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About the Cousin Allegations...

This is a copy of my Bsky threads (1, 2, and 3) because this is important.

1

Well, now that it’s a public topic…

There’s a reason I didn’t include the “cousin” allegations in my work or posts. I believed them for a spell because I trusted the source and they assured me that they’d verified the identity, but didn’t share evidence out of “confidentiality.”

Now I’m not so sure.

Fun fact: someone tried telling me that they heard from another therapist from the area that Poppy had slept with a client and they’d ended up killing themselves.

I was shocked and horrified for a bit, then investigated and found nothing. The source gave no evidence.

I rejected it.

In the collection of testimonies, there is a limbo of accusations that we don’t have evidence for and have to consider on a case by case basis. Even then, when speaking publicly, I stick to what I can prove and make it clear when there’s an exception.

That being said, there are two clips I can think of atm where Poppy mentions re-enacting her trauma on someone else. In the first Courtney Peet interview, she specifically mentions re-enacting it on another girl when she was younger.

Neither of these mentions a cousin.

Accuracy is essential in this fight. Otherwise, we risk harming the credibility of the true accounts of their harm. It also lends credence to the claims they use to keep people on their side.

We don’t need to make stuff up. Shoot, we don’t need stuff from 30 years ago. We have stuff from last year.

Stick to what you can prove when criticizing them. Otherwise we risk looking no more credible than Courtney or Annie or Poppy. There’s enough, I promise.

2

Someone found and sent me this: a clip of Poppy openly speaking about what she did as a child.

It was not a cousin. It did not last nearly a decade.

If you believe her here (which you should more than this rumor), it was a one-off incident from when she was EIGHT.

Focus on her current behavior.

I’m so, so fucking glad I didn’t give in to the pressure from people like Courtney last year to use this story. Some called me not wanting to use it as “proof” I was “sweeping for pedophiles.”

I’m on the side of the truth. The accuracy of allegations MATTERS.

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3

To speak a little further on it, the reason I believe this clip is that it was from a stream in mid-2022, far before she was worried about public image. Unless she's been running a long con about this, there's no reason to think that she's being dishonest here.

This was one of the few testimonies we got that didn't come through me, so I can't vouch for it personally. Until I'm given more to work with, I can't treat it as truth any more than that insane unverified story about Poppy literally killing a patient.

I was effective because I scrutinized the claims closely and stuck with evidence. Consider how much I got done in one year versus how much some of them have in several.

Part of that success was interrogating our own claims and making sure that they were supported by enough evidence to counter skepticism. It was not taking unsubstantiated, unproven claims like this at face value.

I think I'll keep sticking to that approach. 💜

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Mark my words. You will have a KF thread 2 years from now. KF held off on Poppy to spite Lily Orchard too, but that didn’t last. Aspects of your behavior are lolcowish, and your connections with Annie Galleger will come back to haunt you, no matter how you try to distance yourself now. The worst part is that you will deserve every bit of it. You knew better than to get comfortable with KFers. I don’t know what happened to you, but you became the caricature that Poppy tried to paint you as. Obsessive with no principles. This isn’t about accountability anymore, if it ever was. This is about you getting even, and you are going to destroy yourself in the process. I regret defending you, and I regret my involvement in any of this.

Cool. Maybe I will. I have no idea what's got you so mad, you're just spitting venom. Are you saying this is about "me getting even" because I pulled back publicly? Are you angry I'm not still going as hard as I was?

Make no mistake, the only reason for that is the lawyer. Things are in the realm of litigation now and that means being more careful. That means this turns into less of a spectator sport for y'all.

Does that mean that you get fed less? Absolutely. Does it mean that shit has stopped? Fuck no.

Y'all wandered into the treasure trove of OUR work, of OUR documentation. That took a long time to build up to. You're not going to keep getting drops like that consistently.

What's important to me isn't your perception of me, it's consequences being visited upon Poppy that prevent her from hurting others in the way that she's hurt so many. I'm going to stay in the fight in my own way on my end, out of sight, dumping thousands of dollars into an attorney every month.

I don't need anyone's validation for that.

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Poppy and Zena’s Way Only Folks

So sharing a thing again- Saige was posting about someone reaching out to her and her not appreciating it for her own reasons. Okay.

Please note the lack of putting anyone on blast. No one named, no one referenced publicly. Whatever. Nothing wrong here.

Saige is clear in also saying “I am purposefully not tagging or naming anyone.” No mistake was made in how Saige wanted to handle something that happened to her

This isn’t anything special or of issue… That is, until Poppy and Zena insert themselves.

Okay. This by itself isn’t a big deal. Blocking people you don’t like is a behavior anyone is allowed to do for any reason.

But this big thing to note here- Poppy and Zena obviously saw Saige saying “I am not tagging or naming anyone.” So they knew what their partner’s wishes were in this scenario.

But what do Poppy and Zena do 10 minutes later?

They put the person Saige was talking about on blast. Now probably a large group of the foundation members know exactly who Saige was talking about. The very thing Saige wanted to avoid.

Seems quite disrespectful to me- a complete disregard for how Saige is handling things. I would be cross in Saige’s shoes. And I shockingly, it looks like she was

This whole exchange makes it clear that Poppy and Zena did this without Saige’s permission nor they did they figure out why Saige did this.

This is why people don’t trust Poppy and/or Zena in relationships. Look at how Poppy and Zena handled a minor situation publicly.

-An utter disrespect for their partner’s opinions

-Steamrolling and deciding how a situation should be handled without first talking to their partner about it privately.

-Implying that Saige can’t handle their own situations (Saige was contacted by this person in the first place- not Zena and Poppy) and inserting themselves and their ideas/solutions without being asked.

-Not caring about Saige’s mental health at all (Saige wasn’t doing the whole “not blasting them” as a favor to the person that reached out to them (if I had to guess). They have expressed multiple times wanting this to be over. For their own mental health. So Saige is probably not wanting there person blast to basically make it as ‘proof’ that Saige, Poppy, and Zena, aren’t continuing this ‘war’, it’s only the anti Poppy and Zena side that is continuing it (and to keep themselves (Saige) out of it).

These are all huge red flags that I am sure Saige will wave away. But the reality is, they will still be there. You can pretend they aren’t Saige, but they are.

In the mean time though, we all see them.

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Poppy likes to say that we shouldn't hold therapists to a higher standard when I completely disagree. Of course I'm not going to say a therapist shouldn't be licensed if they have, like, a divorce or break ups--but your ability to manage the relationships around you is an indicator of the advice you give to your clients. Poppy has a repeated pattern of behavior in manipulating and gaslighting her previous partners, to the point where she pseudo-diagnoses them with BPD and puts the responsibility of managing her own BPD onto them. Why would I want her as a therapist to manage my own relationship and mental health issues when she can't even maintain healthy dynamics with hers? When she blasts her personal information and her exes' personal information on social media?

Therapists are humans who can make mistakes. Poppy isn't making mistakes. She commits purposeful actions of harm over and over.

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Deep Cover

(copied from my twitter thread)

Alright. I got my unhinged time. Back to being regulated and strategic.

Apologies for my manic state over the past couple of days. For the past 2.5 months, I leaned into my most subservient, self-hating, self-blaming state from my past to make her feel in control.

It broke me.

I’m not here to hash out my history of trauma, but let’s just say I’m used to being in survival mode. I let the part of me that still felt for her grow like a weed, trying to carefully prune it so it didn’t overtake everything else. I gave her that power with careful limits.

The guilt I felt was real; I don’t want to do this. I want her to stop. But until she does, it’s necessary.

Alongside my love, the dissonance of guilt led to many, many breakdowns. I have friends who sat with me for hours in those calls as I lamented what Poppy could have been.

Add the additional stress of my strained trust and relationships with friends, including a half dozen that cut ties completely.

Add the viciousness people constantly spit at me anonymously on Tumblr.

Add my whole-ass personal life, which is its own nightmare of complications.

This has been hard, especially because I didn’t expect it to last more than two weeks. Especially when Poppy genuinely started to trust me. Defend me against her friends. Against Zena.

She promised she wouldn’t abandon me again and she didn’t. That’s particularly potent w/ BPD.

I still handled things.

Part of me worried that if she offered to run away from all this with me, I would’ve been tempted. People would finally be safe from her and I’d be in the toxic relationship of my nightmares.

But my principles kept me true. My love for Hela kept me true.

To help keep those feelings in check, I’d regularly read back through the documentation I was still working on. Especially Spawn’s screenshots.

I’ve literally worked myself to tears dozens of times to keep focus on what I’m fighting for.

Was this healthy? Nah.

But it worked.

I don’t need everyone to agree with what I did, or how. I just hope everyone at least sees that it’s not something I just do casually. This was a dark art, learned from many years of surviving people like PZ. I had to break this shit out like John Wick’s buried stash.

I was deeply uncomfortable with how good I was at it. I started to feel bad about it a few weeks in. I used that guilt to feed into my facade. The lines began to blur more and more.

I wasn’t going to betray my people, but I started to lose it for a while. Actual derealization.

I did accomplish useful things in there, but I can’t share them for fear of endangering them. Just know that I’d do it all over again. It was worth it.

