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I’m sorry if I just can’t bring myself to sympathize with men who wish violence upon women and go so far as to encourage it among their peers. I find it difficult to see eye to eye with someone who wants to control my every sexual decision, and if I do not bend to his will, he will kill me. 

I can acknowledge that the patriarchy affects everyone, and capitalism plays a role in how incels view the world as well, but we have to ask ourselves how a subset of mostly white men are going so far as to idolize violent murderers who commit acts of hate against women because they feel entitled to their body.

Do these men hate themselves? Yes, and that is the fault of the culture that surrounds us. The culture that also impacts women, far more so than men. It sucks, and feminists are doing all we can to combat it, but these men are choosing misogyny, a lot of them a lot easier than others.

Their hatred of women runs deep, a lot more than their dissatisfaction with themselves.

I agree that the specific culture surrounding dating is often toxic and scary, but I would argue that dating isn’t the issue for most of the men who call themselves incels. They don’t just want to date women, they want to control every aspect of their being and are willing to become violent to do so.

The incel does not just want to date, he wants to date the “Stacy,” he wants the exceedingly hot woman that he feels entitled too, and most of the time in his mind Stacy is blond, white, thin, and cis. We should have a discussion about dating and how young men navigate it, without dismissing how much their hatred of women plays a role. Incels actively reject women who do not adhere to a particular stereotype, the hot cheerleader. 

The majority of them turn their noses up at average girls, so we can’t just say an incel is an incel due solely to self-loathing when I would argue misogyny is the primary factor, self-loathing is a close second.

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Good morning, Who are we cancelling today?

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i cant watch the new sabrina because she looks like r. she really looks just like ros. like r

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Same energy

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me,swimming:wow this is amazing i love the ocean

me, when seaweed touches my foot: I imagine death so much it feels more like memory

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Dudes really talk a lot about No Nut November considering how many of their girlfriends have been doing a No Orgasm for the Entire Damn Relationship

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ever wanna raise an emotionally sound child just to flex on your parents ?

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This Restaurant Has The Wildest Wing Pricing Structure And People Are Doing Math To Try To Figure It Out

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Weak Trope: Having a character’s driving motivation be REVENGE up until the last second when they pull the “revenge won’t bring my wife/sister/town/three-eared dog back” and leave the bastard they’ve been hunting down alive.

Strong Trope: Hello! My Name! Is Inigo Montoya! You Killed My Father! Prepare! TO! DIE! *corners count rugen* Beg for your life *slashes cheek* Offer me anything I want in the world!  *slashes other cheek* I WANT MY FATHER BACK, YOU SON OF A BITCH. *stabs count rugen to death*

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Those are some damn cleaned glass doors

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I work at a coffee shop and have gotten all my co-workers to start calling lattes “hot milkybois”

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i need both of these now