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✨ 250 Follower Giveaway ✨

It's been crazy seeing so many people follow and interact with my blog, I greatly appreciate all of you! :')

To celebrate the new year I wanna do something fun!

‼️I am giving away the following content:

⚡Choice of 2 (yet unreleased) picture packs!

⚡A choice of 1 video from my manyvids store!

How do I qualify for these 2 gifts?

1. Make sure you follow me!

2. Like this post!

3. Reblog this post!

Submissions will close on the 1st of January!

Winner will be announced on the 3rd of January!

GOOD LUCK!

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The place where I can't seem to find any female hearts I can restart 😔

Translation: I'm in England 🇬🇧

Hello dear heart lovers, steth lovers, resus lovers and everyone from the community. 💗

🌍 Where are you from? 🌍💗

Please reblog this post to expand the community 🙌🏻🥳

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I wouldn't recommend that I wouldn't need to do it

Sorry, what on earth are you referring to?

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So I wanted to thank those who welcomed me back after my brief health scare, I was talking with @resuscouple13 and @heartbeater12092 and it got me thinking about resus and my kink. I had asked resuscouple why they had left originally and paraphrasing basically the answer was "creeps and a lack of genuine interaction with people" which is a pretty common feeling I've been wrestling with since I've come back, I had recently lamented to @breathlessangelrh how much the community had changed in the last 10 years from a connection driven community to a content driven community. I don't think its our fault, however just as a symptom of the changing sex industry on the internet. It is what it is. I was reminded of an article I had read years ago (and I can not find it someone please tell me they also remember this article because I don't think I fever dreamed it) in my conversations with heartbeater today. The tl:dr of the article was some guy had found I want to say OPandER and shown his medical professional wife who proceeded to laugh at how out of date many of the practices were- like defib paddles, and he came to the conclusion that the resus fetish was a form of "acceptable violence" specifically against women (and this was at the height of the me too movement so this was a pretty natural conclusion to draw in that context) I had always felt a little uneasy about this analysis of the community, I thought back to the start of my resus interests and being bullied and struggling with relationships as a teenager and the narrative that my fetish was the result of teenage angst against the heteronormative relationships that I was struggling to fit into- seemed fitting. But it still felt off. Until today- In the conversation with heartbeater I had asked the fairly standard "so what do you like about this" question and the answer was a profoundly simple (again paraphrased) 'its a form of care'

I've struggled in the last few days having been forced to face my own mortality in a very real way, and also face what it is that makes me, me, and I've often been told "I care," care about ideas, people, doesn't matter there is an underlying 'give a shit' about me that I suppose my ADHD brain can't facilitate as unnatural, though none-the-less is. In heartbeaters words, and resuscouple's and my lamenting of lack of connection, and in the context of that article I think I might understand what I'm looking for, and what others are seemingly looking for. Are there resus fans who are utilizing resus as a form of "acceptable violence?" Yes, undoubtedly- look at some of the real content on other sites, look at how some members of this community talk to and objectify other members and I have no real words for them because there's nothing I am going to say or anyone else has said that is going to change that- frankly that's a them problem. But resus kinkdom is also a form of deep care, of wanting to keep someone alive

So for those of us out there that care, don't let those who are here for the violence scare you away, find your niche, find your community where you will be cared for as much as you care for others and let the beauty that is this aspect of your sexuality (and the caring that comes with it) shine.

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Code is so damn cute 😍

Despite getting some pretty rude comments on my Tumblr, still gonna share pics here I took recently - hope people like them! Looks like I am cursed to be petite as even hrt can't give me sizeable boobs... Oh well, at least I got curves!