I have a wonderful support network. Beyond just trauma bonding, I love these people. I trust them with my life.

But that last push, that desperate series of attempts to get Poppy to accept even one tiny bit of responsibility… that broke me.

Her saying that my love for her wasn’t real unless I betrayed my friends? That hurt. Telling her that she’d destroyed me and her “I don’t care?” God.

I leaned into the crazy on that last conversation because, frankly, I wanted to. I wanted to let all of the rage and fury and madness that I’d felt over all of this out.

Not just what she’d done to me. Everyone. Dozens.

And it felt good, y’all. It felt good to get theatrical.

So when I finally came out of it… that energy carried over.

I became the crazy ex-girlfriend they said I was, just for a bit. My strikes were still pointed, but yeah, I dove into the vibe.

Sorry about that.

It’ll take time to heal properly, but I’ll be okay. Survived worse.

Point being, I just wanted to make a statement discussing my recent behavior. I’m not proud of it, but I don’t regret it.

I’ve been so controlled with my emotions about all of this for so long. Please forgive me this indulgence.

I went under right before people started finally listening. It was kind of intoxicating to say things publicly and finally get so much support and visibility.

But if I’m going to continue being a prominent voice in this whole debacle, I need to be better, and I will be.

I am.

So… back to work. Back to healing.

Thank you for trusting me. It means the world.

It’s so fucking good to be back. 💜

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Oh, an anon asking about the 4 pings thing. I guess I can answer that and provide Heloise a receipt for context.

On Sunday, February 18th, Poppy and I were splitting attention between work and the argument in Archon. At one point Poppy explicitly stated she was muting the chat and, to respect that stated boundary, I made sure I did not directly reply to any of her messages.

My messages throughout the argument were replied to by everyone who was replying to me with walls of text. I have tried to be vague about this to avoid calling out specific people, but there are only so many people with access to Archon chats.

As the afternoon went on, I mentioned that the argument was distracting me and that I was trying to get work done as well. And, surprise surprise, I have ADHD like Poppy. I in fact did mute the channel and The Foundation discord as a whole. I was still being distracted by the discord pings peeking through and seeing the walls of text on my phone when I went to look and see what was coming my way.

The other missing context from this conversation is that this was me against everyone else who entered the conversation. At the start it was just me, Poppy and Zena. By the time I was sending my last message, nearly every Archon was replying to me and giving me their opinion on why I was wrong at some level. I was reaching information overload to the point I could not process everything. So I simplified it down to a simple message:

"I will repeat: this is why I waited so long to speak up. 4 pings."

And after crafting my final messages, I left the discord to remove the distraction and focus on work. This screenshot with additional context is only a piece of what I said but will hopefully get the point across that was lost by Poppy's memeification.

Kriese aka Keira

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Poppy you only say this shit because you can't handle the truth. Honestly poppy you never actually read the documents that were put out. Yet poppy you disregard so many people who are victims of you and Zena. Like spawn was treated like shit by Zena and you poppy. @noehflake and @transpersian are even victims of you poppy because you literally downplayed Milena's BPD on a live stream. Also poppy be mad that the truth you have tried to hide has come to light and that everyone knows you are a piece of shit who doesn't care about victims.

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So I know I'm not focused on Poppy here but I feel like this needs to be seen.

This is how you spot an abusive piece of shit trying to use BDSM to mask the fact that they are an abusive piece of shit.

Poppy is the kind of person who would be blacklisted from BDSM spaces in a heartbeat.

Poppy is the kind of person who traumatizes people away from it entirely.

Poppy is the kind of person who justifies legitimately abusive behavior as "kinks" and will make you feel guilty or uninformed if you try to set boundaries.

This is a prime example of an extremely unsafe, likely dangerous person. If you're into BDSM in any capacity or are thinking about trying it, stay FAR FAR AWAY from people like this.

Poppy knows damn well OP wasn't talking about consensual BDSM. She took it personally because she's an abusive piece of shit that masks it with BDSM and kink.

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How dare Milena have other partners and plans to meet them as she's being gaslit and abused by PZ.

How dare Milena not take Zena's abuse (sorry, PMDD and NOTHING else 🙄) like a battered dog.

How dare Noeh have partners outside of Poppy and have plans to move in with them and have plans to meet them and go on dates. Don't you know your 4 month relationship with Poppy takes precedence?

How dare Noeh and her partner give each other affection on Twitter and call each other Baby. Now "baby" isn't a safe word for Poppy to use anymore because Noeh's partner used it!

