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graphics based on urls ▽▼▽ bumblecas

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love is the most beautiful feeling in the world.

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Spn characters as lps pets

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i’m BACK FROM CON and SPN IS BACK FROM HIATUS! but i’m still super exhausted! IT’S POST-SPN SCOUTTHOUGHTS!

AW WAS JACK DREAMING ABOUT THE BROTHERS JUST GENERALLY LIKING HIM?? I WANNA CRY

oo oh oh no he wasn’t uh oh, oh my god jack sweetheart :((((

SHUT UP FAKE CAS

DARN RIGHT, JAC—mike how DARE you HURT my NOUGAT SON

DEANCAS ROADTRIIIIIP

“they are equally pretty” LMAO I AM DYING

THE SMALL ONE

“you are very beautiful” gOd it’s like having a conversation with friends this is the best

donaTELLO THAT WAS VERY UNCOOL

JACK IS SO CUTE. HE. IS SO CUTE

bobbyyyyyyyyyyyy

oh shit lol i forgot donny doesn’t have a soul

[me, every 5 seconds:] that’s not gabriel

LOL BYE ZACH

man chuck sure did wanna make opening a rift a real bitch huh

there was no gabe but. he’ll be back

he’ll

be back

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NEW YORK!!!! We will be there in 10 DAYS for 2 NIGHTS!!! Henkka and Jaska have a message for you!

SOURCE: COBHCOFFICIAL

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CoB TV - Part 3

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New one from Big Pharma, which is the solo project of Jussi Ylikoski from Disco Ensemble.  This time he borrows the voice of Ville Malja, vocalist of the band Lapko. They are United By The Night. Funny how this track first sounds like a pretty has-been tune from the beginning of the millennium, but then turns a bit hardcore. A bit. I don’t know what really is hardcore anymore.

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RUNNING WILD

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CONQUISTADORES.

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Hello, My Hunter

*Re-posting for my lovely day-time followers!*

This my response to Hey There, Castiel. Casually stole my album art from this cool chick.

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Hello, my hunter Yes I know, I’ve heard you calling I’m a thousand miles away but yet, You know I’m right here listening Wanting to Wishing I could somehow see you too And walk with you

—— Please understand that what I do I do for you And underneath the painful lies, A heart that’s bleeding so consistently for you Someday you’ll understand this too I hope you do

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Oh why won’t you let me be? x4 Please stop haunting me.

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Hello, my hunter You have lost so much already It hurts me to know I’m steadily Adding to your pain Simply by being here Wish I was what you never knew To not construe

—— Hell is no feat compared to Healing of a broken heart Searching endlessly for what I know That I once had found inside of you Ruthlessly stolen from you, too I know that’s true

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Oh why won’t you let me be? x4

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I walk alone But faith I hold That someday I will make it home A journey that will bring me back to you

—— I haven’t strayed Just far away The depth of hell My prison cell Has left my heart a cold and empty shell

—— I play these strings Broken they seem But hope is all I have to dream So hold on there my sweet and precious Dean I’ve bled a stream

—— Hello, my hunter Hope is all we have to hunger Your words they hurt me deeply your lost faith I find so daunting and abstruse Without it what do we have left to choose Without it what do I have left to lose True hell is living without you My faith is you

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Oh why won’t you let me be? x4 Please stop haunting me.

*EDIT* You guys can now download it here!

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Hey there, Dean, this is little brother Sammy. I know Cas is back and you’re already busy with the starring yet again and still you say he’s just a friend Dean, don’t pretend Hey there, Dean, when you tend to Cas’s wounds I feel just a bit uncomfortable. That’s why I left the room, left you alone Tried to provide a stepping stone But still you won’t… Oh, just kiss Cas already Oh the tensions killing me Oh just kiss Cas already Oh just kiss him, will you Dean? Don’t be a sissy, Dean. Hey there, Castiel, I know this year’s been pretty rough with Purgatory and Naomi’s work I’m sure you’ve had enough But now you’re free Maybe even free to be with Dean If you know what I mean. Hey there, Castiel, I know that since you’re from above You’ve probly never quite understood what it means to be in love, so I’ll explain It’s joy and fear and sacrifice and pain But it’s not in vain Oh, you’re in love with Dean Oh, I hope you finally see Oh, you’re in love with Dean Oh, you’re the one he needs Every time you leave or disappear He’s constantly consumed by fear You don’t know how much he wants you to stay And Dean I’m getting sick of this I know you hate chick flick moments But hiding how you feel isn’t the way It’s more than just a profound bond What you two share is pure and strong And you are all that’s standing in the way You’re both to blame So Dean and Castiel I guess I’ll be heading out You’ll need the privacy to talk and move some furniture around And Cas feel free To show the pizza man to Dean Ya know he calls the Impala baby That kinda makes you a babysitter, Dean Okay, okay, I’ll leave… Oh, it’s finally happening Oh, can’t wait to tell Charlie Oh it’s finally happening Oh maybe for once they’ll be They’ll get to be happy.

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i love s6 destiel. "me and dean do share a more profound bound", "cas get out of my ass" "i was never in your...", "youre just a baby in a trench coat", "the worst part was dean trying so hard to be loyal" okay you couldve painted your skin all colors of the rainbow and it wouldve been less obvious

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Source: Heavier Trip (2024)

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John Winchester and Child Neglect:  A Comprehensive Study.

It’s been a somewhat divisive subject within the fandom as to what kind of a parent John Winchester was.  Frequently, I see posts pop up on my dash defending John, claiming that he loved his sons and did the best he could under the circumstances.  Others claim John was blatantly abusive.

Well, I think it’s pertinent to lay the matter to rest once and for all:  he undeniably was.

And we needn’t look to subtext for signs of physical abuse, either (though as many others have pointed out, there is plenty there): child neglect is the most common form of child abuse, and it is textually evident throughout the series.

The NSPCC defines the basic needs of children as follows, all of which John gratuitously neglected:

1.  Basic physical care.

The NSPCC maintains that children should be provided with “warmth, shelter, adequate food and rest, grooming (hygiene) and protection from danger.”

Whether or not the various motel rooms they frequented could be equated to proper shelter, John routinely left his sons without enough food to share between them:

Young Dean is shown giving his portion of cereal up for baby Sam, and is later shown to have been forced to resort to stealing in order to feed him.  

Even in his adulthood, when asked if he had ever been “really hungry.  Like, not eaten for days hungry,” Dean emphatically replies that he had. 

The signs of hygienic neglect are slightly more subtle, but also present: after spending the summer without Dean, for example, young Sam is shown in clothes that are obviously too big and unbuttoned at the sleeves.    

And as for “protection from danger?”  Well, unless you count giving your small children loaded firearms, sufficed to say it was nonexistent. 

2.  Affection:

As the NSPCC puts it, healthy affection “includes physical contact, holding, stroking, cuddling and kissing, comforting, admiration, delight, tenderness, patience, time, making allowances for annoying behaviour, and general companionship and approval.”

Obviously, there was a point at which John would have provided his sons with adequate physical affection, but after Mary’s death it appears to be basically nonexistent.  

He is shown to criticize Dean fairly consistently (”I wouldn’t have given you that car if I thought you were going to ruin it”), was unreasonably harsh in response to his childhood shortcomings (e.g. failing to protect Sam from a monster when he was ten), and “leaving him to rot” for the summer at a boy’s home for stealing food at the age of sixteen.

3.  Security:

According to the NSPCC, security constitutes as “continuity of care, the expectation of continuing in the stable family unit, a predictable environment, consistent patterns of care and daily routine, simple rules and consistent controls and a harmonious family group.”

John constantly moved his children from one motel to another for the duration of their childhood.  This prevented his children from formulating any lasting friendships with people their age, the effects of which are most evident in “After School Special:”  Sam is left feeling like “a freak” in comparison to his peers, whereas Dean has already carefully developed his hypermasculine public image.

Moreover, John is predominantly absent in their lives, routinely missing holidays and disappearing for days on end.  Hardly a stable parental figure for the boys to fall back on.   

4.  Stimulation and innate potential: 

The NSPCC defines this as “praise and encouragement; curiosity and exploratory behavior. By developing skills though responsiveness to questions and to play, by promoting educational opportunities.”

Even disregarding John’s blatant discouragement of Sam’s pursuit of higher education, this is most evident in the characteristics of the boys themselves:  

Sam is ambitious, motivated, self-disciplined, and academic.  He prides himself on his ability to succeed in scholastic environments and conduct research, which got him a free ride to an ivy league university at the start of the series.  

These are all characteristics typical of a firstborn child, whereas Dean’s laid-back persona is more typical of a second or third born.  

As others have pointed out, this is because Sam WAS a first born child…to Dean.  

The reason first-borns are typically such high achievers is because their parents treat each success as a momentous occasion, whereas their successors typically garner less attention.  Dean was never praised for his accomplishment by John, whereas Dean provides Sam with a surprising amount of support and encouragement. 

Even John’s journal takes note of this, stating that when Sam took his first steps, he immediately went to Dean.

5.  Guidance and control.  

“To teach adequate social behaviour which includes discipline within the child’s understanding and capacity and which requires patience and a model for the child to copy, for example in honesty and concern and kindness for others.”

John taught Dean how to perform various illegal activities, including credit card fraud and hustling pool. 

This makes it doubly ironic that he reacted so violently to Dean stealing food or getting drunk as a teenager, considering he didn’t exactly set the best standard for upstanding citizenship.  Maybe he was just upset he got caught?

6.  Responsibility. 

“For small things at first such as self-care, tidying playthings or taking dishes to the kitchen and gradually elaborating the decision making that the child has to learn in order to function adequately, gaining experience through his/her mistakes as well as his/her stresses and receiving praise and encouragement to strive to do better.”

This one is a little different, considering John arguably entrusted too much responsibility to children his sons’ age.  Nevertheless, the fact remains that he gave almost no encouragement to the boys for performing these tasks, leading Dean to realize John was possessed when he told him he was proud of him.   

And finally…

7.  Independence. 

“To make his/her own decisions first about small things but increasingly about the various aspects of his/her own life within the confines of the family and society’s codes. Parents use fine judgement in encouraging independence and in letting the child see and feel the outcome of his or her own capacity. Protection is needed, but over-protection is as bad as responsibility and independence too early.”

John militaristically handles his sons, expecting them to be basically subservient to him and to obey his orders at all costs.  He forcibly cut Sam out of his life when he chose to become independent in his adulthood, electing to attend college instead of continue hunting. 

Moreover, Sam is visibly surprised that John let Dean go hunting alone at the age of twenty-six.

In conclusion, the reason I find John Winchester defendists so irksome is not that they demonstrate any real ill will, but that they demonstrate society’s fundamental understanding of what abuse looks like and the forms that it can take.  

Moreover, they demonstrate the popular misconception that because someone is well-intentioned, likable, or even sympathetic under some circumstances, that they cannot be abusive.  

I’m not saying John wasn’t worthy of pity.  I’m not saying he wasn’t without redeeming qualities.  I’m not even saying he didn’t love his sons.

I’m saying that he was, by definition, canonically abusive.  And we, as a fandom, need to acknowledge this fact once and for all.    

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The boys need to get jackets like this made where the studs are made out of iron and wear them on ghost hunts

Ghost tries to grab them? Haha sucker, you just grabbed iron

No need to carry wrenches and crowbars, just swing your arm and hit them with the wrist studs