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🌙 ISFPs I KNOW BY AN INFP 🌙

(Distant Soul-mates... )

1. TEENAGERS. INFPs are youthful but not ISFP youthful... I say “teenagers” NOT AS AN INSULT tho... I feel young on the areas ISFPs are mature about... They prob think we are babies. But I see most of them as an angsty teen. Which can be cool or just straight-up drama-rama. They also have a rep of being a lil reckless... Which is the result of them being Se aux... Who lives in the moment.

 There are definitely LOTs of things to learn aboutttt..... Living in the moment tho, of course. But, driven by Fi. They can be TOO abrupt. They don’t always make themselves be FELT tho... But when they do... IT WILL BE HARD NOT TO NOTICE. 

2. CONTROLLED-SUBSTANCE. HAHAHAHA. I think ISFPs are dangerous. They are like drugs. That is why they don’t always have to be OUT-THERE. And they know it for themselves... They are not like a “community-staple” like an ESFJ or an ISFJ... They are not the governing forces... Like the EXTJs. or the over-watchers & enforcers like the ISTJ police. Or the observers like INxxs... BUT. They are supposed to be the “secret weapons”... That SHOULD just pop-up when you yell-out ☆ ☆ ☆ “RELEASE THE KRAKEN” ☆ ☆ ☆ (Kinda like ISTPs too lol) The controlled substance of the community...ISFPs, I know you hate to be controlled. But YOU GOTTA LOVE TO ADMIT. That you are something that isn’t to be taken lightly...or heavily. 🤧

3. INTERACTIONS.  I call them my distant soulmates because we connect but at the same time feel we’re entirely from different planets. We could be best of friends due to the differences. But the excitement can wear-out. We seemingly have the same roles in a social-setting but our default modes are from entirely different planes of existence!!! We have innate & initial curiosity around each other’s primary mode of living... (Since we’re both Fi doms) BUT. The “same role in a social-setting” can send us into some sort of unspoken RIVALRY. Much like what i wrote w/ INFJs hahaha. But INFJs are more of thatttt imo tho. 

With ISFPs, it’s generally just this awkward “a childhood friend you grew apart with ‘coz you no longer find each other cool”. HAHAHA. NOT THAT I DON’T FIND Y’ALL COOL. It’s that disconnection of Sensing & Intuition I guess? We no longer share the topics. It’s more of SURFACE LEVEL FRIENDSHIP naaaw. Our differences doesn’t spark curiosity anymore.. IT CAN DIE FAST. As we finish each other’s sentences... We have the same train of thought yesz but.... It’s the day-to-day ACTIVITIES that bore us around each other I guess?? Honestly wish I have atleast ONE ISFP loyal bestfriend!! To just live in the moment with. Too much of ‘em is OVERDOSE................. hahaha. HALF-KIDDING. (even if y’all don’t like half-hearted messes.) but too much means divided attention too & ya wouldn’t want that right? Esp. From an INFP who can’t for the life of me juggle too many people... Sike! Although... I’d still love to have MANY ISFPs as they all bring different flavors as individuals... **excites**

4. FIRE. Not everyone can handle ISFPs tho. Heck it’s even harder for them to handle themselves. Imagine having FIRE as your element?? If I’m gonna create a fictional character w/ FIRE as their main element.... I’ll have no doubt typing it as ISFP... Or... ESFP... Both can embody fire honestly. It’s the intense ball of fire energy that an Introverted Feeling CAN be manifested-out by Extroverted Sensing,,, That recklessness. But since ISFPs are introverts... They’re more recluse than their extroverted counterpart which is seen to be more reckless. But it’s this inner boil that really draws me in...........

5. MYSTICISM. I relate to ENTJs & INTJs when it comes to... JUST DEFINING EVERYTHING. I kinda have it in me to NOT LIKE ☆~MYSTICISM~☆ & just NOT be okay with all the ‘blurriness’ in life... But I also relate to ISFPs sense of aestheticism... Expressing to paradoxically make themselves even more MYSTERIOUS. They remind me of PRIVACY... And how not everything has to be spilled but only be spilled with greater intention of......................... boundary-setting?? I’m not quite sure if I’m reading it right but ISFPs don’t wanna be thoroughly read. THEY WANT TO BE FELT. UNDERSTOOD... And it’s really beautiful how they keep themselves & everyone else in-touch with HUMANITY™ per se. In very subtle ways...

