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Waiting for daddy to get home and walk his puppy

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thinking about killing myself. it would be so easy.

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story time: a guy I was seeing once lifted me by the throat, pinned me to the wall, and said ‘don’t worry I’m not going to kill you, I just want to see the fear in your eyes’ and I literally almost came on the spot. the end.

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Oh hi, it’s just me, the baby 👼🏼

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Baby blue 💎

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i just need to be held tight and gently lay my head on someone’s heart so mine won’t feel so heavy for a min

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Suggestion: run your fingers through your sub’s hair while they kiss your thighs and tell them how good they’re doing.

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i know you wanna be humiliated. it makes your heart beat faster. your mind go numb. you wanna be made to crawl on all fours, dumb and subservient. you wanna be dragged down to something lower than human. weak and needy and disgusting and mine. something incapable of independent thought. my possession.

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Part 2

Full instructions in part 1

Based on the video here

More tutorials and info on shibari (and me!) here

Where I got my rope

Where I got my shirt

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call me baby!!! pat me on the head!!! tell me im cute!!! buy me cute things!!!!! kiss my forehead!!!!!!! love me!!!!!!!!!!

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I have a huge problem with this.  This translates to, “I figured a guy with a rape fantasy wouldn’t have qualms about lying to women, willfully and knowingly violating consent, and refusing women the sovereignty of their own bodies.”  This is personally offensive, and more importantly, broadly implicating of men who enjoy rape fantasies.

This is what ‘rape culture’ means.  It doesn’t mean ‘all men are rapists’.  It doesn’t mean ‘a culture in which men think rape is acceptable’.  Rape culture isn’t just about rape or sexual assault.  It means taking a cavalier approach to things like consent and objectification.  It means relegating women to being afterthoughts in the periphery of a singularly male narrative.  It means that the kind of attitude put forth in this brief conversation are shrugged off, seen as normal, and met without reproach.

We need to actively push back against this stuff when it happens.  We need to call it out and confront people instead of keeping silent, not wanting to be ‘that guy’, or trying to avoid a scene.  You don’t have to be an activist.  Just don’t be a bystander.

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I want to be covered in hickeys and handprints from being held tight while I’m fucked but I also want to fall asleep having my hair stroked and being told I’m a decent person tbh

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I hope all women of color with girlfriends: 

get to kiss their girlfriend soon

get to meet up with their girlfriends if they’re in a long-distance relationship

go on fun dates with their partner 

get to hold hands and show affection for them in a safe, loving environment 

are happily in love 

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My new velvet onesie and sugary-sweet pacifier from @babyyourdoll are giving me little life! @sunnywittledays you are such an artist, thank you so much for the love you put in every stitch 💝

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i crave being babied with all of my being