I've thought that me not being sexually attracted to anyone was because I wasn't mature enough. But I'm beginning to think its actually not like that. I've been reading articles about asexuality but I'm still sorta confused. I do masturbate regularly and sometimes I do watch porn, but I'm not attracted to them just what they do. I've never been sexually attracted to anyone, but I've had sex and I don't having sex. Any help?

Asexuality means you don’t feel sexual attraction to any gender. Other than that, you should decide. Sexual things you do are irrelevant. :)

I hope this helps. I know it’s not a long explanation but basically if you don’t feel sexual attraction, the rest doesn’t matter.

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Side note to followers: This blog is created to prove that asexuality is real and exists. I never said I was an expert or anything like it. This sort of questions actually making me uncomfortable and like I said, doesn’t really have anything to do with my original purpose. So I am hoping that you will understand me, if I close my askbox. My submit will be open, especially for my asexy films list, but other than that I cannot help you with something I’m not an expert on. I’m just an ace who wants to prove that we are here.

There are blogs who can help you with questions like this. :)

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Films page updated ;)

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im still new to all of this, and i thought i had it right, but reading some posts through the "aromantic" tag my confusion came back again. Is an aromantic always asexual? Because I have no desire of having a relationship (or anything that a relationship entails) but sometimes when I see a guy on the street I can't help but stare and I'm flirty when I talk to people, I'm just not really interested in anything with them. I feel sexual attraction but that's about it, so am I aro or not? (;

You can be an aromantic without being asexual dear :)

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Asexual myths I’m tired of hearing:

Sexual abuse causes asexuality

Asexuals don’t masturbate

If you’re heteromantic asexual, it’s the same as being heterosexual

Demisexuals and grey asexuals are just “special snowflakes” who are celibate but want a special title

Asexuals can’t enjoy writing/reading/watching erotica

If you’re asexual, you can’t think anyone is good looking

If you’re asexual, you can’t enjoy nude art or appreciate the human form

Asexuality is caused by low hormone levels and can be fixed

Asexuals just haven’t had good sex yet, having good sex will cure them

Asexuality is a mental illness

Asexuality is a phase

Asexuals are also all aromantic

Asexuals just need to meet the right person, they’ll become normal if they do

Asexuals are all fat and unattractive

Eventually, everyone becomes asexual due to old age

Asexuals are all autistic losers who couldn’t get laid anyhow

Everyone loves sex, asexuals are just in denial

Asexuality is an excuse women use to not have to “put out”

There are no asexual men

Asexuals don’t/can’t have a gender preference

You can’t be born asexual

If you have sex, you aren’t asexual