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i do think “this hole you put me in wasn’t deep enough and i’m climbing out right now. you’re running out of places to hide from me” is one of the most insane and visceral and satisfying lyrics from anything ever

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I’m gonna do it! I’m gonna do the dishes!

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fuuuuck i just realized that the future idealized version of myself cant exist without current me being the catalyst for change and doing hard things. has anybody heard about this

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daily affirmations:

i am kind

i am in control of my emotions

it does not bother me when someone is in the kitchen while i was planning to be in there alone

everyone in the house has the right to be in the kitchen

i am kind and in control of my emotions even when someone is in the kitchen while i was planning to be in there alone

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I know he's an absolutely abhorrent character, but I, unfortunately, still want to fuck him. hope this helps!!!

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"I'm in my late 20s and I'm scared I've already peaked" just don't peak then, idiot. what do you mean like you're going to just stop trying to think harder and build taller and learn more and get luckier and read deeper and dress better and fuck weirder and run faster and draw crazier and smoke danker and dance bigger and steal better and stun everyone with your cunty charm and zeal because, what, you think those are the rules? get real. get up. you have another 50 years and you're not going to use them??? give them to me.

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wore my thigh high boots on a walk today and we had to take a path through some long grass and while everyone else was rolling their pants into their socks and putting on jackets to protect themselves from ticks i was standing there smug as hell in my thigh high leather boots.

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self-care phrases to boost your confidence

this shit ain't nothin to me man

I'll fucking kill you

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(through gritted teeth) sometimes what's good for your mental health isn't another do nothing day or a little treat sometimes what's good for you is putting in some of the work. Not all of it at once but sometimes you have to finish that essay or at least take the next step or you have to clean your room or at least dust the shelves or you gotta do the laundry or at least put it all in the hamper and it's not fun and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks but you have to because i read a post on the internet that told me that's what being nice to yourself is sometimes

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debbie downer and negative nancy should lez out

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wild how we have a medication that is super effective at treating a debilitating disability but its controlled to hell and back because What If Someone Takes It For Fun like i have an idea who gives a shit

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frank iero's lip and nose piercings

a little collection

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pulled an all-nighter and then promptly passed out, i drew this sometime and have no recollection but i think i get what i was going for

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All I have to say regarding Bob Bryar’s death:

Bob Bryar’s rightwing spiraling was likely due to the fact that he needed psychiatric help and did not receive any. It’s kinda fucked up that he was dead close to a month and nobody noticed. He contributed greatly to meaningful, life-changing works of art, and will always be remembered for this.

However, his racism and other -phobic statements hurt a lot of vulnerable people, and neither his mental health struggles nor his work with My Chemical Romance excuse any of his bigotry. His words were especially heinous given that he was part of a subculture which claims to value diversity and the protection of marginalized groups.

We can/should acknowledge it is sad Bob Bryar did not receive the help he clearly needed, especially within a community which centers itself around mental health activism, but also can/should acknowledge that it was not this community’s responsibility to de-radicalize, and especially not to forgive, Bob Bryar. It is perfectly reasonable for people to both think there is a degree of sadness to his loss, and simultaneously condemn him for his actions.