How dare Noeh's partner not respond to Poppy's unhinged manifesto detailing how "abusive" she is for existing around Noeh. Jobs be damned. Sleep be damned. You answer to Poppy! Even if you aren't dating her!

How dare Noeh have boundaries about how much sexual content she can take. How dare Noeh be asexual! Don't you know that Poppy knows exactly how your body works despite not being a medical doctor, or even HER doctor?

How dare Noeh tell Poppy not to come visit for Christmas when Poppy and Zena emotionally terrorize her to the point of dissociation. You can't say no to Poppy! That's her boundary!

How dare Noeh for letting Poppy be intimate with her when she wasn't 100% in love with her! How dare she be abused and conflicted and dissociated during sex that Poppy wanted!

How dare Noeh leave when Poppy and Zena get into one of their many abusive arguments in the hotel room. You come back here and fix this relationship dammit!

How dare Noeh not give into Poppy.

How dare Milena not give into Poppy.

How dare Hela not give into Poppy.

How dare Rayne not give into Poppy.

How dare Gayfesh not give into Poppy.

How dare Loomie not give into Poppy.

How dare Patch not give into Poppy.

How dare Kriese not give into Poppy.

How dare Spawn not give into Poppy.

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Poppy insisting on getting all of those procedures for NF is also weird because like... did NF WANT all of those things? Knowing how Poppy is, would Poppy keep pushing and pushing and insisting her girlfriend do these surgeries because she thinks she's pushing NF to do something good for herself? For the control of NF's own body? Poppy's quick to say others have issues with boundaries but Poppy clearly does too. I also recall the way she'd insist NF had BPD, I remember seeing her repeatedly tagging NF for BPD bingos on Twitter and then after the break up saying "she's got BPD she hasn't been diagnosed for" which like... Poppy? You're her ex, not her therapist. Back off. I honestly think Poppy's whole thing with partners is trying to turn them into herself.

NF did appreciate being able to get in touch with Poppy's surgeon if I recall, but there is peace of mind in knowing Poppy will not be able to claim ownership in NF's transition journey now. And yes, Poppy did force the BPD label on NF very aggressively.

(I swear I had a screencap, anyone who has the BPD bingo screencap feel free to send)

NF filled out the BPD bingo meme that Poppy also filled out and Poppy was displeased with NF not filling out the boxes POPPY thought were applicable. She literally said "Bullshit. I've seen how you get angry."

She also has called NF akin to broken, fragile, and unfit for relationships post-breakup.

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See poppy using spawn like this is fucked up and sickening. Honestly spawn isn't your responsibility poppy they aren't your kid cause you disowned them and the fact you and Zena abused Spawn as well. Poppy get an actual job and take responsibility for yourself.

Poppy is still using her adult estranged child she abused as leverage to get more donations. This GFM has had incorrect information for months and months given her child doesn't live with her anymore BECAUSE she and Zena abused them.

Just edit the bio. It's that simple. She's able to add update posts, so edit the bio.

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Poppy is still using her adult estranged child she abused as leverage to get more donations. This GFM has had incorrect information for months and months given her child doesn't live with her anymore BECAUSE she and Zena abused them.

Just edit the bio. It's that simple. She's able to add update posts, so edit the bio.

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I feel like Poppy's genital preference argument is one step short of just arguing how everyone should just be pansexual because we're all made from the same stuff and aren't that different in some biological sense. It's fucking insane to me. And for me personally, I don't even have genital preferences, and I usually don't want my partners to either, but you bet your ass I understand and respect that others do and don't try to shame that or make it sound like it's wrong or unnatural to have them. Like always, Poppy is just pathologically insecure about being rejected, so she projects irrational prejudice and biases onto others to explain away that someone just might not find her likeable or attractive. She's such a pathetic incel loser.

She's trying to make the unique and harmless personal preferences of other people into a political angle for her to justify being mad when 19 year olds reject her sexual advances on Twitter. It's utterly pathetic.

You can't debate-bro your way into someone's pants if they don't want to fuck you. Poppy's active disdain for people's comfort and consent is going to land her in prison if she keeps at it.

I want to just--take a deep breath and remind people that Poppy is atypical when it comes to the views of trans women. Do not let this color your perception of people who just want to be respected and live their lives. Don't let Poppy's attempt at meshing trans identity, leftist ideology, and incel rape-culture talking points together fool you into thinking this is common opinion.

It IS rape culture to insist that preferences are "ridiculous" when preferences are an indicator of consent.

Some people just don't want to fuck you. Deal with it like every one else.