6. FRIENDSHIPS. Aiggghht. I noticed a pattern in my writing that the last part always seem to be about me talking about each type’s leadership. ISFP as a leader is very FRIENDLY. They can genuinely be!! ORRR THEY CAN FAKE IT ‘TILL THEY MAKE IT... I believe they are more than capable to act intimidating for the sake of intimidation. Which is needed in leadership. ISFPs I’ve seen are either the most level-headed people OR just straight-up petty. Lol. 

So, it will depend on their maturity what type of managerial quality they are going to portray with you... Haha. But maybe, younger ISFPs just can’t for the life of them fake their annoyance whatnot with handling humans. So they’ll portray a more petty approach. Which is satisfying to watch when everyone has just been deduced to AI-like people-pleasing lol. 

 I’ve posted in one fb group before that ISFPs are “the most social anti-social human beings”. Lots of positive reactions from ISFPs btw. *sighs in relief* I think ISFPs inwardly loathe humans. HAHAHA. Or they try to be...  The embodiment of the passive-aggressive ---> **eye-roll emoji**... HAHAHA.WELL.  Basically, it’s just part of their “boundary-setting”... I guess? Because they share Fi-dom’s “SNOWFLAKEYNESS” w/ us INFPs. basically... It’s just defense mechanism. To protect their inner baby core. Second to INTJs to being “Tsunderes”. We are just the third (INFPs lol)..........

But both ENTJs & ISFPs CAN have this “mean girl energy” to them... Both are very inept at & capable of SOCIAL MANIPULATION. ISFPs being more intentional... and... petty... HAHAHA. Because ENTJs wouldn’t even know they’re being mean & are just heavily intoxicated w/ their goals to notice. Lol. ISFPs can have full awareness and control of other people’s perception of them... If they decide to give a FUDGE. They CAN be ultra concerned about their identity and the impact they have to other people. ISFPs can be extremely PICKY about people too and their interactions. Fi is kind of “elitist” NGL... So ye. 

Also, their primary leadership might have to be what they allow for others to do with them. And it’s like their CHOICES are their very leadership. Be it people or their expensive taste about... Items, music, etc... They can be extremely INFLUENTIAL.

It just depends on ISFP’s maturity but they could use their social prowess either for good or bad. So, this is a warning to get to their good side. Lol. But they’ll smell your intent anyway that you only do that out of fear. So why try? Run.  🌙

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🌷 INFPs I KNOW BY AN INFP 🌷

(Homies.)

1. SENSITIVES. What else is there to say than the obvious? Passionate people who are often interesting. Over-qualified to even be interested. Over-emotional to be qualified. Highly idealistic. Who are LOWKEY Elitists. Maker of Universes. University-Drop-outs. Of course, I have to self-deprecate to balance that ego.

2. INTENSE. Balance is often the key with INFPs. Being one is complicated enough. How much more doing life as one? I have tried being another type to get away from my own intensity. But it is often the case with us. Fi is massive ball of fire energy. It is powerful.~With the right balance.~

3. OTHER INFPs. INFP Males. There are variations. MANY VARIATIONS. The cutesy guitar-plucking giggly fire. The handsome swift-you-off-your-feet Hero. The rockstar humanitarian. The deep ocean blue poet. 💙 Or mixture of those. WE ARE ALL DREAMY. And we often want to act something far bigger than ourselves. Or beyond human normalcy. 🤣 Like, we get to pick out a personality like them Sims Characters. You don't own me. I am being owned by another entity controlling my psyche already. We're not even getting to the girls yet... I am not even getting there anymore. I'll leave that to your imagination. ✨ (As often what is the case with us. Tahaha)

4. TENACITY. With great intensity comes great tenacity. Holding things in. They are keeper of the flames. The 'life' of the party. Don't ask me how. I just don't want to stroke the ego of INFPs too much. But each one of us holds a VITAL. Ackkkk. You know it. I hope you do. If you're an INFP. HOPE YOU FIND YOUR ELEMENT. We start with the element but we don't stop there. Or so I hope. We got a lot of things to do. And we do it. If it has reached that level of epicness already. We're drawn to the epic and would not stop until we get there. Leaving us exhausting ourselves. Over-exerting. And we wouldn't live any other way. You'll never know PASSION until you have met an INFP awakened to their senses.

5. MANIC CREATIVES. As for the aforementioned already.

6. The OGs. Emotions are just the start tho with these people. They are originators. Who delves into the origin of things. They are often in-touch with the basics of things. And aren't afraid to branch out. They start with their cause and then they proceed with the costs of developing it. They have brains. BIG BRAINS. Not really that complicated or fancy. If you're gonna ask me. (sike~~  humble lords) Often trailblazers. This is their leadership. 🙏

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🌸 ISFJs I KNOW BY AN INFP 🌸

(Dear to me.)

1. GENTLE BABIES. Let's go to the stereotype first. Even though. You actually wouldn't get into this side of the ISFJ until you look closely. They are one of the biggest population. BUT THEY SEEM TO BE DIFFERENT FROM EACH OTHER. And the most fun side is that, that's on the outside. On the inside they are all... Gentle babies! 🥰 (Who can snap at you!)

2. SKILLFUL. I am charmed by ALMOST every ISFJ ever. We are all created differently. But it's hard to pin down a general vibe in this group. Since they portray vivid colors as individuals. Perhaps, it is their Introverted Sensing I find awfully charming often really skilled of something. Even on the intellectual part. ISFJs I've met are btw REALLY INTELLECTUAL. And the best part? They got MASTERY. Usually. They treat their craft seriously. If they deem to. If they are dedicated enough. You'll often see them highly skilled. What's even more charming? Is that they are VERYYY HUMMMBBBLLLEEE. Down-to-earth. Someone hug them or give them medal or something. They have this rep of being doormat. But honestly I see that they are coming from a place of great SECURITY. They don't really need much praises as much as most types do. But they definitely NEED it as well. So, do not hesitate to give them love these babies. They're all about that anyway and giving it tremendously.

3. VIVID. They have a flair for drama these people. They are often aesthetic. Could def pull-up a classic look. Like vintage. They have STYLE. I even think they have more originality than Fi doms sometimes. Since they are very 'in-touch' with their roots. Did I mention sensuality? They have mature vibes on them since young. You'ld wonder what has been taking your puberty so long. 🤔

4. LEADERSHIP. AGGGHHHHHH. I can't stress this enough. They are underrated leaders. (See KPOP.) I don't even have to see KPOP. In real life, they are still my underrated leaders. Look at them. Even unintentional. They are leading. They are leading by example. Action > Persuasive Speech. Not that I'm biased with action. I also value persuasive speech. Because leaders aren't supposed to DO everything ya knowww. But they can definitely latch at you as leaders tho!!! That's hyperly more scary since they are often really credible!!! 😬 They can also be a little... Drama-rama 'bout it too.

5. INTERACTIONS. ISFJ Males. I've encountered. I find them attractive. Well-put-together. Often Charming. Intelligent. Depending on assertiveness. Others can be shy. Others just like dressing up. They try to maintain their good looks. They are also very helpful. I can't really generalize to be honest. ARGGHHH. All ISFJs are diff I tell you. Others are sporty. Others are nerds. I tell you. This has got to be the most diverse group. We haven't even gotten to the females yet... Well. Female ISFJs. I think I can pin this one better? I have better interactions. ISFJ females are grounded. But have inner passion within them. Fiercely devotional to people or causes they are dedicated in? Whatever ISFJs choose to be. They have individuality. 👌

6. LEADERSHIP. ARRGGHHH. I'm repeating this. Because I cannot stress it enough. Besides I can't think of anything other than their freaking underratedness. Especially in their leadership. Oftentimes they just get contented with mastering stuff rather than showcasing their epicness to people to be emulated. Sometimes, they drift into people-pleasing instead. But yeah. What would the world be with ISFJs leading? Or atleast being spoken of by an ENTP or something? Substitute title for no. 6 tho is CHARMING. They can. They will. Even if they actually don't need to. 😆🙏🌸

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🌼 INFJs I KNOW BY AN INFP 🌼

(Got this one first. Ode to the originator of these series.)