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So I wanted to thank those who welcomed me back after my brief health scare, I was talking with @resuscouple13 and @heartbeater12092 and it got me thinking about resus and my kink. I had asked resuscouple why they had left originally and paraphrasing basically the answer was "creeps and a lack of genuine interaction with people" which is a pretty common feeling I've been wrestling with since I've come back, I had recently lamented to @breathlessangelrh how much the community had changed in the last 10 years from a connection driven community to a content driven community. I don't think its our fault, however just as a symptom of the changing sex industry on the internet. It is what it is. I was reminded of an article I had read years ago (and I can not find it someone please tell me they also remember this article because I don't think I fever dreamed it) in my conversations with heartbeater today. The tl:dr of the article was some guy had found I want to say OPandER and shown his medical professional wife who proceeded to laugh at how out of date many of the practices were- like defib paddles, and he came to the conclusion that the resus fetish was a form of "acceptable violence" specifically against women (and this was at the height of the me too movement so this was a pretty natural conclusion to draw in that context) I had always felt a little uneasy about this analysis of the community, I thought back to the start of my resus interests and being bullied and struggling with relationships as a teenager and the narrative that my fetish was the result of teenage angst against the heteronormative relationships that I was struggling to fit into- seemed fitting. But it still felt off. Until today- In the conversation with heartbeater I had asked the fairly standard "so what do you like about this" question and the answer was a profoundly simple (again paraphrased) 'its a form of care'

I've struggled in the last few days having been forced to face my own mortality in a very real way, and also face what it is that makes me, me, and I've often been told "I care," care about ideas, people, doesn't matter there is an underlying 'give a shit' about me that I suppose my ADHD brain can't facilitate as unnatural, though none-the-less is. In heartbeaters words, and resuscouple's and my lamenting of lack of connection, and in the context of that article I think I might understand what I'm looking for, and what others are seemingly looking for. Are there resus fans who are utilizing resus as a form of "acceptable violence?" Yes, undoubtedly- look at some of the real content on other sites, look at how some members of this community talk to and objectify other members and I have no real words for them because there's nothing I am going to say or anyone else has said that is going to change that- frankly that's a them problem. But resus kinkdom is also a form of deep care, of wanting to keep someone alive

So for those of us out there that care, don't let those who are here for the violence scare you away, find your niche, find your community where you will be cared for as much as you care for others and let the beauty that is this aspect of your sexuality (and the caring that comes with it) shine.

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resus ask prompts ! 💗🏩

send me a number through my asks & i'll answer (anonymous or not) ! 🌟 feel free to reblog & let your followers ask you! ✨

1. what made you interested in resus?

2. how old were you when you first realised you were into it?

3. aed or defibs?

4. do you prefer professional videos or homemade?

5. do you like self resus?

6. are you into a more realistic scenario or sexual/fantasy scenario?

7. rescuer or victim?

8. would you ever rp in person?

9. would you prefer to be rescued/saved by a male presenting person or female presenting?

10. hard or shallow compressions?

11. hollywood style defibs or other?

12. mouth to mouth or ambu bag / artificial respiration?

13. stething or ecg?

14. does anyone in your life outside of your blog know about your love for resus?

15. have you ever purchased any resus related films?

have fun & be safe ! always get consent & set boundaries before role playing - whether that be online or in person & do not send anyone unsolicited nudes ! thanku 💓

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What I'd give to be handling a lady's tits 😔

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Can't wait to have this thing tell me what I already know; people irritate me and what I eat is bad.

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Friendly reminder I block empty account please at least reblog one thing heart related if you’re going to follow me.

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Is it bad that part of why I'm hesitant to try ECT for my mental health issues is that it might make me cum?

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Still one of the best romances ever put to film

One of my top ships cauuusssssseee han solo :) :) He says he won't lead the resistance (but we all know thats not trueee)

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Vent Time

Yay! Even more new followers for my blog who've got no interest in my kinks :/

If this is that "follow 4 a follow" type BS, then just unfollew me immediately. The sole purpose of me being on this site is to interact with like minded people. I don't post on here to gain clout just for the sake of clout.

I have spoken.

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Just gave the same ask to 7 different people on here

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Slipping on ear defenders to zone out to the noise of my own pump

Not quite the substitute for a stethoscope mind you, but it gets points for being hands free

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Sometimes it feels like I'm the only Aquaphille out there who DISLIKES or doesn't get crazy horny for the following:

. breath holds

. wetsuits/drysuits

. drowning

Using some apparatus to breathe under water while in nothing apart from fins, weight belts etc is the majority of the community's appeal for me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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