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Thank you for answering. Your reasons for caution are extremely understandable, and I certainly won’t go digging further. I’m so annoyed and disgusted at Britt though. From the sounds of it, she literally just pulled 17 out of thin air. Same with the alleged cubfur art. Ever little fuck up like that is a paper cut to the credibility of accusations against Poppy. She thinks that because her posts get a lot of likes, that there’s nothing wrong with it.

It makes me want to tear my hair out. I can’t imagine what it’s like for you, Heloise, and Bethal to watch.

From what I understand now, the story has simply been told to multiple people by Poppy in a variety of different ways... different age ranges, different numbers of times things happened, different reasons for the events, and different ways the events happened.

The 17 number might just have been what Britt heard Poppy say. I don't know. I know Poppy told me it happened when she was a young teen and the other person was under a teen still, for example.

The cub art, I have no awareness of. However I was never a part of poppy's community and truthfully I ignored most of her Twitter posts. It sounds like a terrible thing for a partner to do perhaps, but understand that I was being relentlessly tagged many multiple times a day while dealing with hundreds upon hundreds of messages I absolutely had to respond to or she would get more abusive.

I know there is a few pictures of Pepper that are a bit questionable, but I truthfully think they can be excused as simply being raffle art that used the adoptable reference pic. Most artists don't have wants to draw younger characters, and therefore may have kept the age the same general look. I don't know that's just my best assessment.

As for the f-list and RP comments, I looked briefly at poppy's f-list once. I did a minor amount of "RP" with her and then stopped as it wasn't at all what I enjoy in RP as a long time mmorpg, forum, and tabletop roleplayer. She has a server dedicated to hosting all of her individual RP (ERP) threads and there's a LOT of people in there last I knew. For the record, I also cut off the "RP" due to a lack of anything happening beyond her wanting to skip to the next sex scene one after the other. As stated many times..I don't have sexual desires. It literally becomes tedious to write nothing beyond that very very quickly and I told her as much as the time.

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Can you please tell us what's going on with Poppy's COCSA or I guess just CSA allegations? Is it true that she was doing it when she was 17? Can you at least tell us who your reputable source is?

17? Even Poppy herself said it was much younger than that. Her claim is that she recreated sexual assault she experienced against a younger family member when she was an early teen because another family member did the same to her at one point. But as far as I'm aware, she was told that she was assaulted herself only by her grandmother.

I cannot reveal the source, their relation to Poppy or her family, or screenshots or recordings of the claims. All I can say is that they provided enough evidence that I believe them and that I have no doubts they know what they're talking about. Things that weren't shared publicly by anyone but were discussed by Poppy in private were mentioned that had no reason to come up and that in itself made the claims even more compelling.

I would never tell anyone to believe me on faith, but it all lines up with things I've been told in public and private and poppy's version of the events have been told in multiple different ways to a point that I don't find her version compelling at all.

As a final word, I do not support anyone trying to locate my source for themselves as that has the potential to go down routes that do nothing but hurt poppy or poppy's relatives. I will not advocate for harm of the innocents and the vagueness I'm required to have here means you will be shooting in the dark and could hurt people that may not even be involved. I apologise for that. When the source is ready (if ever) they may come forward, but I will not push that.

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“It's exhausting, annoying, and utterly pathetic to have to keep combatting new, outlandish, and unsubstantiated claims all the time.”

This is so true. I would never say it to any of their faces, but I think this is part of the reason the lily blogs are such a dumpster fire. They never take mental health breaks, and they encourage people to obsess and ruminate. It’s no wonder they’re constantly fighting, and making stupid mistakes. I’m not saying this to trash them. I’m just saying there’s a reason the poppy blogs are doing fine. (and why I only read them once a week)

My interactions with this whole thing now outside my lawyer is more or less just this. I answer questions and try and correct narrative when I see Heloise or an anon over there get something wrong on either "side" of things.

Otherwise I just don't care anymore really. She still posts about me often and it's always unprompted by anything I've said or done. Like just stop Poppy. Nobody believes your lies, your hollow claims, your random zero context evidence accusations.

Shouting that at the void for the record. I in no way want contact with her at all.

But yeah, you're right. Videos on her, Heloise's blog, and spaces about her on different discords and forums are all doing great when they bring up the drama about her from what I hear. She just doesn't ever stop and neither do her people.

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I feel like today it's the shirt, in the future, it'll escalate to her revealing even more loose boundaries she has with clients. I just will never trust her intentions after what she's done, everything she says and does is an attempt to justify and normalize abuse.

Her relationship with clients is already unethical. She weaponizes their vulnerability on social media and says "this is what the stalkers are doing." When in reality, she's not setting proper boundaries with her clients.

She doesn't even want to control her own limerance when it comes to Noeh, so the potential of her obsessing over a patient is not 0%.