1. DEEP. I can always distinguish INFJs and INFPs. First, because I'm surrounded by these types. And I am INFP myself. I don't even get how people can confuse them. Ni is deep. Not Fi deep. I think INFJs are watery. INFPs are airy. Ni itself is water. While Aux Ne is air. I think INTJs are also... Watery but in a more rigid way. INFJs can try to look tough. But are humanitarian to the core.

2. MALE INFJs. Are Glorious. There is not a single INFJ male who hasn't any INFP fangirl. Somewhere on the deeper waters. Seek and you will find. Idk. INFJs I find are good-looking. And they somehow have this preppy way of carrying themselves. Like Guy-Next-Door. Jesse McCartney like that. They seem to be well-groomed. They just know how to swoon females. Or atleast, INFPs. SORRY FAM FOR EXPOSING Y'ALL MANIC PIXIES. (See INFJ male x INFP female in KPOP 🤣) They have this gentle-man vibes. EPITOME OF GENTLEMAN. Even then, I know they are lowkey pervs. Well-groomed. Well-groomed. Well-groomed. Or atleast, they know how to look like a cozy cuddly bear 🐻 of some sort.

3. FEMALE INFJs. Are Intimidating. 😱 We are just one letter away but my INFP pants shriek in panic. Idk. It's like maybe if you flip switch the gender roles of these guyst they either know how to be treated or know how to treat girls nice. Somewhat like that? I hope I get understood lol. Now. Girls have more variations here. There's the well-put-together and intimidating. And then there's well-put-together but more accomodating. And then there's one who's NOT well-put-together but TRIES TO EVEN ATLEAST LOOK well-put-together. Lowkey perfectionists. But tries to be easy-going. Some of them don't. What else can I say? Yes. Be that standard. 💯 They're just really... Ethical like that. That they probably think of it as a courtesy to the eyes of the public, at least. Motherly vibes. There's variations. There are ones who are so hot. They look like they never would want a baby and they'd stay young forever. And then there's warmth sunshine babies. Who are just radiating light. Aura of positive energy. Gentle breeze. They'd look you in the eyes with hope? Did I mention they're beautiful. *____* The way they carry themselves speaks elegant.

4. INTERACTIONS. Female INFJs I thought I would be close to them but somehow I am quite in the field of deliberately having subconscious competition with them. I don't seem to happen to be in the same social circle as them. We're quite similar in our fields of interest but somehow... Idk. Maybe, we bring the same things to the table. BUT WAAAAYYY different method? Interesting tbh. There are those I could easily connect. Those I do not find intimidating. Hahaha. I know INFJ females are known for having resting b-word faces but some of them could be really hard to crack open and usually I don't bother anymore because as I've said we bring the same things to the table but different methods. And yes, maybe their methods are interesting. But that's really private... And they're usually reserved. And well. I'll leave that curiosity for their counterpart... Male INFJs. Hahaha. There is an attraction. I tell you... Maybe, for the reason that WE WILL NEVER BRING THE SAME THING TO THE TABLE? As different gender species. So there's an instant magnetism of how their system works. Honestly, I'm not quite sure. Because most INFJs are just physically attractive to me. Like their 'being'. It's ridiculous. Even their brooding and darkness and chaos. It's like you would want to be in their mind or something. Sprinkle that manic pixie dusts glitter their brain cramps. Heal their post-traumatic past-life man wounds. 💓

5. SENSITIVES. INFPs have the Rep of being the sensitives. But they carry it well... Well... WE. Like we own it or something. INFJs are intellectualizing their sensitivity and it's cute and depressing to watch as an INFP. Hahaha. Maybe, they find us reckless. It's cute how we infuriate each other sometimes. Hahaha.

6. INTELLECTUALS. Speaking of intellectualizing. These are BIG BRAINS here. No doubt. They are responsible for 80% of whatever's happening in the world right now. Communicating to each other telepathically. Getting to our minds unknowingly. Luckily, I'm a pretty WOKE INFP to perceive this information. 🤣 They can be highly neurotic when presented by this fact. 💯 Your strength is your greatest weakness indeed. Nevertheless, that doesn't meddle with the other fact that they can stay organized despite absorbing of not only knowledge but FEELINGZ. Making them such valuable humanitarians. And even great leaders. Proud. 🙏