asexualmeansnosex

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Just wondering why do ace exclusionists assume that asexuality is a preference any more than being gay/bi etc… it’s not about not wanting to have sex. It’s the physical and mental inability to feel sexual attraction. Like even if you WANT to have sex or TRY to have sex you cannot comfortably do so. Less people would be exclusionary if they realized it’s not a choice or a preference, it’s a sexuality and it’s just as valid as any other.

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That’s probably a question every Ace has asked themselves.

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Reblog if you’re ace and make an inordinate amount of sex jokes to try to fit in. Also because sex is really kind of nonsense when you think about it.

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Ace Problem #2

Not understanding why people care so much about sex.

YOU ARE NOT BROKEN.

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real question: why do allosexual peeps get so offended when you tell them you’re not into sex?? they’re always like “what’s wrong with you?” or “wtf?? are you not human??” like calm down mate I said I’m asexual, not the zodiac killer

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some peak comments

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honey,,,, darlin,, sweetie,,,, ace people just dont wanna fuck dude,,,, you can be ace n gay ,,,, or ace n bi like me like honey we ain’t auto cishet because we dont wanna fuck,,,, we still can feel attraction,,,, and aro people don’t,,,, feel love? valid!! you can be aro/ace!! and you!! are lgbt!!! you!! are fuckin valid!!! if you dont think otherwise you’re as bad as those homophobes buddy.

aro/ace validity! make it happen!

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you are too old for this dumb of a take

hey?? i think it’s time we all fucking delete because i just had to experience this in real time:

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“asexual people do not experience a desire for sex”

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as an asexual, my sexual desire is replaced with cuddle drive

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Orientation doesn’t work like that.

Orientation is not “who do you want to sleep with,” it is “which genders are you attracted to?”

Your sexual orientation is pansexual. Not wanting to have sex doesn’t make you any less pansexual. But also, like, “I want to have sex but not often” is even less an orientation. Like... that’s not an orientation OR an identity. That’s a normal human preference.

Every single human being in the world ha a different relationship to sex. That’s called... being a person. Some never want sex, some rarely, some want it only in certain contexts, some want it a lot. Just as we don’t have an “identity” for wanting sex a couple times a week, we don’t need one for “I like sex but why do you want to do it soooooo often?”

Like... go outside.

Just as we wouldn’t call striaght women who have to have sex with other women “Woman-positive heterosexuals,” we’d call them bisexual, we don’t call “sex positive” people ace or pretend like not wanting sex is an orientation lmao.

Asexuality is ONLY an orientation when defined as “not experiencing any form of non-platonic attraction towards anyone, ever.” Not when it’s “I don’t want sex as MUCH AS Y’ALL DIRTY ALLOS DO.”

if you don’t want to have sex that’s fine but it’s not an identity

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if you don’t want to have sex that’s fine but it’s not an identity

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Are y’all okay?

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thanks! I hate it

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if she’s dating you... she’s romantically attracted to you

don’t know what to tell you besides “please actually think about what the fuck you think romantic attraction is because clearly you don’t understand how words work”

hey?? i think it’s time we all fucking delete because i just had to experience this in real time:

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Asexual Pick Up Lines

Hey baby, are you a firework?

Because you’re breathtakingly beautiful, but I don’t want you anywhere near my genitals.

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///grey/// aroace so uhhh then you DO experience sexual and/or romantic attraction to women 🤔 thus making you not at all who this post is about

hey?? i think it’s time we all fucking delete because i just had to experience this in real time: