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Men attend to Women for two reasons, SEX, and LOVE, but in most cases, men do not marry for Sex or for Love, they marry for STABILITY. Let me explain: A man can Love you and not Marry you. A man can have sex with you for years without marrying you. But immediately he finds someone who brings stability in his life, he marries her. What I mean by Stability is "Peace of Mind"

I have friends who say, and I quote "I love this lady but I don't think I can spend the rest of my life with her." Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding dresses, bridesmaids, anything that most ladies thinks is fanciful. They think whether this woman can build me a home,Can she take care of my kids and I,Can she give me PEACE of mind?.

Men don't like Ladies who gives them discomfort, This is why a man can stay with a woman for years and meet another in a month, then get married to her. It's the comfort of having Peace of Mind they want. Sex is a pleasure, love is an affection, RESPECT & UNDERSTANDING is Stability.

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It has always been a beautiful journey since I took my first step towards showbiz. It hasn’t been easy though, but it has been an eye-opener and a big influence in my life as well as the people around me. Today, I wish to share my experience growing in this showbiz of Ghana.

From the side of Ghana I stay, there happens to be a kind of music we all are glued to. Without any bad intentions attached to this, I ask to say that, those kind of music do not permit us to listen wide. Those songs, in my own opinion, are so “Okey” for us that, opening up to new Music becomes a “weirdo”. From my side, every Foreign song is either called HipHop or Cools or Country Music. Most of us did not have time to find out the right genre a song is. So, if the song doesn’t make us dance or nod our head, it ain’t our type of song.

I was always sidelined as such until I met people like “Ko-Jo Cue” who could make me listen to some “weird” songs and later comes to discuss the content of the songs (that was in early 2007). This thing he did with me made me begin to listen to the contents of the songs I was introduced to. So, I begun to listen to Jay Z, Nas, J. Cole and Kendrick Lamar. These guys changed the way I saw Music. They made me realized Music wasn’t just for entertainment but a way of educating or sharing the way you thing about things and your way of life. Their songs made me begin to compare theirs to what we do in Ghana here. Until I realized where our modern day rappers derived their inspiration from. I was then introduced to Skillions, Ghetto Rep, Cue, Pigin Music, FoKN Bois, Rebel Muzik and a couple of guys who really did songs I could then relate in Ghana here.

My long talk is that, to make it short, ever since I was made to listen to the true content of songs, I can boldly say that, music is not for just entertainment. Music speaks to your soul. Music educates you on certain stages of life. Music changes your idea of things; that’s when the artiste behind the music is singing from experience. Music has been my enlightenment.

So, end this write-up, take your time to listen to the content of music. If I am to make recommendations, I may make mention of a couple of Ghanaian artistes who really has content that may change your way of thought. Artistes like Ko-Jo Cue, M.anifest, Kweku Flick, Sarkodie, Joey B and some fast arising arts like Mickey Lux, Kula, AmakyeTheRapper, Akwanda, Kay Ara, Kofi Jamar, Kwame Baah, Strongman, Darko Vibes, Sketchy, Icebox (you may google those artistes and you won’t be disappointed).

Note that, those artistes I mentioned are the ones I listen to locally and have influence on me. You may not like them because you haven’t paid much attention to them. But trust me, take your time and listen to them and you will thank me. Don’t forget to leave a comment after reading, so that I may know your point too.

Enjoy music from

Kweku Flick - King of Melodies (EP)

Mickey Lux - Aye