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You can smile when your heart is breaking because you’re a woman.

Philippa Gregory, The Other Boleyn Girl (via thelovejournals)

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a jednou přijde chvilka, kdy si řekneš:

- co se mi na něm líbí? jen mi ubližuje. Končím. nemá to cenu..

a pak ho uvidíš a je z tebe ta hloupá holka, která si myslí, že ten ‘bad guy’ je pro ni to nejlepší

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MY HEART HURTS

„To the one who loves her next,

She's terrified of spiders. So when you're out late with friends and she texts you freaking out because there's one on her window, please go kill it. She won't seep otherwise.

She is total textbook introvert. Swe won't reply for hours and sometimes you won't see her for a week. You wil take this personally. Don't. She's simply taking care of herself and she'll tell you how much she missed you while she was away.

She'll get very jealous. My god. She get so jealous. Those brown eyes will turn a deep green. She hates that about herself, and she doesn't mean to do it. Remember, she loves you. Reassure her that you love her too.

On that topic, she need constatnt reassure. Tell her you love her and mean it. If you can do that, leave. She deserves more than that.

There will be nights when she goes out and drinks a little too much. She'll call you to bring her home. When you do, she'll try to keep you up all night by tickling you and repeating "I love you and I'm sorry I'M annoying" She's not annoying. But make sure she has plenty of water and don't let her passed out until she drinks it, or se will be misserable in the morning.

She is te most independen woman I know. But she's so insecure, it still breaks my heart. So when she starts an arguments with "You don't love me." Don not get upset. Remind her you do and the reasons why. She'll come around.

The cat comes first. Always. Don't everything otherwise.

When she's having an anxiety attack, wrap her up in your arms and wrap her back. Tell her she's safe and remind her hat she has medication if she needs it.

If you cannot treat her like royality, let someone else. That girl deserves the world.

Losing her is pain you will never shake. Your world will come crushing down on you and those pieces won't ever fit the way tehy used to. Don't let her go.

She will love you with all she's got. Please give her the same. I am begging you to not hurt her. She is golden. Don't let that shine die out.

Give her your all and she'll return the favor. You will never have to ask the universe for anything ever again." -Sincerely, a name you'll hear in the passing.

MY HEART HURTS

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I liked that about her. She was unpredictable. Sometimes the things she said and did were surprising. Sometimes they disturbed me. But she was exciting, and that’s what I liked most. She was so many, many things but she was never once boring.

S. Zhao (via blossomfully)

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It’s normal if u miss someone when you are alone. But if u miss someone when you are outside with friends, thats true love.

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1. Your first heartbreak is going to be the worst. You’ll be fine within the year. 2. She doesn’t care if you cut your wrists or your legs or your hands or feet for her. Don’t do it. 3. Enveloping yourself in a book or movie on a Friday night is okay. There will be parties next weekend, too. 4. Don’t play hard to get. Don’t play any games at all. If you have to play a game with someone to get them to fall for you, they aren’t worth it. 5. When you find out she cheated and you run out of the restaurant and punch a light pole til your knuckles are bleeding and bruised, remember that people can see you. Don’t show them how weak you are. 6. When you find the next girl who makes you feel something for the first time after your last break up, do not trust her. She knows you are vulnerable and she will use it against you. 7. Run from anyone you feel a magnetic pull towards. If you are drawn to someone you barely know, run. That will never end well. 8. Thank your parents. They really do love you. 9. Your priorities should be yourself, then school, then partying. In that order. 10. You’re gonna wanna say, “I love you” much sooner than you should. Make sure you’re both ready for it. 11. You don’t NEED anyone but yourself and a good group of people that loves you. A girl will not fill the void in your heart. 12. You can like whatever music or movies you want. Don’t let anyone tell you you’re bad or stupid for the things you enjoy. 13. When your animal dies it’s gonna break your fucking heart. It’s okay. 14. Never open your mouth when you’re angry. 15. It’s okay to cry. Whether it’s because you failed a test, the book/movie was really good, or your chest is ripped wide open because she left without a warning, you can cry. 16. People are gonna leave. That’s not a reflection of you, don’t blame yourself. 17. Smoking cigarettes will not benefit you in any way. Stop while you’re ahead. 18. If you are not a whole person, do not try to date someone. Two halves don’t make a whole. They make a broken and toxic relationship. 19. If she calls you on your birthday and tell you she’s seeing someone else, do not stay on the phone with her and cry. Do not tell her you miss her. Say, “I’ve gotta go, it’s my birthday.” And never speak to her again. 20. You are always good enough. If people don’t want you, it’s a reflection of their shortcomings, not your own.

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